Hearing about my girlfriends exes is a turn on...

Does anyone else get turned on about their girlfriends past sexual experiences?

I love to ask questions about it while we have sex... But I feel I am running out of questions, does anyone have any suggestions on what I can ask? I ask things like how many cocks she has sucked and how many guys have blowed their load in her... You get the idea.

 

Heh, oh that has to be the best sex. Sex with a bombardment of questions........

 

Ask her where she has had the must cum sprayed on her at!
Ask her to show you how she used to fuck her favorites!
Ask her what her favorite position was to get fucked in!

Need more? Lol

 

Thanks Jrod11, like the one about where she had the most cum sprayed on her...

 

Ask her if a guy has given her a dirty sanchez or a tony danza

 

What is a dirty sanchez or a tony danza?

 

I'd love it if my wife told sexual stuff about her past, but it's like pulling teeth. She really hates to talk about sex, even when it's about events and/or activities that we both are familiar with. (Case in point: we were in a threesome with a close male friend for about 6 months, many years ago. There's nothing that happened during that time that we don't both know about. Even so, she really gets upset whenever I try to talk about any particular event from that time.)

My wife was a virgin when we met (37 1/2 years ago), but she had a boyfriend in high school that she let do everything to her EXCEPT fuck her. (He kept pressuring her for that too, but she consistently turned him down and eventually broke up with him because of it.) I didn't know about this until about 3 years ago. Prior to that, all she ever told me was that she let a boy "play with her breasts" during her senior year.

Apparently they did a lot more than that. It turns out that they'd go out together every Friday and Saturday night, climb into the back seat of his car, she'd get completely naked, and they'd make out for an hour or two. He'd spend most of the time finger-fucking her and would occasionally go down and eat her pussy. She liked it, which made it that much harder to keep refusing his requests to fuck. If she hadn't been so afraid of getting pregnant, I suspect she'd have given in.

I don't recall exactly what cued me to her having had more sexual experience in high school than she originally indicated, but once I started asking specific questions, I ended up getting all the (above) info out of her. She really didn't like talking about it and never volunteered any additional information beyond responses to my specific questions. (There may actually be more to it than what I know. Unless I think of additional questions to ask her, she'll enlighten me voluntarily.)

It's really a shame. The thought of her describing, in detail, the things that her high school boyfriend did to her, while I'm fucking her, would be the most amazing turn-on!

(In fact, maybe some of you can help out! Having read the material above, if you were me, what other questions might YOU think of to ask her about her activities with her high school boyfriend?)

 

Tony Danza...You are having sex doggy style, you ask her "Who's the boss" When she replies "You", then you hit her in the head and say "Wrong, Tony Danza bitch".

Dirty Sanchez is again doggy style and you put a finger deep in her anus then pull it out and wipe it across her upper lip.

 

I actually like hearing about my boys past though at times I don't know if we are living up to some his experiences or not. I really need to get into this bdsm thing, that's what he did in the past with ropes and cuffs and that sort of thing.

 

ask her how many STDs she's had.

 

Maddick, I guess that is the next step. The idea does turn me on!

 

I will admit that I am one of those "awful" husbands who likes to hear my wife tell about the guys who fucked her before me. My wife has two ex-husbands and several others who have had their dicks in her, so she has a lot to tell.

And, I ask her questions, like "How big were they" and "How many times did they fuck you?" as well as "Where did you fuck?" These are the things that really get me going!

She admitted that her first husband had a thicker cock than I do, but that it wasn't any longer. And her second had a longer, but skinnier cock, so I guess I am about average for her.

Some will not believe this, but I have actually talked with her first husband about when he was fucking her. They were only married for a few years, but they were still young, so they fucked nearly every day, which means that he has fucked her many more times than I have!

In our conversations, he has used the phrase "when I was fucking your wife!" and I have used the words "When you fucked my wife!" I once asked him if he was he one who taught her to suck cock, and he said that he was not, but that he was glad to learn, in years later when they got together to fuck after their divorce, that someone else had done so.

I admitted to him that when I ate her pussy, I couldn't keep from thinking of the guys, like him, who had had their cocks in that same pussy, and had filled it with many loads of their cum!

I also had some nude photos of her, which another guy had taken, then gave me copies. I gave copies to him and when he first saw them, he nearly went ape. In one she was leaning over and her tits were hanging down. In another she was lying back on the bed with her legs spread wide and her very hairy **** fully exposed.

We agreed that "our" wife had a very beautiful body and that we both had been very lucky to have had her as a fuck partner! I think I did mention that he had fucked her several times more after she was married to me! Some might find this weird, but I believe it is perfectly normal to share my wife's pussy with the guy who had fucked it so many times more than I ever will.

 

For Maddick,

The answer to your question is a long and torturous one. It is something that few could understand unless it had happened to them. When I married, the first time, at age 22, I was a virgin, and assumed she was too. Ten years later, during a heated argument, she threw it up to me that she had been fucked by some other guys before she married me.

I can't begin to tell you what a crisis this presented to me. It nearly destroyed me. But I soon realized that the only way there was to survive was to learn to come to terms with the fact that some "other guys" actually had fucked my wife.

Most guys who visit this site will find this ridiculous, and have no problem with the fact that other guys have fucked THEIR wives, but given the culture in which I was raised, it was the ultimate crisis for a young husband.

I won't attempt to go through the whole process which brought me to where I am today, but suffice it to say that I did survive, and the only reason I did is because I was able to think of my own wife as someone that other men SHOULD be able to fuck! If there are any further questions, I will try to answer them.

 

Son of John, Are you bi?

 

Madick, you are exactly right! It is the mental image of another man fucking MY wife that gets me going more than anything else can!

And, to make it even better, there have been a few occasions in which I was right there to watch as another man fucked her! Just think of it! To actually be there! To see YOUR wife lying naked on the bed! To see another guy come up over her, between her legs, and start to push his hardened cock into her ****! To be free to say to this other guy, with complete sincerity, "Fuck my wife, Bill!"

Then to hear her scream out with the kind of orgasm I have seldom provided for her! To see her eyes looking at me, and her lips forming the words "Thank you!" To later hear her say "Thank you for letting him fuck me!" then to fuck her yourself and have one of the very best fuck-sessions of your life!

It cannot possibly get any better than that! But any guy who has never been in this situation will never know the thrill of it, or be able to understand!

 

I had the same situation but I knew she had been with many others before me and it use bug me really bad but like you I had come to terms with it. Then shortly after we had married we went through a little falling out that lead to a short separation. We got through it she admitted to fucking her ex boyfriend a few times during that time. It nearly killed me. It ate at me and I couldn't help but ask all sorts of questions about them. Then finally I began to find it hit and now can't stop thinking about them and she knows this now. She hated it at first cuz she felt so badly of what she done. But I've told her I want her to fuck him again. We have a very strong and lots of communication in our marriage since our fall out and we haven't been happier. She hasn't fucked him again YET but we talk about her past with him and how much she loved the way he flicked her. It's so hot and turns us both on and we have great amazing sex and huge orgasms too.

 

Love those stories from her past. At first she felt guilty because she was supposed to be committed to me. I finally got her to loosen up and the details started flowing. Her first was by far her biggest, but not the best...besides me, of course(?).

 

My good friend was actually her biggest before we met she had been with a few guys and I like hearing about them all and how they fucked her and which were better then the others. I'm not the biggest not the smallest but have been told the nicest looking and the best she's had. Her ex before me is a close second and possibly the best but he only fucked her one way and that was it. But I would love to invite another man to join us. And she says she would live to invite another woman. I'd like to actually get together with our close couple friends. Which ironically enough is the friend that was the biggest 7 or 8 inches she said. Mind you my wife is very petite with an amazing body!! I only hope that we can spice it up and do one of these fantasies!!

 

Yes, I love hearing about my wife's past sex life. We have been married for 11+ years. She dated two guys before me, has sucked 4 cocks before me, and gave at least 4 guys handjobs in high school (two of whom fingered her). Her first bf in college is her favorite so I ask most questions about him. We will do it doggy style and I will ask her if her bf fucked her like this. I will ask about his penis size. My latest question was if my wife had licked his balls before sucking his cock and she said yes. I ask about swallowing a lot. It is a big turn on!

 

My wife still had naked pictures of herself and her exs cocks on her phone when i met her.

One of my exs was a huge slut and i loved hearing her adventure with guys and girls as i turn my turn because she always came looking for me to finish the job. One time she turned off her phone and didnt call me after her date and refused to tell me the reasons. For some reason she kept some secrets from me and made me mad.

One time she texted me she just got home from fucking her date and was such a turn on i raced right over.