What would your wife think?

What would your wife think about your desire to experince sex with another guy? :cheers2:
Some women are turned on by the thought of seeing their man with another man. Some are indifferent and some would just find it a terrible thing.
My wife encourages it, as long as it's a safe situation.

 

as a bi guy my girl knows it is unrealistic for her to satisfy me every way sexually, and encourages me to enjoy myself with men

 

Mine would(she has at a mention)go through the flipping roof. So in order to keep the peace I shut up,let her cool down and never ever mentioned it again.

Mine doesn't think it cool with either male or female. So I'm stuck in a boring sex life...thank goodnes for porn.

 

too bad you married her, no offense. I'd never marry a soul until they agreed to my very important sexuality.

 

I told my potential wife when we first started going together that I was bi. She knew about my five-year relationship with a man. She also knew there was that part of me that had to be satisfied.

I never told her of my exploits, but she knew the real meaning of "night out with the boys." I would not have married a woman that could not accept that part of me.

 

Not married. No gf. and liking it better this way. I see what my other friends are going through in their marriages and relationships and I say better them than me. Ok I do pity them somewhat. Also, no boyfriend either. I spent 4 years in college without having any sort of serious relationship. Just graduated and I'm seeing what's out there. I don't tend to enjoy going out to bars though so I'm not seeing much. Oh and Shale you were one smokin hunk of man in 73 You probably still are. Ryouseiteki signing out

 

My wife is "on the fence" regarding my bisexuality. She's ALSO bisexual, so I thought there would be A LOT MORE understanding on her behalf. There are times she thinks me being bisexual is HOT and says it turns her on (usually if SHE wants to talk about it)... Yet there are also times where I feel like she's either "grossed out" or worried about my bisexuality. She even "randomly" asks me sometimes if I'm SURE I'm not GAY. I'm SURE. I do however look almost exclusively at gay, transsexual and MMF bisexual porn.
Although I never have, and NEVER will cheat on her... She KNOWS I LOVE cock (men in general) nearly AS MUCH as women. And TBH (to be honest), if I were single, I'd most like persue a sexual relationship with another Guy

 

When I first married my wife we did the usual pillow talk, feeling each other out sexually. I confessed my same sex activities that I had in HS and college. She found it "interesting". She confessed her fantasies of having sex with a woman, and also MFM threesomes. We did both! She had a one nighter with a married bi woman, and we had several straight MFMs with the same close friend. After one such night she mentioned it was too bad that our friend wasn't bi!
We started watching bi MMF porn, and eventually gay porn. It turned her on to the point that she suggested finding a bi guy for our own MMF. We looked but no luck.

Now, these many years later we've been sexless for 2 years. If she even thought I was thinking about bi sex she'd rip my head off and shit down my neck. If I ever got caught actually doing it, she would take half of everything in a nasty divorce, then shit down my neck. She's the one that has changed, not me.

 

Its not a subject i would ever discuss with her as i dont know how she would take it..

 

Its hard to say how my wife woukd take it if I mentioned my curiosity of same sex play. She has never been one to disclose her feelings on anything we ever did sexually that was not conventional style sex. She is approving of gay and lesbiens. We have friends that are gay. Yet she never showed any interest herself. She recently accepted my disclosing of panty wearing and allows it. But I'm not sure she's into my having any extra marital sex alone same sex.

 

My wife and I shared a nice cock for our anniversary one year. Unfortunately since Craigslist shut down we haven't had much luck. She did peg me with her strap on last night...

 

My wife has accepted my bisexuality as I told her early on of my desires to suck cock. Five years later, she too is bisexual and we have a sexual relationship with a wonderful married couple.

 

She wouldn’t understand

 

Well, we've talked about it, and I told her that I get excited over penises and she basically treated it like an understandable sexual drive, agreeing that penises, like all reproductive body parts, are beautiful and we haven't talked much more about it. I don't think I outright talked to her about gay sex fantasies but knowing how she sees things, she'd probably simply talk to me about separating some of my thoughts from my actions.

 

My ex had no problem with me pulling her black bulls cock out of her squirting vagina and sucking it and sticking it back in . Or after round one leisurely sucking him back hard, but what was she gonna say, I arranged her stud for her, and she was getting fucked better than she ever had , so she wasn’t rocking the boat. She was a little pissy one morning when I came in for breakfast and her bull had butt fucked me and I told her how good it was . But all she said was “ just what I wanted to hear” to which I replied good for you good enough for me .

 

my wife would love to see a guy blow his load up my bottom.

 

My wife finds it hot and is very supportive of my being bi

 

Mine would not be happy with it at all, I tried to introduce things, yeah, not happening,....

 

My wife loves the IDEA of it. Turns her on a lot, when we do toy play she always sets a scene that I’m getting fucked while eating her pussy or something like that.. but wen I asked to actually pursue it she clammed up. Doesn’t want to share and is afraid I’d leave her for a guy. So for now it’s fantasy unless I find an opportunity too good to pass up ‍♂️

 

Mine would automatically call me gay and leave. 100% wouldn’t be accepting or understand I wasn’t gay and would not listen to anything I had to say if she found out.

 

Nothing is worth risking your marriage. My wife loves the idea of it too, but like your wife, she was also afraid I'd end up leaving her for a guy. She's also bisexual, so she was somewhat understanding, and NOT grossed out by the thought of it. My wife loves the IDEA of bottom for another man/men.

She eased up on her negative feelings about it when I reassured her that I get different needs/desires met depending on wether I'm with a woman (Her. She's the ONLY woman I NEED/want) or a man, and that it's NOT a competition. I also made it very clear that I absolutely Love HER and the female form and pretty much everything that goes along with it way too much, to ever go "exclusively gay".

We came to an agreement (after she decided to cuckold me. I'm pretty sure my bisexuality was a major contributing factor in her doing so, and she's had the same steady boyfriend for the last 6 years now) that she could take on a male or female lover whenever she wanted (but never both at the same time). She quickly chose the boyfriend she's had for the last 6 years now, and she also confessed that she had been having a secret affair with him for about a year before we came to this agreement. She also dated him in high school (when they dated for almost 3 years). I knew they had "stayed in touch" throughout the years, but I was totally clueless to her affair with him. To be completely honest, I wasn't suprised (as nearly every woman I've ever been with has "cheated" on me), mad or even jealous when she told me... Yet this was totally different from any of those other women, this was my WIFE. I was however strangely turned on and got incredibly horny as she told me in great details of all the things she enjoys doing with her boyfriend.

As part of our agreement, I'm also allowed to persue relationships with men (she has to meet and approve of anyone I'm interested in). Like her, I'm required to share all the details of anything that happens, but I'm free, and she actually encourages me to act on my needs/desires and fantasies, as long as she's getting her own desires met as well.

My wife knows how much I need/crave to be a totally submissive bottom for a handsome dominant (at least sexually) gay/bi guy with a nice cock. She also knows that for the RIGHT guy, that I'll have very FEW "hard limits. Those limits include; no blood, no scat (shit), and nothing that will leave permanent marks on me. I'm very open-minded, and would be willing to try/do just about anything else. For the RIGHT guy, I can also envision myself being completely submissive to him, both in, and out of the bedroom. It's been a long-time fantasy of mine (and one I'd LOVE to have "cum" true) to meet and have a kinky relationship with a handsome, totally dominant gay/bi guy... Someone that would enjoy keeping me collared, leashed and kept locked in my cock cage. If I were to meet "that guy", I'd also like (love) to become his personal urinal (especially if he wanted me to drink his piss), and "cum dump" by having him blow his load down my throat, and "breeding" me whenever he/we wanted/desired.

Unfortunately, I haven't met the RIGHT guy yet, but I have no doubt he's out there, and when the timing is right, he'll come into my life, making my dreams/fantasies come true. Since my wife is getting her own NEEDS/desires met with her boyfriend, and we're having less sex (we still have "sex", but it's less frequent, and "sex" between us usually involves her having me eat her out to orgasm(s), worshipping her ass, and her occasionally giving me hand jobs. Blowjobs are few and far between, and actual intercourse is almost nonexistent these days) as her relationship with her boyfriend has evolved and become more serious over time, she's also helping to "scout" out potential partners for me, as she knows and understands I won't be completely happy, satisfied and fulfilled until I also have a "special" man in my life too