Questions I Have to Answer
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I submitted to this thread Respond & ask a naughty question an answer or two but there were so many great questions asked and I wanted to answer most of them. So here are the questions asked of which I feel drawn to answer.
Fantasies
- What is your roleplay fantasy favorite? Laying face up on the bed I have my partner massage my head and scalp as if she were a masseuse I just met. She starts with a sheet covering my privates and slowly works her way down across my shoulders, chest, and abdomen to just above my genitals pushing the sheet down as she goes. Once there the sheet disappears and the fun begins. (Note: this has come true on occasion)
- If your partner/spouse asked you to fulfill his or her fantasy and do something with someone the same sex as you, no one would ever find out. would you? Three people would know. My partner, the man I had sex with, and myself. Therefore I would politely decline same sex interaction. I just don't have it in me.
- What is the best porn scene that has turned you the fuck on? Diamond Foxx did a scene as a blond where she was laid back on pure white sheets and pillows and slowly fucked. The way she took to the actor and enjoyed being fucked arouses me to orgasm as I watch it many times over. Another scene or scenes are any with Cytheria when she orgasms and squirts. She isn't acting as the intensity of her orgasm is real when her body shakes and trembles while she pulls off the cock and sprays from her pussy.
- What is the one fantasy you have, which you haven't already done in real life? I want to fuck a very dark skinned black woman. As black as the pigmentation can get on a person.
- Are you comfortable speaking openly about your fantasies with your spouse/partner? If not, what fantasy do you feel the need to keep to yourself? Years ago yes. Now? No, as I keep my sex life private for reasons that are uncomfortable for my spouse these days. All fantasies are mine and mine alone.
- What’s your biggest fantasy that you’ve come close to fulfilling but haven’t yet? Again, having sex with a black woman. Had an opportunity recently to seek her out to fulfill this fantasy. But life ended up getting in the way and the opportunity passed. Maybe I'll give myself a birthday present by having this fantasy become reality.
- If permitted what is the darkest sexual fantasy you would like to make reality? I would like to attend a swingers party, club, or go to Hedonism II in Jamaica. This really isn't a dark fantasy but one in which I may never get to make a reality.
Fetishes
- Have you ever done anything for a dare sexually you really wouldn't have done otherwise? No not really. We would play a game when we spent a weekend at a hotel. The game had us draw cards that depicted something sex with a time limit. A few times I didn't really want to do as the card said but in the spirit of the game did so. It always ended up well with many orgasms for both of us over the two night stay.
- Guys have you ever smelled girls' panties? Yes, and felt like a pervert sometimes. Did my older sisters out of curiosity and got nothing out of it except asking myself why did I do that, pervert? Pulled several girls panties off and held them up to my face as we were getting ready for sex. Some made fun and called me a pervert but all of them let me bury my face and then cock in their pussy.
Finding Pleasure
- Where is your guilty pleasure place to masturbate? Anywhere and everywhere I can be alone to pleasure myself. I have never felt guilty masturbating even when I did so in places I could be seen.
- Where did your best orgasm take place? I've had so many fantastic O's I couldn't tell you where the best happened. I do remember when I have had full body orgasms and could barely walk after they were so intense. But orgasm while laying with a woman, outdoors, in the open, under the stars, or with the many other scenarios I've encountered is just as good as any other orgasm I experience. So where did the best take place? Right inside my body.
- Ever had sex with someone way younger than you (of legal age) or too old? How young and how old and who is better? Way younger was with a girl age 25, me 64. Older than myself was by 10ish, her age early 30's. Circumstances were different so judging who was the best is impractical. It was great having such a young pretty willing to show me a good time given our 40 year age difference. It was also great learning from a experienced woman willing to guide me along when I began having a sex life. Neither was better, just different.
- Who preforms oral sex best on a woman, a man or another woman? The answer lies within the individual who has had both, a man and a woman bring them to orgasm. Although I've had no complaints from any of the women I have brought to orgasm with my tongue.
- Has anyone found themselves inexplicably aroused by someone they shouldn't be? Someone like a family member or someone maybe not the right age? Inexplicably? Never. There's always a reason behind any human emotion and arousal is an emotion. Aroused by someone I shouldn't have been aroused by? Yes, because sexual arousal is an emotion that can't be subdued. Acting upon that arousal is what one can control. But yes, I have wondered what a family member might be like to have sex with. That's as far as it goes. I may be addicted to sex but I have limits as to how far that extends.
Exhibitionism and Voyeurism
- Ever have sex at some one else’s house? Often my spouse and I got frisky while visiting, especially overnight. We did fuck a couple of times at a neighbors house while checking it as they were away.
- Ever had sex at a beach or a public place? Yes, many times and it was exhilarating. Midday in the lake, on a mountain top, out in the open on the ground in a campground to name a few places. If you have the initiative there's always someplace to have sex.
- Anyone else get turned on by being in nature? I do love to hike and swim nude. It is a turn on to be secluded in a dense forest or feel warm water flowing around my nude body. The warm sun radiating down across me as I lay naked in soft grass or stroll along a babbling stream feels so right. It's not really sexual more than it's just the pleasure of feeling free of constraint from clothing.
Multiple Partners
- How many people have you had sex with during one single week of your lifetime and what were their first names? I hooked up with 4 different women in one week several years ago, all in massage parlors. The first was Wendy with what began as a massage ended up with her riding me to completion. That was on a Tuesday. The next day I tried to see Wendy again but she wasn't available. Instead I was offered a two girl massage for the price of one. Mi Ling and Lisa came in the room and took care of me, no massage, just sex. Come Friday I stopped by a different parlor and had the pleasure of a girl by the name of Anita for an hour.
- Does anyone think it's particularly wild or unusual to have multiple sexual partners per day? I do not having had several threesome experiences. Well, maybe it is unusual as it isn't everyday most people have multiple partners much less sex everyday.
- Have you had a threesome? Yes, several times. Always with women who I don't socialize with regularly. I keep my sex life apart from my normal life because some of the things I do sexually are not acceptable by most people.
Not Mainstream
- What is your weirdest, sex experience? As a young lad and first visit to a strip joint I saw an old man sitting in front of the stage. The stripper, a black woman, danced right up to the edge and put her pussy there for him to see. He stood up and buried his face in it right in front of everybody. Being so young it was a shock to see but today, hell, I'd probably dive in just like he did.
- Watersports/pee games, yes or no, and what do you think about them? I've been curious enough to piss on myself either laying on the shower floor or just pissed in my pants to see what it felt like. I don't get much out of it by myself. Never tried it with a partner. Doubt I ever will. But, as a fetish that is erotic to some, I cannot refuse to allow them the pleasure they get from it. So if that's your thing go for it and enjoy.
- Have you ever, or would you, live stream yourself on a porn website? No, I doubt I would since I don't have any interest in those websites. Maybe someday I might but I have to ask. Is there someone out there who would be interested in seeing a fat old man naked much less with a hard on?
- Ever had gay sex? I am not in the least interested in having sex with men.
- What's the most taboo thing you’ve heard, witness, been involved with or just saw in your life that has to do with sex? I have heard and see on porn sites people attempting to have sex with animals. Beastality isn't very erotic to me. I'll leave it for someone else to enjoy if that's their thing.
- Ass licking do you like it, giving and taking? I wont do analingus as there is too much bacteria around the anus for my liking health wise. That's probably just a phobia I have about it. To have it done to me is fine but I'd rather her lick my cock instead.
OOPS
- Ever been walked in on having sex, by the girls mother? Not Mom but by my father, yes. In the bedroom we used when visiting he kept his clothes in the closet. We were going at it one morning, on top of the covers, and he walked in to get clothes for the day. He went straight into the closet. We went straight under the covers. It was an awkward breakfast that morning.
- What’s the naughtiest thing you’ve done that you might not be proud of LOL? I was so horny one morning I ventured out to the apartment complex swimming pool. It was early, early, morning and I slid into the pool naked. The water felt so arousing that I had to masturbate. When I came I saw my semen floating away in the water and hoped the pool filter caught it.
- What's the biggest accident/ mistake you've had in a sexual situation? I bent my cock once while fucking my spouse with long deep strokes. On the outtake I pulled back too far and my cock popped out. It wasn't lined up right as I slammed forward. My cock bent under my body weight which sent pain all through my groin. Two weeks later I was so glad to see the damage had healed.
Strangers
- Any one ever had sex with complete stranger? Yes, it is very exhilarating. There were times I didn't even know their name until after it was over.
- Have you ever watched your partner with a stranger? No, but I don't doubt strangers have watched us having sex.
- Have you ever deliberately exposed yourself to someone you don't know? No, I'm not one to take a risk like that. If caught the legal system penalties are pretty severe and life long.
- Have you ever had sex with someone you really weren't attracted to? Yes, I had this older woman give me a massage who just didn't do it for me in the looks department. But the massage was so good and I got so turned on by what she did to my body when she asked what I wanted when I flipped over I couldn't say no. Glad I didn't because having sex with her turned out pretty good.
- Have you ever paid someone or have been paid by someone to have sex with you? How did it happen? Many times I pay, not to have sex with me, but to leave me alone after. I've been to brothels, massage parlors, and hooked up with escorts. Once I was paid in a way by my mentor who was the first woman I had sex with. I fixed her TV and she rewarded me with dinner and sex. We ended up in a year long affair.
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