I never had either or, but I can still have opinions no? To me 1 night stands= no love/no respect for yourself or the other person/willingness to spread stds all the more/ etc. Also, when the same person does ever find true love, sex would not be as profound nor meaningful due to the fact that sex had been treated as nothing more than a "one night stand" instead of a more meaningful act with a loved one.
it's a good alternative when the 'loved one' is anywhere else but by your side and besides stds are a problem if u don't protect yourself. What sort of idiot wouldn't use a condom on a ONS?
hate to love them.. i dont really like the after math of one night stands.... i get too emotionally involved with guys, when i shouldent. i do however like the thrill of a one night stand as it is happening...it is a crazy rush to be with someone new physically... so i love and hate it.
Shirly 314: it's a good alternative when the 'loved one' is anywhere else but by your side and besides stds are a problem if u don't protect yourself. What sort of idiot wouldn't use a condom on a ONS? The millions upon millions of idiots world wide who already have STDS.
Awww yeahhhh.... When I look back at a year and ask myself if it was a good year, I always question whether or not I hooked up a few times. However, one night stands would be better if some guys didn't make it an art form and get like 100x as much as the next. The guys that are prolific aren't necessarily better looking, etc - it's more like the skill that allows you to be able to sell used cars and time-shares. These seem to be the guys that end up taking womens' virginity, leaving wallflowers like me without the pleasure of being able to say we've done so.
i like them and as long as you both consented then its ok. they can be fun say for example you are shy in bed then you can get the other person to do what you want. And they can be a laugh if you are confident as long as you are safe and no one will catch you (depending on where u r) they they r fun
Had way too many of them, not proud of myself, don't like them. Would I do it again.........? Don't know.
Neither. I've gotten too old -- and too spoiled by my now-20-year-old relationship with my partner -- for them. :& Having said that, what if you had a one-nighter with a longtime friend? How would that affect your friendship? -- Skeeter
I dont do them. In the past I tried and it ended up in a relationship ..which tells you I am no good at it ..lol ..right now I am celibate so I dont know I am even looking at this thread -but they are good if you and that person are both in that same mind set and its safe ...then its fun ..
I like one night stands with a guy. Since I have a steady g/f (who's into sex with guys too) and do not want a relationship with a boy, it's nice to have some wild sex and not have to play a whole bunch of games. Suck, fuck and go home.
I've never had one and I never will. I have to feel something for someone before I even consider sleeping with them.
I've done it in the past, but now I really coudln't do that, it lost its sense when I realized how good is sex with a person that is not a one night stand
They can be physically fulfilling but basically a blip on the radar screen of life. Haven't had all that many, though...
I have never had a one night stand and never really plan on that happening. I think sex is too personal for it to just happen and that be the end.
Now I'm curious: If a one-night stand with a longtime friend of yours led to a relationship with that friend, why would that be a bad thing? I've had that experience and it actually enhanced the friendship (which continues to this day, after 20 years). What went wrong with yours? -- Skeeter