What's Wrong With Having Daddy Issues?

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  1. Candybuttons

    Candybuttons Sweet Member

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    I have been hearing/reading, the term "Daddy issues" a lot and what I wanna know is, what's wrong with that?
    So what if a girl has daddy issues and wants an older man for her BF.
    Older men like younger women anyways so what's the problem?
    Please, someone Enlighten me!
     
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  2. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    for one thing, who are the young guys supposed to hook up with?

    seems like it would be healthier to be in a relationship where you like the guy for who he is rather than because you have "issues."
     
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  3. Slipikins

    Slipikins Members

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    It depends really. Like undies up there said, if you're with someone because of mental/emotional issues and you're trying to fill some void, it's not healthy.

    If you generally like older men and find them sexy -- then who cares?
     
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  4. SpacemanSpiff

    SpacemanSpiff Visitor

    95% of women who want older men are just in it for the money
     
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  5. DiagonalZone

    DiagonalZone Member

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    I believe that a certain trend has become more prominent lately involving younger and more naive girls imitating the trend-- not understanding that they are picking up on certain attitudes, actions, or fashions/ways to act that are sort of kinky without realizing the actual original basis of these kinks-- most primarily right now being the rising trend in girls wanting to be choked and calling dudes daddy i.e. "choke me daddy" I believe is a meme at this point.

    You could view it as women adapting even quicker to the trends of trying to please older men to get at their money--you could view it as a reflection of the troubling nature of high divorce rates, more kids growing up in all kinds of different family situations and this affecting their sexuality either negatively (having actual unhealthy problems) or positively (being comfortable with their kinks and feeling free to express themselves) once their older and more developed-- you could view it as dumb people imitating things for basically no reason so that they can be like each other because it is already difficult to connect with others in the first place (maybe not so dumb after all..?)-- or some combination of all that shit at different percentages, which I'm sure is what is actually is--with many more factors added into the mix that I don't know enough about to explain.
     
  6. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    It's not just women, boys need daddies too.
     
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  7. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    It's not just women, boys need daddies too.
     
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  8. r0llinstoned

    r0llinstoned Gute Nacht, süßer Prinz

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    OP is a guy.
     
  9. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    Or is it someone we used to know?
     
  10. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    Men And Boys Don't Have "Daddies".....They Have Fathers ...... :)



    Cheers Glen.
     
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  11. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    could be both
     
  12. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    Anyway, thats more reasuring than believe there is something a little more sinister, biological going on ;)

    (Whispers: They ALL wanna **** ***** *******)
     
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  13. Deidre

    Deidre Visitor

    Everyone has issues but a relationship isn't going to get you over them. And if you enter into a relationship knowing you're using someone to get you over the issues you have, the relationship is doomed from the start, imo.
     
  14. Noserider

    Noserider Goofy-Footed Member

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    I didn't realize having "daddy issues" meant one was attracted to old men.
     
  15. SpacemanSpiff

    SpacemanSpiff Visitor

    young guys these days are bombarded in every direction by hollywood and the television entertainment/movie online social media industry to be gay and/or trans

    its no longer socially acceptable to just be normal
     
  16. Candybuttons

    Candybuttons Sweet Member

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    Well I just seem to be attracted to older men, instead of men my own age. Weather it has to do with daddy issues or not, idk?
    For me its comfort thing, but there has to be attraction towards looks, and personality too! That always has to be a part of any relationship.
     
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  17. Candybuttons

    Candybuttons Sweet Member

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    Maybe it doesn't, I don't know?
     
  18. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    You're obviously not experiencing the entire catalogue of porn. :d
     
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  19. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    Farm animals
     
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    Piaf Senior Member

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    Like your bae in your pic?
     

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