Why Do More Women Dislike Giving Oral To Men Than Visa Versa?

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by slickbbb, Sep 10, 2017.

  1. slickbbb

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    Why is this? surly (as long as the man doesnt ejacculate in the mouth) it is a much less messy/cleaner thing to do than giving oral to a woman. Not unlike sucking someone elses fingers.
     
  2. Kerri

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    I don't know if that's true - I haven't seen reliable data ;-). I do think your general point is valid - it's much less messy (but not like sucking on a finger - fingers are smaller and don't pre-cum) on a guy that it is a woman

    It can be annoying how guys obsess over blow jobs, how some expect it and end up putting on a lot of pressure. Sometimes some guys ruin the fun of it
     
  3. rollingalong

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    it is because there just isn't that many wealthy dudes so there doesn't need to be that many female dick suckers
     
  4. I'minmyunderwear

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    was there a study? i had no idea this was the case.
     
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  5. slickbbb

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    You had no.idea .....?.really?
    Where have you been hiding ?
     
  6. Noserider

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    Huh. I didn't realize this was a thing.
     
  7. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Knowing your luck, you'd be in the control group though
     
  8. Deidre

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    I don't think that's true, really. I like giving better than receiving. I enjoy oral sex, but I only rarely let my husband finish me that way. (or any guys before him, who I was in a relationship with) I like it done on me for more of foreplay, than finishing that way.
     
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  9. I'minmyunderwear

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    the group that doesn't get to give or receive? usually that is the case.
     
  10. jpdonleavy

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    Visa is a credit card and Vice is a TV series etc, but is also the first word of vice versa. Accurate spelling will get you laid with a much higher class of female. A not inconsiderable number of women reject bad spellers out of hand re. profiles on dating sites. Bad spellers are more likely to have at least one burnt valve on their truck and be running a timing belt that's way past its date because they're so hard to get at
     
  11. jpdonleavy

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    I just can't parse this - which is surprising, because your posts are almost uniformly considered, rational and mildly understated, Kerrikins
     
  12. Kerri

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    Lol you win some you lose some ;-p
     
  13. I'minmyunderwear

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    i'd hate to picture the women i'd have been with if i was a poor speller.
     
  14. drumminmama

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    AFAIK, fingers don't pee.
     
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  15. drumminmama

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    I'd call it dude selfishness.
    And I chose "dude" carefully.

    Dude thinks he's entitled to oral pleasure, but barely returns the favor if at all. Lazy, lackadaisical, matters not.
    That diminishes my enthusiasm greatly. Slamming door behind me level diminishes.

    Then there's the porn-influenced obsession with choking.

    And there's a lack of hygiene. Repeat after me: perianal sweat.
     
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  16. slickbbb

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    By design a 'clean' penis is more hygenic than a 'clean' vagina so ......
    there are no sweat issues in the vagina area??? let me just cheak.....
     
  17. Kerri

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    I don't think the comparisons mean anything at all. If I dislike giving head (I do generally like it) the notion that it is or isn't cleaner than giving oral to a woman isn't going to suddenly make me enjoy it
     
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  18. drumminmama

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    I'll check your concept.
    Women wipe/rinse. Men shake.

    And perianal sweat on women doesn't get captured by testicles.

    I'll add smegma, which gets caught and dried on a penis.


    The answer is to shower together first.
    And in my experience, the couple that showers together has much better sex overall.

    But you missed the larger part of my post.
    The Dude Attitude.
     
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  19. Amethyst_Bliss

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    I may be wrong, but here’s a thought.

    I have wondered if women are less likely to admit that they love it-like it’s more socially acceptable to say you hate giving blowjobs and how it’s degrading. I am told that I am rare for liking them, but there’s got to more women like me out there! I feel like society indirectly tells women that you shouldn’t like it. The ones who truly love them are less likely to be vocal about it.

    There are women who genuinely don’t like giving oral, and that’s fine.
     
  20. Bicaptain My Captain

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    Oral sex is a gift you give to your partner. If you happen to enjoy giving, that makes you a better giver.
     
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