Women Have You Had Lovers Who Took Too Long To Orgasm?

Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by slickbbb, Sep 10, 2017.

  1. slickbbb

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    Ladies, a female friend keeps complaining that her man takes too long to climax during intercourse ,have many of you had the same problem?. They are both experienced fit people in thier early 30's.
    She reaches O sometimes from penetration , it is not the case that she finishes and has to keep going. Its like when she knows she wont she cant be bothered to let him have fun. She admits to not getting involved in foreplay except him going down on her.
     
  2. buzzgunner

    buzzgunner 180 grains of diplomacy Lifetime Supporter

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    Vanilla Gorilla is almost certainly going to get on my case for bringing up my threesome again, but...

    ...when it was active, our close friend (who was the "other guy") would sometimes fuck my wife for so long that she would (mentally) be going For God sake! Get on with it! I'm certain that he didn't need that much time to climax, he just liked to keep fucking!

    (She told me about this years later. Up until then , I always assumed that she LIKED him banging her forever! He'd rarely fuck her so long that she'd get sore, but she'd definitely begin to get bored. Sill, she never said anything about it to him because she didn't want to put him off the activity.)
     
  3. Kerri

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    I wouldn't say it's a "problem" but there are occasions where a quicker finish would be better, not just with intercourse but a blow job too
     
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  4. Eric!

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    Oh trust me, there's times I want to get done a lot sooner, but I think it all depends on who I'm with. If she's exciting and really getting into it, I can get off quick, even when I'm trying to hold it back. But, I've actually faked orgasm a few times because I didn't enjoy the company and I just wanted to get the shit over with.
     
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  5. slickbbb

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    If one wants ones male partner to finish quicker , during whatever kind of play, make it happen. Its not rocket science.
    I know a few men will take 'too long' for reasons beyond the partners control but they are in the minority.
     
  6. Kerri

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    yeah I'm talking about minority occurrences. on rare occasion every guy in my experience takes "too long." I'm also okay in those situations just riding it out. It doesn't have to be about me every second. I don't need a solution to this
     
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  7. Vanilla Gorilla

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    If she is complaining her guy last too long to YOU, maybe its because she assumes you'd only last 7 seconds and she could do a bunch of Vine videos

    814 posts so far, 813 on the subject of the threesome you had when Reagan was in office ;)

    Ahhh, the Reagan Presidency, Reagan and Thatcher, they were the good ole days
     
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  8. drumminmama

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    ^^Like Beetlejuice....
    VG, can you start in on Chastity Guy?

    As for endurance, if all a guy knows is pumping forever, no pauses, to good foreplay, then yeah, it can get dry, and have microtears. Not fun.
    If he and I can switch it up, be really playful, and see all sexual activity as "sex", not just PIV, then it's freaking amazing to go on for hours.
    And we are experienced, fit people in their late 40s and mid 60s.
     
  9. buzzgunner

    buzzgunner 180 grains of diplomacy Lifetime Supporter

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    Actually, I happen to agree with that!
     
  10. slickbbb

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  11. I'minmyunderwear

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    please! i'd have done it myself but i can't make myself read an entire post of his, and it seems unfair to complain without at least reading the post..
     
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  12. drumminmama

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    His stories change. It's like reading background on politicians.
     
  13. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Which thread?
     
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  14. drumminmama

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    Any. He always tells the same story variants.
    Caged in chastity, wife has gf.
     
  15. Deidre

    Deidre Visitor

    My husband hardly drinks, but I dated a guy before him who would take forever if he was drinking alcohol before sex. Total turn off, for me at least.
     
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  16. Reverand JC

    Reverand JC Willy Fuckin' Wonka

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    To quote King Crimson:

    "I repeat myself when under stress,
    I repeat myself when under stress,
    I repeat myself when under stress,
    I repeat......."

    C/S,
    Rev J
     
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  17. drumminmama

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    You win the Internet for the day. Try to leave it cleaner than you got it.
     
  18. drumminmama

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    As someone who finds drinking a turn off, I'm in agreement here.

    However, I thought whiskeydick was droopy.

    Is there something to drinking equalling some endurance?

    Because beer and pot dick is useless.
     
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  19. slickbbb

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    You will find thar most men wiil take longer after drinking. After alot of drink it my take 'forever to finish' as someone else remarked.
    I dont think 'brewers droop' is very common among men who are fit and healthy although i could be very wrong in saying that.
     
  20. I'minmyunderwear

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    depends on how much you drink. the more alcohol, the droopier.
     
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  21. drumminmama

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    What's the magic number of non beer drinks. Asking for a friend.
     

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