It's because black men are rude customers. They are too rough and it's all about them "being in charge" so to speak not making love. I've asked a few escorts this and they say it's all ego something deep down denying they are paying for the service so they take it out on them. My friend who is 6'9 used to be the guy waiting in the car just in case. They will take money from anyone but they also know they can pick and choose who they see. Everyone wants pussy.
It's like those laundry places where they say "whites only" like mother fuck! I wear black clothes ya pack of o'assholes.
No my girl and I are still together. There was a lot of drama, but we made up after some reconciliation. I'm on those sites because I did a research paper in college when I was studying political science. I did my research on the politics of prostitution, the women's movement, and a woman's right to her body. In fact, that's how I met my woman in the escort section of backpage after an incall visit. When she was a call girl, she wasn't racist like many of them.
It's common for some men of ALL races to be rude, too rough, and "want to be in charge", or have ego trips, not just black men. Making love, to a prostitute? No such thing. It's just a transaction between the two, and nothing more. Women in this profession are about the money and make a conscious effort to separate the emotion from the act. Some develop feelings for their clients over time, but ultimately keep their distance emotionally.
some of them might hate black mren though. If a white women wrote that she would be considered racist. We do have the right to choose, attraction for me is a mental thing, looks are initial, superficial attraction but that can quickly die and the reverse can be said as one gets to know someone.
Perhaps they're more likely to be beaten. Perhaps more black people carry sharps (down in the Tenderloin, that is). Perhaps they don't understand black accents and terminology/ebonics, such as "yo dawg . . . aye . . . aright . . . he axed me, etc. There is a different accent, syntax and semantics in the black community and interpretation of social graces may be different. None of this applies to educated blacks, middle class employed blacks etc. However, blacks who develop mainstream social graces, dress sense, articulation etc may be told by locals that they are being too white. Perhaps hookers don't want to be involved in all this complex sociology.
Did you do your Ph.D thesis on this, Eric. You must have gone through a lot of participant observation to become so fluent
I don't think ANYBODY has done a PhD thesis on this, certainly not me. But because I don't have a PhD doesn't mean that I don't know what the hell I'm talking about. So, since you are here sharpshooting me, what exactly do YOU know about the topic? You seem like you're pretty educated by your articulate responses and corrections you make along the way, I'm interested in what YOU can share with us. Because what you wrote earlier makes absolutely no sense.
To be honest, before you ever started this thread I was wondering why goatherds, lighthouse keepers and sheet metal benders are so racist
well its not a legally regulated business, so they are more free to discriminate. They also don't pay taxes. But the greater issue is: is it right and proper for the woman/ prostitute to control who her john/ client is? Banks have regulations prohibiting discrimination in lending. Does legal prostitution, like in Nevada have anti-discrimination laws? Housing has tenant protection forbiding discrimination, but if a landlord rents an apartment in his personal residence, discrimination is allowed because the residence is personal. Certainly your own body is personal. This is a feminist, libretiarian issue.
It was for research. I called her up and went over to her hotel room. I paid for my time with her. But I told her I didn't wanna have sex and that I just wanted to talk to and interview her about prostitution and that I was doing it for a major term paper. She worked independently and had her own way of vetting her clients. We got into talking about it so much that she asked me if I wanted to meet again for coffee and I said yes. She helped me write the paper and we've been seeing each other ever since.