Oral Sex Gender Gap?

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by Jo King, Aug 4, 2017.

  1. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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  2. Noserider

    Noserider Goofy-Footed Member

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    I dunno. I'm a big supporter of having oral sex with my own gender.
     
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  3. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    well that doesn't work for this.
    I know I've received more than given.
     
  4. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Lifetime Supporter

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    I experience this.
    Even in partnerships where he's really into cunnilingus, by the numbers, more fellatio happens.

    Then again, fellatio can be used to raise the dead.
     
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  5. NoxiousGas

    NoxiousGas Old Fart

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    I'm proud to say that over the years I have been the nibbler more often than the nibbled,,
    YUM!
     
  6. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    maybe because guys never turn down a blowjob. half the time when i've tried to go down on a woman, she pulls me back up before i even have a chance to start.
     
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  7. Daretobare

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    I totally believe in equality. But there is many times my wife will oblige me but refuse me to go down on her. She says relax and enjoy it. I rather enjoy giving as much as receiving
     
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  8. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    For 10 Years I Was Bi-Sexual.......Never Went Down Once.......Back Then If You Admitted

    That To Your Mates They Would Spread It All Over Town That You Were A "Mickie Muncher"

    And Peeps Would "Give You Heaps"....... :)



    Cheers Glen.
     
  9. Si69

    Si69 Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    Im bisexual amd love giving oral to my wife and guys. I can almost always give her an orgasm with my tongue, and love fingering her at the same time. Generally we end up 69 and she sucks me at the same time. How can yoj enjoy sex without oral being part of it!?
    Simon :)
     
  10. bft4evr

    bft4evr Senior Member

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    I am way more often the giver than the receiver in my relationship.
     
  11. Mistress Margaret

    Mistress Margaret Site Member

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    I never had that problem with my husband. For years he was very content with going down on me while he jerked himself off. I actually had to prod him to fuck me so we could have kids.

    It has switched now, and I suck him off frequently but have no desire for reciprocation.
     
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  12. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Lifetime Supporter

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    I've taken your screen name to imply a power exchange relationship.
    If I read it correctly, might his submissiveness be part of the equation?

    I think as heterosexual men age and gain experience, they are more likely to dine at the Y, in general.
     
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  13. ahsorandy

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    Unfortunately, in my case, the Y has gone out of business. Not a happy camper.
     
  14. Mistress Margaret

    Mistress Margaret Site Member

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    Yes, his submissiveness is part of the equation. He has expressed that at times by servicing me orally, then jerking himself off.

    We have dabbled in Female domination some over the years.

    He always enjoyed dining at the Y as you say, probable more so as our relationship progressed. He is bisexual, however, and loves sucking cock as well.
     
  15. Kerri

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    I've given more than I've gotten but I bet it's reasonably close. I do think in my experience guys have been more willing to ask for what they want
     
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  16. ahsorandy

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    69?
     
  17. Kerri

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    Yeah that happens. I'm a big fan actually ;-)
     
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  18. ahsorandy

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    Whenever you're ready. ;)
     
  19. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Lifetime Supporter

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    Height issues.and with more endowed men, there's even more weird body positioning.
     
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  20. ahsorandy

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    So, are you saying you want to get eaten first to orgasm? Then reciprocate the favor.
     
  21. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Lifetime Supporter

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    No. I'm saying mechanics matter.

    I could care less if oral on me is to a orgasm, so long as it isn't a three lick trick.

    My partners could write books on my enthusiasm for going down on them.
     

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