Is It Cheating Tonpay For Sex

So I wanted to know everyone opinion (Both guys and girls)
Do you think it's cheating for someone to pay for sex.
Personally I do, but I have heard others justify it

 

Of course it is..

No doubt.

I'd rather you cheat with a woman in work than a prostitute tbh..

So for me, that's worse..

 

Depends. If you're in an open relationship and your partner condones it, then no.

But something tells me that's the exception here and not the rule...

 

That's like justifying that you have a good diet because you bought Macdonalds. Or something similarly stupid.

 

I'm in an open relationship but we still correlate what's going on with each other like I don't go out and meet other people or sleep with them without my partner knowing.

So for people that are in open relationships and don't tell their partners anything it's just sounding like a fake relationship really. An open relationship to me should still equate to emotional feelings toward your actual partner, you're just expressing sex with others but like if the emotions don't mean anything then what's the point of a relationship to begin with even if it is open?

There isn't any point and that's why I think they're fake relationships.

Open relationship for me and us just means we get to have 3soms and fun sex with others, we mostly do this together, sure I've my single lovers but my partner is well aware of them and there is no issue.

Not telling your partner is warnings signs.

 

That was my thought as well. If your partner would be hurt then surely it is.
But I have heard guys say shit like "I'm not getting it at home so its ok"
"it's paying for it, it's not love"
"Shea only doing what my wife doesn't"
Seems rather silly but wanted to know of others felt the same

 

I'm in my first open relationship (And last I hope, I love this guy) and we rarely do things without each other there. If we do, the other person knows before it happens. Mostly so if I want to fool around I know he will be up for it hahaha.

 

Yeah, that's how it should be. I just know people who say they're in opens and they don't even have a relationship to be open about they just live together or something. No emotions, just they can have sex if they want and with others when it suits them. It's just a facade and pathetic IMO. Both parties are just too gutless to remain single and believe an open relationship makes them more mature than those who've committed to one person.

 

It's definitely a bad situation, something stupid

 

Absolutely is

 

Depends on the couple.
People define cheating differently.

Rule of thumb, if your partner doesn't know and you're going behind their back to do these activities... then odds are it's cheating.

 

Hey, I do have a good diet whole eating Micky Ds. I always get the salad, with no meat. So, there. Now what?

 

Isn't going to Maccas and getting a salad like going to a Brothal for a hug? Haha

Lol but good on you honestly. I tried to do the salad thing but the chips are too damn good lol

 

Yes it is cheating! How can sexual intercoarse with someone other then your partner not be considered cheating?

 

Them amaerican salad dressings worse than a burger.

 

It makes less than no sense to ask strangers on the internet "is --- cheating?

Ask your partner(s).

What constitutes cheating is whatever violates the trust in your relationship. Doesn't even have to be sexual.

 

Sorry for asking a question on a forum about peoples personal opinions....

 

I apologise, I really didn't mean that to sound as aggressive/rude as it does.

My point was just that people's opinions don't matter because the definition of cheating is peculiar to each individual relationship.

 

If it isn't cheating, he'd tell his wife about it.

 

Yes