My wonderful girlfriend has generously given me the green light to pursue anal intercourse with her. I'm experienced enough to understand all the basics with regards to having anal sex so I don't need the proverbial links or how to discussion about that. Since she's new and inexperienced with anal sex. I want to give her the best experience possible and I understand female anatomy very well. That said, what I'm looking for is adding the perfect toy to simultaneously stimulate her while my penis is in her rear end. The conundrum is finding something that doesn't get in the way of penetrating her anally, yet provides additional stimulation which from most feedback, both personal and read about, is a good approach. What toys require minimal effort (holding them, if at all) would you recommend for her to be stimulated clitoral and or vaginally? She likes the full feeling of being double penetrated and have had a butt plug in her during vaginal intercourse. Hence, I'm thinking something full sized but in her vagina. Problem is most toys need to be held and they stick out so far that it hinders that anal movement we both seek. Thanks for reading and I appreciate any suggestions.
For me i think its best to start off with foreplay including rimming, fingering and small toy play while in the other side.