Can A 44 Year Old Man Be Sexy To A Woman In Her Early 30's?

Someone once asked me if I was optimistic. I said "I hope so".

 

But you're over it now

 

Candybuttons said, in relevant part:
"Actually it kinda scared me lol."


My reply:
So....have you recovered, and if so, how long did THAT take?

 

I'm in my (late) 30's and there are men in their 40's and 50's that I find attractive. I'm happily married so I don't act on it but if I were single I wouldn't have an issue depending on the person.

 

I don't know, since I'm not a woman, but I remember finding some 40+ ladies really sexy when I was in my 30's.

 

Definitely not. I know of NO case in which a woman in her 30s has EVER been even slightly attracted to a man in his 40s in the entire 2,000 years of Judeo-Christian civilisation. I cannot speak for Zoroastrians.

The very thought of it makes my armadillo curdle and my finches go rigid and turn blue

(rolleyes)

 

Ya I'm over it.

 

Oh ya it wasn't that bad, it was just a one time thing, I wasn't harmed or upset by it, I was just weirded out. I didn't really understand why he bit my cheek and why he was so aggressive.

 

Kinda depends on the individual woman and her tastes.

 

Candybuttons said:
"I didn't really understand why he bit my cheek and why he was so aggressive."


My reply:
I'd say either he was letting you know how passionate he felt about you, or he was telegraphing his tendency for violence. I wouldn't think anyone likes getting bitten, especially when there's a multitude of gentler ways to convey one's affections. Probably a good thing you didn't stick around.

As for age differences, when I was younger I preferred older women to younger, although I'd date someone less than 2 yrs younger than me. Any younger than that and they seemed to frivolous and immature to waste serious time on. OK to play with, perhaps, but never given serious consideration. Now that I'm much older (62) I find most women of my generation to be so desperate they're willing to say anything, or so broken down they can't do anything. I haven't dated since my divorce ten years ago and likely won't ever again. I don't want the drama and betrayal, and I've come to hate surprises, unless it's on the other end of my fishing pole or growing on one of my favorite fruit or nut trees.

 

At The Ripe Old Age Of 48......Who Gives A "Rats Ass" What Family Members Think......

You Know What Is Right Or Wrong.......And What Makes You Happy.....

Life Is Short.....Put Yourself First.....



Cheers Glen.

 

You might not be aware of this, but we have a perfectly fine, functioning "quote" option on this forum.

 

this is why women aren't attracted to older men. computer illiteracy is a major turn off.

 

Ahh, that's nice. Is there anything wrong with the way I did it? I've been doing it like that for decades....

Also, I'm not computer illiterate. I built most of my early systems and have been using linux since the mid-90's.
I reckon I AM, however, "forum illiterate", since I've never bothered using their buttons. I'm not interested in the burden of dating.

And to think all this time I thought being old was the turnoff.

 

^ i was really just joking about the computer illiteracy thing. to be honest, i think the biggest turnoff is not knowing their shitty music.

 

You Just Keep Digging A Deeper And Deeper Hole For Yourself.....



Cheers Glen.

 

Kind of hoping the shitty music quip was a reference to Pink Floyd

 

young women these days don't even know pink floyd. lucky bitches.