Fantasy Of My Wife

I have a fantasy for my wife to play with a guy is well endowed. I have had this fantasy for many years and it will not go away. I really enjoy cuckold vids and I love to imagine my wife with someone much larger than me. I have used a BBC dildo on her before and she really enjoyed it. We have had a discussion about how I want to see her happy by using a large dildo on her. I am struggling to tell her about my fantasy and feelings though. I do not want her to think I don't love her anymore.

 

The next time you are using the dildo on her ask "Can you imagine if this was real?"

That leaves the response entirely up to her. She may say something like "NO WAY!" which kind of squashes that fantasy or she may surprise you and say "That would be fantastic!"

You'll never know unless you ask.

 

Lots of us have similar fantasies. When my wife and I are using our big dildo/vibrator, I ask her if it reminds her of the real one she had years ago that she describes as "really big." She always smiles and says, "Yes, but his didn't vibrate."

 

I might just do that thanks

Does when talking about a previous guy your wife had sex with who was big excite you even more

 

Absolutely! I like for her to tell me about all of her sexual activity with other guys. Most happened when we were dating and before we were engaged. Only a few things have happened since we've been married.

 

I have very opposite fantasy, that I love to see another girl while we are having sex. I once asked my husband would he like to see another participant? He was excited. Now he often inquires about my fantasy, but I am bit reluctant for obvious reason.

 

Hi thanks for your reply so you would be happy to watch your husband have sex with another women. Or would you want to play with the women as well

 

You should just talk it over with your wife. You never know, my wife (gf at the time) suggested she wanted to try another man. But even after talking it over it took nearly 2 years for it to happen.

 

I've been to swingers clubs a few times as a single man. There are a few that are welcoming to singles. One particular time a man approached me and said that his wife wanted to have oral sex with me and that he wanted to watch. His wife added that I had a cute butt (I was standing in a g-string, I was wearing more clothes than most of the men LOL). Anyway, it turned out that it was their 10th wedding anniversary and that they were both wanting for her to have oral sex with a different man while he just stood there watching and masturbating to it all. As I was single, I had no problems with it. Some men might have been turned off by the fact that there was another man in there watching and stroking his cock, but this didn't bother me. I took them up on the offer and I went down on her first and then she went down on me. All f that and I helped them live out their mutual fantasy. I'd try approaching her gently about this fantasy though.

 

My gal has had several guys larger than me. We both find it a turn on as she talks about bigger cocks fucking her . That said, I have always told her I'd give her a hall pass if she ever wanted a bigger cock in her again.

 

As both a cuckold and a bull (25 years), all I can say is that this is one of those things where the reality is not as good as the fantasy. It can work only if your wife actually wants to do it. The majority do not. It is one of those things that if she says no, you drop it. Ask anyone who actually did cuckolding. Many are found on the internet but I yet to met one that knew a real cuckold in his personal life. They believe what they read and see online where most are fantasy posts and professional porn actors, even most of the so called amateur porn. Even wonder who is using flash photography in the background or moving the video camera around to show the husband?

Cuckold can work if you do it very occasionally. Vacation time is the best time since you will never see the guy again. In your fantasy, the bull has no face and disappears once it is over. In real life I came home to guys waiting in from of my house for my girlfriend. They thought that just because she had sex with them she was now their girlfriend. She ended up gang banging my three best friends, for real and then started seeing one of them behind my back. That killed our relationship. Out of the 4 cuckold couples I was involved with, all but one got divorced when the wife ran off with one of her bulls. The one who is still married asked me three times to let her live with me if she divorced her husband. Her husband was divorced by his first cuckoldress when she ran off with one of her lovers.

My wife cuckolded me once and regrets it to this day. He was the only other guy she had sex with. However, she is bi and had thousands of threesomes with me and her girlfriends. She is also a cuckquean which was great because it allowed me to date single girls and cuckoldresses. All I am saying is that in your fantasy you are not feeling what you will feel when it happens. Many couples end up fighting about it and bringing it up in arguments. It can even be used against you in divorced proceeding to make it appear that you are a pervert who wanted her to have sex with other men. It happened to two friends of mine. I tended to have a sexually liberated groups of friends due to our lifestyle. As I said, if you do it once or three times a year, it can work if both want it and are not the jealous type or form emotionally bonds easily with their sex partners. That is something that you will only learn when it happens. It is also one of those things that once done, cannot be undone. What you see online is mostly fantasy. Like many guys you jerk off to cuckolding porn until you associate it with sexual arousal. However, since it is not your wife you are seeing, you are not feeling all those things that you will feel when you see her kiss and caress another man and enjoy sex better with him than you. You will also have to live with the fact that now that she knows how much better sex can be with others, she will want that more and more. It is not uncommon for cuckoldresses to cheat. To fall in love with guys and not tell their husbands. No one wants to keep having sex being the puppet of their husband and having to provide details. She will eventually want a lover she does not have to share with you. One she can do what she wants to do and not report on it. Take heed.

 

you don't have to worry about the fact that if you open up to your wife, she will stop loving you! (Don't you think that's silly?). These dreams are part of you, and your wife loves you completely, so you don't have to worry about it. Maybe she wants the same thing, but she's just afraid to tell you. You should take a chance and maybe it will all end in luck. I also took a chance when I was choosing the staff for my wedding. i needed a great photographer, but i didn't know who i could turn to. After searching the forums, I found Darwin wedding photographer. This was my only option and I decided to order their services. I was very surprised when I saw how high-quality photos I got. I hope you also take a chance and then everything will be cool for you!

 

on behalf of all well-endowed men, we are always happy and proud to help our smaller brothers

 

I have had the same fantasies. Talked to my wife about it and no interest from her . Tried for years. I'm still hopeful but realistically it ain't happening. Would still love it to though!!!!!

 

Talk to her about it, you maybe surprised at her response . Especially if shes already got a black dildo

 

Same with me.

 

Might I suggest an opposite fantasy>

Use a vibrator on her that is smaller than your penis... then you are the big one!

 

We was playing one night and we had made an over sized toy that was foam and very pliable. I thought it would be super hot to just tease her and rub it on her. To my surprise she was affected same as me but started me and said push it in baby. So hot, i couldnt get it in. Im very patient and try to be gentle. To my great horny surprise she insisted that i just need to push harde. Mmmmm love it, looks so amazing

 

It's amazing just what a woman is capable of accepting inside her. I was with a woman for some time back in the 80s who was 4 years older than I, and in her mid 30s at the time. We'd experiment sexually quite a bit too. One time we wanted to see just how much her vagina would accept, so we worked our way up from a banana to a salami . We're talking the big roll of unsliced with the skin on the outside packaged from the factory. It was about 16 inches in length and probably 4 inches in diameter. By the time she finally cried uncle on it she'd taken about half of it. Amazing

 

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