Best First Vibrator As A Gift?

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  1. superking75

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    Okay, maybe not the best place to ask but I'll give it a try.

    So my girlfriend (of over a year) has never owned or used a vibrator and I've been looking into getting her one as a surprise gift.

    I know very little on the subject and was looking if anyone had suggestions:
    Preferably of smaller size and if possible quieter being she's still in her parents house.

    If that made no sense, my apologies ahead of time. Kinda one if the reasons i'm asking.

    Edit: In the under $45 ish range would be preferred but isn't an end all be all.
     
  2. silk896

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    A small, easily handled one is best. There's lots of them.

    however!! You are buying a first vibrator. Don't make it scary; steer away from the dildo concept. You can move in that direction after you ascertain if she likes the whole concept. Some women just don't do toys.
     
  3. shur-y-not

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    Go with one of those small egg shaped one.
     
  4. SluttyJess

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    The egg ones that shur-y-not said could work since they are small, otherwise I'd say go to a sex shop and ask for prices for a vibrator the size of your dick or smaller so you know your gf won't have problems with it
     
  5. lovelucy

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    The Eva is the first hands-free vibrator gift that given by my friend
     
  6. Crystal_Nocked

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    Really?

    I've met very very few women who don't enjoy toys. If haven't in the past. Either when using them alone or with a lover.

    My wife and I use em occasionally. My first wife was actually a sex therapist and told me about the most women use toys thing. At least, again, those born after 1970 or thereabout.

    Never heard of one getting scared either. Why would they get scared. LOL. Unless maybe they were raised Amish or some other very oppressed environment?

    Rather, most women dig the shut out of vibrators and the only scary part is some are scared to ask hubby to introduce them into their sex play. Thinking hubby might feel insecure.

    Hope this helps.

    Hey, this is an anonymous forum.

    You can be honest with us.

    LOL.

    Or maybe you were? And have just lead a sheltered life?

    One with a decided dearth of O's.???

    Hope not!

    Cheers.
     
  7. Mistress Margaret

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    I started with a plastic hand held battery powered one in the shape of a cock, about 7" long. My husband purchased it for me when we were dating.

    Eventually, I worked up to the Hitachi Magic Wand, which was also a gift from him. For many women, that is the ultimate vibrator. I have had countless orgasms with that......
     
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  8. soulcompromise

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    What about a really sleek looking metallic one? :)
     
  9. bft4evr

    bft4evr Senior Member

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  11. jpdonleavy

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    In Japanese educational films, the Hitachi Wand appears to be the vibrator of choice and then a sort of egg-shaped thingie that goes deep into the vagina, not to mention plastic beads for insertion in one's bottom.

    Don't know what the anniversary date is for the invention of the Wand but it should be a national holiday in Japan. I know that Gen D. MacArthur was one of the first to buy one.
     
  12. jpdonleavy

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    It's the absolutely, hands down, best place to ask
     
  13. ahsorandy

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    I would recommend the Fun Factory Layaspot.
     
  14. Candybuttons

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    I love the hitachi, it's not as discreet, but the big head covers a lot of surface area which is why it gets women to cum Fast!
    Don't buy anything that needs batteries, get something rechargeable and waterproof!
     
  15. Goander

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    A Jack Rabbit Pearl. She'll love you forever.
     
  16. Alice Bloom

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    My boyfriend got me a remote control vibrator ;) It was so hilarious going into the supermarket while he was controlling me. hehe

    I think he got it from here
     
  17. Brittney blonde

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    Those are so much fun!
     
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  18. thefallenone1986

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    bet you had fun ;)
     
  19. BPC

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    One of our favorites is the Lelo Gigi. I put it inside her for her G-spot and lick her clit. Good combo!
     
  20. SantaCruzRob

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    As others here have mentioned, the egg is a good choice. However, a word of caution, do not set the gift under the family Christmas tree, could be awkward when the kids ask what mommy just unwrapped. :eek:
     

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