Intrigued By Other Peoples Sex Life!

A bit of a strange question (and apologies if this has already been asked). Does anybody ever wonder about what other people's sex life is like? It could be people you know or random strangers you see on the train, bus, etc. So for example, I was recently talking to someone at work who came back from holiday with her bf this week. She's pretty good looking in a simple kind of way...and was wearing a tight top at the time which showed how nicely shaped her tits were ( which I never really noticed before).

Anyway...while she was telling me about her trip my mind started wondering to whether she had holiday sex while away and how many times. Then I started wondering what she's like in bed and what type of things she likes. What's her favourite position? Is she a grinder or a rider? Is she a screamer or squealer or giggler or swearer? Does she like giving bj's and does she swallow or spit? This got me quite horny as I started picturing what she would look like having sex. I have a tendency to see people on the train and wonder the same type of thing....what is their sex life like.

Also, has anyone been in a situation where they’ve found out something sexy about someone they know (e.g. a friend, work colleague, etc) without them knowing? For example, I was once told on a night out in one of my previous jobs that someone in the group had sex on the last night out with a girl in the office….he went into detail about how the girl was loud, swore quite a lot, had big tits that bounced around a lot and also loved licking the guys cock tip. Everytime I saw her in the office afterwards I kept picturing her doing it based on the guys description….and she didn’t have a clue I knew. I of course didn’t spread it across the office any further…was just sexy knowing.
Does anyone else have similar thoughts? Or is it just me? Lol. Interested to hear what other people think of.

 

Sure I do, I think many people do.....as long as you don't inappropriately intrude upon people's private stuff I'd say it's fine.

 

Nice Sally! What sort of things have you found out?

 

I would not count this as truth with only one person telling you this. I would grant her the benefit of the doubt until you hear confirmation from others with first hand knowledge, otherwise, it's all hearsay. JMHO.

 

Well, I'm the opposite. I have no interest in other peoples sex lives, I assuming if they are talking it up for other reasons

Why talk? Just go do it

But thats a bit of a buzz kill for this thread

 

Of course - as the night follows the day - it's an aspect of voyeurism and if people weren't voyeuristic would they really stand staring at car wrecks, landslides, avalanches the the rising plumes of nuclear (nucular for some people) detonations. When I masturbate I fantasize about zillions of different people doing zillions of fun things (in States where legal).

When I lived in Bermuda, my wife went on a naval training course in Memphis and a couple moved into the basement apartment below me. Virtually every night they cried and moaned and articles of furniture went creak, squeak, groan. You can't really blame me for ;lying in bed wanking furiously enthusiastically energetically - breathing sterterous, eyes rolled back into wherever eyes roll back to - harsh cries issuing from my parched mouth as I pictured my lovely young wife in her bra and panties, or in the swimsuit that used to have periodic wardrobe malfunctions when we swam on the North Shore.

 

Often in the presence of the prim and proper one senses a mysterious erotic undercurrent - how they try to repress their desires by slipping on their thick, cotton bloomers, their thick cotton bras which reveal no trace of turgid nipple - how they cast their eyes down behind their thick glasses when in the presence of males in the quiet confines of their preferred house of worship - how they whimper when the parson who has silently walked up behind they says "Are we being good in the presence of Our Lord today, Edith?" and gently fondles their shoulders to emphasize his paternalistic concern, not embarrassed in the slightest that his tumescence nubs against her knickers/panties/bloomers/camis making her moistly receptive but too paralysed with shyness to speak (SLAP!!!!) - OH! sorry mum - I was just reminiscing.

 

How often did you choke the chicken to that/those image/s?

 

I think lots of people have their little secrets. My wife has told me about girl talk with her friends, and several had done things. I would not have believed.

 

I am not interesting in the sex life of others because mine was always better. My wife and I wife swapped, swung and had a few thousand FFM threesomes with her various girlfriends, one who was in our marriage for 30 years. In fact, threesomes were our normal sex for all that time. My wife realized that she was bi early on by watching me have sex with other girls during group sex. Then she started asking her girlfriends to join us in bed but only watched me have sex with them. One night I asked her to join us and then encouraged her to make love to her best friend who just had an orgasm with me. She did and two months later her best friend was living with us. Both of my ladies tried every fetish you will find on Fetlife.com and some not listed. I have had a sex life that reads like a porn story but I bet I had more threesomes than most porn actors since I was at it for 30 years with my wife's long time steady girlfriend. I have done all the things you see in porn. My wife is 4' 11" and was 79 lbs when we married before she balloned up to 90 lbs. now. I was able to have intercourse with her legs wrapped around my wife and she was very flexible. Nothing was off limits to her so we tried everything we could think, read or see. We did the sex on the beach thing which sucks in real life due to sand acting like sandpaper. The wind carries sand so it gets into everything even if you are on a blanket. We loved sex in the back of limos. I am blessed with a very good salary so we used limos to go to my private clubs. The driver could not see but he can hear as we found out the first time we did it. The girls would then makes sure that they said things to arouse the driver. I always tipped them well.

A typical night for us was a threesome followed by me having sex with each girl separately. That was our quality time together since our threesomes were more raw sex and doing things that only 3 people could do. They were rarely making love. That came afterwards when one on one.

I am a corporate IT VP so I have access to everyone's email and especially the employees who leave us. I get to see what they are into, who they are having affairs with and all sorts of sexual information dating back for years. Last year I was doing maintenance on my boss's PC when I found a bunch of email that were sexually explicit to our COO. Both were married but having an affair that lasted a year. As always happens with affairs with your employees, when they broke up he quit rather than see my boss every day. She is the one that broke it off and the guy she was cheating with is 8 years older than her and has a wife with medical problems that reoccur a lot. He moved to Italy to get away and not be able to be blackmailed by employees who could put two and two together. I was the only one with proof and a short email to both of them, reminding them that company emails are not private and they may wish to delete some of them, guaranteed me job security. I know my wife's husband as we are both Vietnam vets and interested in computers and firearms. That did not turn me on but rather gave me information to secure my job.

Despite our non traditional sex life and marriage, we only told people with a need to know. I always felt that when a woman shares her body with me in an intimate way, a bond forms that includes not telling others about it. Every sex partner I had refused to tell me about their former boyfriends, penis size, etc.. I think many believe like I do but am aware of guys who think telling others makes them more manly or evokes envy. Not my style. Outside of my house people viewed me as ultra conservative. That is how I dressed for business and how I acted in public. In fact, most thought I was a monogamous conservative guy sexually. My last boss would not stay in the same hotel with me because he felt that I would disapprove of his cheating on his wife when on business trips. Little did he know. None of the people we played with visited sex forums and I just did two years ago since I am too old to live the life I used to. Even still, we are still more kinky than anyone we know. No one but her former sex partners knows my wife is bi or that we lived in a poly triad. Next month one of our former playmates is visiting with her husband she met after she moved away from us and whom we never met before. She has no idea that we were in a poly triad with one of her friends and that we had sex with all of the friends in her crowd. As I said, need to know. I did not have to brag about sex since I was getting more than most do.

 

You should contact her ....heheheheheh

 

Well yeah...we are after all males. This is what we do.
Every woman we meet that is remotely attractive to us we wonder and fantasize about them sexually...in numerous ways. It would be abnormal if this wasn't something you do regularly.

 

If you don't wonder how other sex lives go then you don't ponder different things to put into your sex life that is known be viewing others. This simple logic means I ponder about kinks and how to go about them in various ways.

As a result I'm into a lot of kinks. <_<

 

I think everyone likes to fantasize...I'm pretty sure that is normal. If I see a women I am attracted to I think to my self the dirty things I'd love to do to her. Would I do them if I had th chance, he'll no. I'm in a relationship. If I wasn't sure. I think this is pretty normal, I think there is a small percentage that actually have the extra affairs, swing and that life style. Each to their own and if it works great.

You only live once, be happy

 

r u new here?

 

I love the way you can write all this stuff deadpan

 

Sometimes I'm concerned that others' sex lives aren't very good and I wonder what's going on. Other times I have passing thoughts about others' sex lives, but I know my imaginings aren't correlating to any reality I can be certain of so it seems kind of pointless. So yeah I don't really think about others' sex lives. I have fantasies of course, but I don't know that I really wonder what a girl is like in bed. What she's like with another guy and what she's like with me don't necessarily have anything to do with each other, 'cause I think most guys and girls are out there trying to convince themselves that all the girl wants is cock.

That's all some guys have to offer...the girl wants to be cherished so she'll conform to whatever he wants. But it's no use, 'cause she doesn't just want cock; she wants to be cherished, approved of. Approved of for all the bitterness the world has left her with. For most girls this ultimately isn't enough, though it works out fine for some. But I've seen women completely demolished by this attitude once too often. They end up single with kids in their thirties and they're nervous and physical wrecks. As soon as they reach out to the guy to love them as a beautiful thing they're rejected, 'cause he's obsessed with the ugliness. And she's left broken and bruised, thinking the ugliness in her is all that there is...thinking the whole world is just ugly. It's really pathetic, these girls giving their all to delusional dipshits who don't give a shit about them.

Of course there are other genuine lovers out there who hold deeply onto the memories of the people they've loved. That's not really me either. I'm not that wishy-washy. And I don't fantasize about what that's like 'cause that's too special and none of my business.

So yeah...no, I don't really fantasize about what other people's sex lives are like. Kind of backwards from other guys but I'm pretty clingy.

 

Sounds like my sister-in-law. If you are not going to be faithful, break it off. You're a horrible person if you make a promise and break it. You can't even argue with me. If you make a promise and break it, you suck. Your word means nothing.

 

Shame on you!

Now, as your punishment... you will have to sleep with... ME! :yikes: