Hooking Up With Your Ex?

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  1. Jjtmp

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    Just gonna toss this out. My ex and I got married when we were 19 & 20 about 28 years ago. He Ng young the sex was ok we had 1 kid. We're only married about 2 years.
    Since then she has been remarried a couple times etc. Myself only once currently. Several years ago the ex and I ended up sleeping together. The sex was absolutely amazing. Especially since she had 4 other kids. This hook up just happened took us both by surprise. Me more than her my current wife and I have not been what you would call close for a long time
    Sector her seems like a chore than anything..

    How many of you have hooked up with your ex 20 years latter/earlier, And how did you feel and did you go and do it again? Did you use BC pull out what.. not looking to be judged just looking to see if I should feel bad for taking her up on another encounter?
     
  2. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Your first sentence reads as if your ex is a male.
    Your second sentence suggests she's female.
     
  3. morrow

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    Sounds like what your doing is having a fantasy about your X because your now wife isn't giving out no more!

    Sure, go be a cheat! Make sure you can lie! Woman have a taste for these lies!

    Hook up with my X! Mmm brings no end of imagination into my head!
     
  4. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    every sentence reads as if he has fat fingers and no ability to proofread.
     
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  5. Golden_Wheel

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    There was a typo in the second sentence,
    Not a big deal.

    I hooked up with an ex Who I actually hated.
    It was just sex. It was Once really good and
    just affirmed it was forever over.
    I was happy to tell the person They could Not stay
    The night.

    I have never cheated on a partner
    But understand the appeal when one feels
    Stuck in a relationship. I have always been in
    A position where I could leave.

    Sounds like you could use a repeat with the ex. :)
     
  6. WillButler

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    I hooked up with an ex I hadn't seen since high school after exchanging email for a year. There was a lot of build up, but not a lot of sizzle when it finally happened. We kept in touch but I found excuses not to hook up again.

    I don't feel bad for hooking up, but I do feel bad that she thought it would lead to more. Maybe even getting back together.

    If your being straight with your ex, and careful not to hurt your ex, I don't see any reason for not hooking up again.
     
  7. Sharkman84

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    Fuck no, I wouldn't piss on the bitch if she was on fire.
     
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  8. Kerri

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    Yeah I've hooked up with an ex. It went well ;-).

    It was just a one-day thing when we were both home from college.
     
  9. AirBare

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    Personally I'm opting to throat punch my ex so she couldn't say another F'n narcissistic thing.
     
  10. Reverand JC

    Reverand JC Willy Fuckin' Wonka

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    I've done it once and although the sex was good the overall experience helped me realize why she is my ex.

    C/S,
    Rev J
     
  11. Bijay_08_2000

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    My ex and I have been divorced for about 10 years now. About 5 years ago, we started fucking again. She's had boyfriends, but if I call her and tell her I want to see her, she drops everything, and spreads for me. The sex is better now, than it ever has been. I'm sure there's still some psychological ties there, but it just seems like it's hotter because it's just fucking, and there are no expectations.
     
  12. Peaceful_LotusFlower

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    I don't see harm in it. Make sure your clear with her and not straying her along.

    I won't mess with my ex's anymore. Been there, done that. I was left heartbroken in the end. Good thing I learned from it.
     
  13. pensfan13

    pensfan13 Senior Member

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    I'm pretty sure he didn't mean the word sector and I am sure he meant later not latter. No big deal like you said....but proofreading was still not done.
     
  14. Goander

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    I hooked up with an ex once that came to me for it. She had broken up with me, so we got a room and I screwed her. I called her the next day and said it was fun but I didn't think it was going to work out. Mean I know but she had broken up with me. I had a variety of partners to choose from at the time.
     
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