Only about 5% of men does this apply to based on everything I read. Most guys blow too fast. This writer is in the category of “difficult blowjob cummers” and I think I have a solution. If the brain is the most sensual organ of the body, the brain needs massaging equally with the penis. I’ve heard of women that have never had an orgasm in their life by any means. I think the solution to both male and female orgasm is mental. For women, I can only suggest the use of a “Sybian”, albeit this toy will not address the mental side of an orgasm. The remainder of this writing addresses a solution for difficult male cummers. Solution: Two women are required for this procedure. Woman A will work the penis in the traditional spirit of a good blow job. It is essential that she loves and lives for cum in her mouth. Woman B will work the mind by the use of passionate kissing and verbal or non-verbal gestures. This means an intimate emotional bond is essential. Pops every time and only takes 10 minutes or less. Problems involve the set up. Its going to be difficult to find two women willing to work together as a team and possess the essential traits described above. Comments welcome
Right - you need to find two women willing to help one guy and who will be happy with getting nothing in return
I'll never understand a man not being able to cum from a blowjob. It's all I think about some days. 90% of a blowjob for me is trying not to cum...
There are blowjobs done wrong, I know so from experience. I met a recently divorced woman years ago and her blowjob was bad. I let her do her thing and it never gave me any sensations that led me anywhere close to tingles. I gave her a tip but she would not take it, instead she reverted to her own way after doing different for maybe 3 seconds. If my aim had been to receive a long blowjob it would have been a different story but I might have gone soft in her mouth The rest of the fun was good at least
Not everyone can give a successful blowjob. I had two women who couldn’t get past precum and they gagged, done with oral. One escort giving me a blowjob even with a condom on, my choice, could not do much. I asked for edging and she started fine. As soon as I stopped her at my first orgasm she was over. Seeing my cock pulsate and twitch, the mere idea of an ejaculation made her gag strongly. We switched to a handjob and even then she gagged and stopped doing it once I started ejaculating. Clearly, wrong trade for her.
My friend told me his girl sucks his dick and he never cums. I've had the same experience on several occasions. It's like eating pussy. You just need to know how. Tell them what to do. A penis head needs rubbing stimulation and some women do not concentrate on that. Go ahead and do a deep throat if you can but when you get down to business just concentrate on the head. Or hold it with your hand and mouth and go up and down but make sure your index finger rubs the head. I guarantee it will work every time.
Ok, I have a mental block. I have never cum from a BJ. Not even in a threesome where one was sucking my cock and the other was sucking my face. Not saying it didn't feel good. Just not over the top feel good. They even switched but after a while she got tired or jaw sore. A BJ is welcome foreplay for what comes later. I've cum from a hand job, tit fuck, vaginal intercourse, even once fucking my cock in her arm pit. But not from oral. Over 30 different women have had my cock in their mouths and all have pulled off to get me to cum some other way. But that's okay. I'm not missing anything as I really would rather ejaculate into her pussy instead of her mouth. If I don't squirt in her pussy then her belly or tits work just as well. Then I can lay on her and squish my semen between us after I make my deposit. Besides if I didn't have that mental block and could cum in her mouth she may swallow it all before I get any. That ain't no fun.
Only a handful of women who gave me oral brought me to orgasm with the head only. Even there, I would like them to work the shaft at the same time for maximum sensations