I Need Blow Job Advice, Pointers And Tips Please!

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by Candybuttons, Mar 6, 2017.

  1. Candybuttons

    Candybuttons Sweet Member

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    I enjoy giving blowjobs, I never complain, never said no when BF asked, I even do it without being asked. I find it erotic and fun and I love knowing that he loves it. I haven't had any complaints but I want to be better. I want to be the best!

    Here's my questions and don't laugh.

    - Will my jaw always be sore when sucking?
    - Are there a certain position that men prefer when getting a BJ?
    - is it possible to train my mouth to open wider or is that it? It is what it is?
    - I can't comfortably suck it from the side, I can only get it partially in my my mouth if I do, my F-ing mouth doesn't open any further. Is this normal ?
    - How can I train myself not to gag when I deep throat?
    - How can I learn not to gag when swallowing?
    I like swallowing cum, but it makes me gag and then I feel bad. I even threw up on a BF once which was really embarrassing. ( I can't believe I just shared that)
     
  2. averageguy6

    averageguy6 Average Ordinary Guy

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    [SIZE=10.5pt]Will my jaw always be sore when sucking? Probably [/SIZE]
    [SIZE=10.5pt]Are there a certain position that men prefer when getting a BJ? I like to be sitting, leaning back with the person between my legs.
    Is it possible to train my mouth to open wider or is that it? It is what it is? I don’t know May just be physical size How big is his cock?

    I can't comfortably suck it from the side, I can only get it partially in my my mouth if I do, my F-ing mouth doesn't open any further. Is this normal ? [/SIZE]
    How can I train myself not to gag when I deep throat? Practice and repetition.
    How can I learn not to gag when swallowing? Practice I guess I never had a problem with that.
     
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  3. Candybuttons

    Candybuttons Sweet Member

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    Thankyou for replying!
    As for the cock size, they have all been much the same, idk exactly because I never measured it but I guess similar to a banana with the peel, maybe slightly thinner. As for lenghth , idk, about the length of a big banana.

    Why is sitting on a chair best?
     
  4. averageguy6

    averageguy6 Average Ordinary Guy

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    Personal preference, easier Lean back and relax and enjoy it. I like a guy sitting, leaning back so I can lick his balls. Laying on a bed is ok too.
     
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  5. Candybuttons

    Candybuttons Sweet Member

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    I will try it anyway he wants, but the most comfortable way so far is on my knees, and 69.
     
  6. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Even if you are "the best" to someone you're going to be "the worst" to someone else so that's a pointless achievement to try and gain.

    What you should really be aiming at is finding those different guys that enjoy different things so you can learn from them on how to give oral to the guys that are into different things.

    I've no experience, but I bet different techniques feel different on different spots.

    I worked out that whatever I was doing for my partner in terms of oral was great, but she differed from other girls I went home complexed one day I didn't understand what I was going wrong.

    Now I'm pretty confident with all types of girls. :)

    So, aim for that instead me thinks.
     
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  7. Candybuttons

    Candybuttons Sweet Member

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    Do guys like when a girl asks specifics? Or would they rather her know what she's doing?
     
  8. bft4evr

    bft4evr Senior Member

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    There is nothing wrong with questions like

    "how does this feel?"

    "do you like this?"

    "is there anything you'd like me to do?"
     
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  9. Phixer

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    I can't answer for all but I would appreciate that you asked and would answer honestly. By asking what your partner likes you are showing an interest in doing what pleases him.
     
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  10. iamjustme

    iamjustme Wishful thinker HipForums Supporter

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    The biggest thing really is watch the teeth, other than that it is hard to go wrong.
    As for my favorite position, I would go with "Average Ordinary Guy", only I prefer a female. In the sitting position you can also watch.
     
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  11. Reverand JC

    Reverand JC Willy Fuckin' Wonka

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    The rant that Jason Lee has in this scene sums up communication during oral sex really well:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VD26xyWewcE

    C/S,
    Rev J
     
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  12. juicelover

    juicelover Member

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    I enjoy giving blowjobs, I never complain, never said no when BF asked, I even do it without being asked. I find it erotic and fun and I love knowing that he loves it. I haven't had any complaints but I want to be better. I want to be the best!

    Watch his reactions to what you are doing,if he is writhing around like a fish on a line,CONTINUE what you are doing!..Ask him to tell YOU what feels nice,then do it..communication between partners is the key to mindblowing orgasms.and 'Practice..practice..practice!"..In the past 5 years,my wife went from a lady who didn't know what I wanted,to being a totally dedicated knob gobbler.deep throat took a while for her to master,and swallowing was another,but practice and trust,are the key points to remember...My wife removes her dentures which gives her more room to deepthroat,plus no nasty teeth marks on my cock.Other than sharing my stories here,my oral sex life,is awesome.She is ready to suck anytime anywhere,and loves to watch my reactions..every one of her bjs is better than the last..
     
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  13. mcme

    mcme lurker

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    I find it incredibly hot when I can feel my girlfriend's boobs being dragged up and down my legs or stomach as she's going down on me.
     
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  14. Flagme15

    Flagme15 Members

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    That's the way my gf does it, and I say whatever works for her.
     
  15. SluttyJess

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    It was probably embarrased, but there's no shame in that, I know a friend that happened the same to her, I hope the guy understood
     
  16. averageguy6

    averageguy6 Average Ordinary Guy

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    Well thanks man. I also prefer a woman for both giving and receiving. Most guys like to watch. guys a very visual that's why we look at porn.
     

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