Almost 23 And I Have Never Had Sex

You said it, not me. :d

 

well, it sounds like the issue is more about meeting someone who wishes to have a relationship with him...

 

Basically i dont know whether to wait until a very serious relationship or not. I am kinda hesitant to go into a relationship or marry completely unexperienced

 

I think you should have some one nite stand before your get serious. Have fun, learn about sex etc and then when you meet your true love, you will be able to impress her and you also won't wonder what it is like to have sex with different girls in the future because you will have already done it!

 

Not a bad idea, because arguably it could benefit a future relationship and avoid marrying / etc for the wrong reasons. How to go about making that happen is the question

 

This might sound weird but, I bet there are tons of woman that would love to have sex with a Virgin guy. Women that would be more then happy to show you the ropes! Probably older women, 30+ would be your best bet.

 

Haha neat but i'd rather get someone in her 20s

 

Just don't tell anyone.

 

well...i mean...there's also the fact that it's probably..fun? lol

 

Nah, you don't want some 20 year old, she won't be able to show you shit! You need a milf! Seriously! At least for your first fuck!

 

realistically, your best bet is to lower your standards. i think most guys that can't seem to lose their virginity spend too much time pursuing girls that are way out of their league and end up missing out on all kinds of other good opportunities while they're distracted.

 

Well sounds good lol. I will get to work on that

Based on what you have seen of me how much of a league do i have ?

 

Young girls want to be impressed in bed. They want a guy that knows how to fuck and knows how to do it good!
Actually, all women want this LOL...
I know so many girls in their early 20's even late teens, and they all want older men! Here is why, they are patient, knowledgeable, willing to please beyond the norm, they last longer then 30 seconds, and they are mature!

 

Well I can be that guy someday! It just means my first might be with a slightly older and more patient lady

 

I don't like it but I'm weird.

Women who consider themselves less attractive are probably your best bet.

 

Not sure what that says about my attractiveness lol

 

Here is what I think about attractiveness. I think people should date others who are on the same level of attractiveness.
That way neither one will feel less than or better than the other.
That being said, many attractive women want to date a slightly less attractive guy so that they can be their eye candy.
(I think there is a better term?)

 

Well don't worry about not having sex yet, I wish I could tske back some if my choices, You are saving yourself from stupid choices made in your teens.

Aldo I think today more people are having cyber sex instead of actual sex For their first time. When they ask people how old they were when they first head sex they relay sexting experiences age and that is when they lost it.

Strange times, the world is disconnected.... yeah, try online dating. Harder to meet people today I think than it use to be.

Joining an interest group too can help... whether it be a bike riding group or running a marathon for a cause. Just takes a smile and a hello. There are also books out there that some people swear by to meet people. The game by something Strauss guys swear works on meeting girls.

 

I think the original poster is getting off on this.

 

You've most likely set your standards too high, on a scale of 1-10 in physical attractiveness what would you say is the type of girl you approach?