I was about 30 and Jane was 27 when our son was born, so we had our own house and the ability to support him both emotionally and financially. To allow this to follow on, we then had our 2 daughters at roughly 5 year intervals. I feel that anyone bringing children into the word these days should have a sense of responsibility towards them. Christina seems to have followed our example, since she was 33 when the twins were born last month. From your comments, it seems as if you feel the same way.
I told my kid he was a gross mistake and a trick by his mother. He was eager to listen. We still talk but he doesn't talk to his mom now for 10 years.