Guy Makes Girlfriend Who Lives In Another Country Pregnant

Hey so this is a bit more hypothetical, about a situation I hope never happens but I wanted insight on what other people would do if it happened to them anyway.

So I'm a straight guy, with no kids, a 40k/year job living in the US with my mom, and I have a Bulgarian girlfriend living in Bulgaria. I won't explain how that all came to be because it's too long, but we are in love and I plan to visit her soon. When I do, we will have sex. We will use condoms, but I'm extremely afraid that I will make her pregnant.

My question is: what would you do IF you were in my situation and made her pregnant?

 

id be more worried about how id be getting home after her husband and brothers rob me

 

have you actually met this girl before, or is she just an online catfisher?

you're making pretty decent money; get your own place and you can probably find a real girlfriend in your own country.

 

We met when she came to the US but we didn't have sex. I know she's real.

Yeah I can find some girl here, blah blah blah but right now I'm in love with her and she is in love with me. I'd like to be able to have sex with someone I'm in love with, and it'd be my first time. After that, we'll move on.

 

But please, let's just stick to my question.

My question is: what would you do IF you made a girl pregnant who lives in another country?

 

Pay child support I suppose...

 

id probably get married and start the immigration process so i could get her here and see her more often ...and be a good dad to the kid

 

really, there's too many variables to answer that question. can i move, can she move, does either of us want to move, does she even want the baby, what are abortion and/or adoption laws in her country, what is my financial situation, what is her financial situation, what is our relationship situation, etc.

 

I can't move at this time.
She can't move at this time.
I'd like to move there but I don't think I can get a job in my field there, especially because of language barriers.
She doesn't want to move.
She doesn't want a baby but isn't sure if she'd be able to bring herself to abort.
Idk the abortion laws there.
My financial situation is good. I make 40k/year and I have savings and 401k.
Her financial situation isn't good. She just recently got a job.
Our relationship situation is good and wanting of making things work out.

 

Whatever you can.

 

I don't want kids

 

Me neither, but if the woman I love would become the mother of my kid I'd take my responsibility. In what way... that all depends on the details.
Why are you asking? Condom allergy?

 

No, neither I nor her have a condom allergy. I'm still just paranoid that I will make her, or any for pregnant for that matter.
Yes I love her, but we don't know if our situations will continue to work out after my visit to her. We prepared ourselves to part ways and move on after I visit and after we have sex for the first time. We want this to happen.

 

So use a condom and birth control.

 

Let's presume she can't take birth control so our only option is a condom. You'd still cum inside of her with it on? Because it's not 100% effective and I don't think the risk of pregnancy is worth the moment, but people keep saying that I have to cum while inside her with the condom on

 

This is the other thread I made:
http://www.hipforums.com/forum/topic/480137-where-to-cum-as-a-27-year-old-straight-virgin-male-in-love/

 

Lol ah is that what this is about...

 

Well I'm stuck between a phobia of pregnancy, and not wanting to ruin the moment of the first time I have sex, plus the first time I have sex with my girlfriend who I am in love with.

 

I would be thankfull that trump is president now and she will have to stay there.

 

Really, just because she's from Bulgaria? :-/
Maybe it's not a matter of you can find a gf in your own country.
Maybe he can, he just didn't because he cares about this girl....which he later confirms.

But then again, why include his salary in his first post?


Anyways, OP, have fun in Blugaria.
And look for Lars Mittank, I often wonder what happened to him.