Ladies: Ever Do A Blowbang ?

and did u like it ?

 

the fuck is a blowbang?

 

Ask a retarded question.......

 

Not actually fucking apparently.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=blowbang

 

What's So "Retarded" About Asking A Simple Question, I Didn't Know What It Meant Till secret_thinker Posted.



Cheers Glen.



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I think she means retarded as in asking girls if they like giving a bunch of fat slobs oral, not getting off themselves, having to clean a bunch of jizz out of their hair and eyes and the carpet.

 

According to dozens of threads on this site, the current fashion is no carpeting.

 

As a fantasy, this isn't that uncommon for a lot of women. Being used by a man for his pleasure alone with no thought given to her own enjoyment makes a lot of girls' pussies drip. However, those who fantasize about this actually enjoy having it done? Some, yes; some, no. Submissive women do tend to get off on the enjoyment of whoever they're being submissive to, but most submissive women are still monogamous and while they may enjoy serving, it has to be a person they care about and trust. The women who would actually enjoy serving strangers are relatively few and far between.

 

Unless you have actually talked to ALL the women, then how do you know if it is actually uncommon or not?

 

it is a sex forum..im just curious.. in real life would i ask a girl that...fuck no

 

I didn't say all women or even most women, I said "a lot of women". Of the many women I have talked to, many of those women had at least a fantasy level interest in such things. But in actual studies, rape fantasies, gangbang fantasies and other similar fantasy scenarios are always surprisingly popular.

 

Actually no, but it is a fantasy I've had for some time. These things are more difficult to arrange IRL than you might think. lol Yes, if the opportunity arose. But I enjoy giving oral, and yes I do like the whole rough gagging thing... so yeah...

 

Great post Impy!

Us men all love a woman who loves a good blowjob.

(Is there such a thing as a bad blowjob? I've no idea how many I've had over the years but I don't recall a bad one).

 

I'm a guy....but i love it. Otherwise known as bukkake

Simon

 

Nope.... you guys really think you get it but you dont. Sad. No wonder so many of us are left disappointed.

 

This...
I cant for the life of me understand why men think this is a reality. A guy who finds this attractive is actually turn off, simply because he is showing that he's selfish. This whole culture of selfish men are disgusting. Look at the statistics and you'll see how few women actually cum, so why are so many pretending to be porn stars? To please the male ideal, to appeal to them more than the next girl does. The biggest "whore" (and good friend) I ever knew told me that she had never gotten off before unless she was by herself and even then it was hard. Women today are stupid, and the men are retarded sellfish idiots who can't see the pleasure in giving.



To the guy above who was talking about fantasies of being used...

Sure, some women like that idea, i am one of them. But that does not mean i don't want to be pleased. I get wet as fuck sucking and swallowing, I love the idea of pleasing him, but what is the point in getting turned on wild just to be left with no release? There is NO pleasure in that and the giving feels more like taking after at that point. Porn actresses are being paid to love it without return, and all that shit is fake. I think porn has actually ruined male sexual (and female) interactions. You dumbasses use it as study material instead of just the simplest (and unimaginative) way to get your cocks hard in order to jack off.

 

You want to change the behaviour of (I assume all) males, maybe it's best to go with direct honesty, and not try and pull that one.

Let's say that's even remotely true, and it takes ALL girls too long to cum. Telling the guys that, you are just affirming to them they shouldn't bother trying in the bedroom, buying you little trinkets, flashing the cash will work better. Hence the behaviour.

That is you and most girls, when you say stuff like that you are encouraging (admittedly indirectly, but still encouraging) the very behaviour you are complaining about.

Of course it's not true, and the amusing part is the girls that do cum quicker than the guys all operate for the most part under every other girls radar, so it kind of comes off sounding like you don't know girls...or don't even know yourself in a way

 

Are you kidding me? I cum a lot and quite easily. But is wasn't always so, I actually thought there was something wrong with me when i was younger. I'd see all these people around me acting as if it was the single best thing ever. I'd go through the motions too, dick in the mouth, pussy, ass... this is how it happens right? I'd listen to my male friends talk about sex and took what they said at face value. Never considering that they were only worrying about themselves. But whywould they worry when allthese girls were lying about sex too? I was left wondering why i was so different than everyone else. But I'd lie and act like the sex was great for me too, because i did not want to seem like a hard tp please person or bad in bad. It wasnt until i heard one of my male friends say "eather outand then she's obligated to give you the pussy" that i realized something was off. That giving wasnt what it was about. Now granted, we were young. 19 or or so.


It wasnt until I was 20 or 21 that i ended up getting with a manwho was in his late 40's that i came. He fucking ate my pussy like a champ and then cleaned me off and said lets go eat. I didnt know, until that point, that i could be pleased. After he and i were done i didnt have sex with anyone for nearly 3 years as i just focused on my own body and mind. I'd masturbate until i'd cum and then do it again. No porn, no other partners. I wanted to be confident in my body before i tried with someone else. No lies after that, no pretending. I'd share and be open and honest. My sexlife and capabalities are great now. And now that i have no anxiety about cumming, passion takes over and i can get lost in my own mind with how my partner feels, smells, and looks instead of worrying about thw outcome or if i look like im supposed to. Like I'm sex drunk.



Sorry for the TMI. I just wanted to explain myself and where I am coming from personally. And at as a woman, I do hear this from my friends. I have been confused in the past and insecure. I had faked it because of the pressures. I just think that pretending and focusing more on fake things takes away from the abilty from having real good sex.


And no, i dont think it's normal for a woman not to cum, just many have accepted that it is. Or they just redefine what it means for a woman.




Sorry again if this is a mess. Im on mobile.

 

Oh and one more thing, I can figure out how to edit my last post. Maybe it's because I'm mobile.



I dont think this is all men. So please dont assume that. Though i can see why you might think i felt that way. As i said, it was a man who first led me to open my eyes out by my own sexuality, but he was of an older generation, one that learned by doing. And i do think most men want to please and are eager to to be good in bed. But they've been lied to a lot.


And btw, sorry if I've offended you or have come across as a manhater. The truth is, I love men.

 

All fine now, a little Jekyll and Hyde now though, or Hyde then Jekyll
As you said, they get lied to a lot.

I'm talking as a third party observer BTW. Many remain clueless, but a lot end up working out most of it is BS, and they end up bigger pricks a result

You gals all that surprised, is kind of your fault