Wife's Past

Who cares? She's yours now, not theirs. She's your queen, and she apparently does a good job making you feel like a king. So ta hell with them!

 

experience is a good thing

i remember the first guy i was ever with,,, he asked me to get on top of him

i did ,,,,, and then i sat there like a sack of potatoes ,,,,,

i had no idea ,,, what i was supposed to do ,,

i was 16 ,,, he was 19 and also wasnt experienced enough to direct me ,,,,

it was a bit of a disaster ,,, i also tried sucking his cock ,,, with not very good results lol

i had a few lovers after that and i learned a little until i was 20 and met a much older man

oh my god ,,,,,,,, the things i learned with him,,,,,

and above all i learned how to enjoy it ,,, and how to please myself

to this day i am grateful to him for what he did for me ,,, his patience and kindness and his unadulterated desire made me a much better lover

every man i have been with since owes him a debt ,,,,,,,,,

i often think about my first lover and wish i could have one night with him

knowing now all i know, i would love to give him the benefit of the experience i so lacked back then
dont think his wife would be too keen though ,,


i am happy that you are grateful for your wifes experience ,

you should ask her ,,, she would probably be only too happy to tell you

and it is a real turn on to talk about past experiences,,,,,,,,

I have to say i disagree ,,,, it is not natural at all to fill your mouth with someone elses body part and keep sucking until long past your gag reflex
it does take skill and stamina and must be learned ,,,, and if you want to love it ,,, it takes a lot of bjs to make an expert ,,,,,,,,
so yeah ,,,probably did suck the whole block off ,,,,,, well the men anyway ,,,,,,,

 

I dunno. Maybe for some women. Getting my wife to talk about her (extremely limited) past experience is like trying to pull nails with your teeth. In fact, she really hates talking about sex in any aspect. Having sex is fine with her (thank God!), but talking about it is another story entirely!

 

1st sex was at 10. She was 13. Best 4.2 seconds of that year!

Not having sex now, but if I was, I wouldn't care about the past.

 

Imagining my wife sucking someone else's cock doesn't really do anything for me. OTOH, fantasizing about my wife being fondled and fucked by other (specific) guys really gets my juices going!

 

My wife and I dated eight years, including college. We went to different colleges, so when we couldn't get together, she had a regular supply of dates with other guys. I knew she was fooling around. I didn't put those hickies on her tits that were there even though I hadn't seen her in two weeks, but I didn't know exactly how far she was going. Five years after we were married, I asked. The answer was that she was doing everything and enjoying it. Ever since then, it turns both of us on for her to tell about her past lovers while we fuck. She has been a completely faithful wife, and our marriage has been long and happy.
I would have been really pissed if I had known while it was going on, but in the end, I got to keep the girl. All they have are memories and a sense of loss.

 

I sincerely hope you are just joking, because if your not, you have a very sick attitude towards this topic, and women.

 

Dud, really? She chose you to stay with, so is it that much of a big deal?

My wife was a virgin when we met. I was her first lover. I took it upon myself (several years after we got married) to make sure that I wasn't her only lover!

 

Gee. I would more likely add them to my Christmas card list and ask for pictures. What they did was long ago and probably helped our sex life, once it got started.

 

Love to hear more about this part of your comment, got me very curious

I am in the same boat after 25 years married, she was a virgin at 27 when we married, and still never experienced another guy in any way, shape or form, but surely to god a virgin married to the same guy must have thoughts about what its like with another man.

She claims not, but she does get turned on very heavily watching a pecked up guy with a firm cock fucking a woman in a porn video, that much i know for sure.

Jack Napier is her favorite "Man" of porn, and when she watches him, i leave the room

 

I get asked about it often enough that I've detailed it in my HF journal: http://www.hipforums.com/view_journal.html?jid=4264

 

Wow nice story, i love reading stories like this if they are genuine and really are believable, so how does one write these journals in this forum ?

 

I haven't done it recently. The existing entries in my journal were imported from the old Hip Forum, before it was overhauled and I don't remember the current process. You should check the User Forum for existing threads on this subject.

BTW. glad you liked the story. That was a pretty wonderful time in my life.

 

Well my wife has never had any form of physical experience or encounters with any other man, nor woman for that matter, except for having a few therapeutic massages here and there at these womens day spas, and even tho these are full body, they are not sensual or sexual in any way, and for a long time she has always said she would never let another man see her naked if she could help it, or have a man or another woman ever touch her sexually, but i always have to wonder if she really does mean that, given i have always believed that she has had thoughts like this at some time, because i am pretty darn sure that if i was a virgin and had no sexual experience or contact with another woman prior to getting married that i would be wondering what it would be like with another woman for sure.

Anyway, i have a nice story to tell about a recent event that took place (it started out innocently) that has now accidentally set in motion a possible path for my wife to experience some form of 2 way sexual/physical contact or experience with another male some time in the future, but right now it is more to do with the build up for this by her recently experiencing sexual physical contact with 2 other females a few weeks ago (at seaparate times) and which has now panned out to involve a male performing the same physical contact on her in 2 weeks time that she had with the 2 women during the past 3 weeks.

All this started out very innocently on my part by simply booking her in for a private massage for her birthday at what i thought was a normal, legit private massage service, and it has evolved into what it has become right now, but you need to hear the story to understand it from the beginning, but the story is probably way too long to type it in here.

Would have to open up a new topic as it isn't really related to my partners past.

 

Actually, upon reviewing my own HF profile area, I re-discovered that you can create your own "journal" entries in your blog. I'll walk you through how I would do it.

1. Go to the top of the page (any page; this one should do) and click on your user name (buzzgunner in my case). A pop-down dialog lists a group of actions you can take.
2. Click on Manage Blogs and it takes you to your blog page.
3. On the right side of the page is a button that is labeled Create a Blog. Click it.
4. A Blog Terms and Rules page appears. Check the I have read, understood and agree to these terms of the Blog usage box and the click Continue.
5. The next page will want you to name your blog and (optionally) add a short description. Once you're done, click Continue again.
6. The next (and last) page allows you to modify your blog settings. They're pretty self explanatory and you don't need to do anything initially.
7. Click the Save button at the bottom.

That's it. You're done setting up your blog. Start adding your own entries!

 

If you ask her in the right way - she'll tell you. At least I would

 

Thanks a lot, might go create my blog soon.

 

How do I have a sick attitude towards women? My wife was pretty messed up from previous guys and one in particular that it took me years to clean up after. Unless you've been there, you will never get it.

 

Frustrated--insecure much?

 

It might have helped your cause a lot by mentioning this particular stuff in your previous post, and filling us in with a few specifics so we understood why you made the comments you did.

Was she being abused or something, if so, then i can understand and relate to what you have had to deal with.

To me, with the comments that you made before, it just seemed like you was just jealous that someone else had your wife before you, and we all reacted to that.

I sincerely hope that she is fine now.

Cheers