the best revenge is to whoever hurt you..let them be in the dark...and totally ignore them... it will hurt them more then trying to tell them in their face=you're an asshole... some people find an explicit pleasure in provoking others...they are not worth a blink.. :bandana: revenge is not in my vocabulary...I never hated anyone..i only disliked them :dizzy2:
falling backwards into the ambush you or others have prepared for your antagonist. or better yet, that nature has, and of which they have, by their own choice, remained ignorant of. really its sort of sad, but also gratifying, to watch the aggressively ignorant, kicking themselves in their own ass. they are of course, still a real threat to everyone else, when they can convince everyone to blame some other group then themselves. guilt doesn't require the invention of a hell. logic is to avoid creating cause for it. that is why thoughtlessness is never logical nor freedom. dum though. just not free dum. because its not exactly free. not even close to free. but if people, you know, would rather kill themselves then get a conscience, well, why should we morn, if that is their choice?
depression. theirs, not yours. depends on whether or not they actually deserve it. but if they refuse to relent trying to turn you into something you'd be ashamed of, like a mass murderer or something, then yes, they deserve it, without you being actionably guilty of anything. (well i have warned people, i CAN be cold if the context earns it)
I have! I used to love the dixie chicks so much. It's been a while since I listened to their music though.
In my experience, the best revenge is just to never relent your feelings of anger and mistrust of that person. No matter how much time passes, or how far the person goes to amend their transgression. Once Ive written someone off there's no recovery, and all future interactions between us will be met with disdainful silence and going out of my way to circumvent them as if they do not exist.
The best revenge is done in secret...unless it is revenge in your moms honor, in those cases you let everyone know why this mofo is running around on fire.
getting out of an idiot's way, and just letting them destroy themselves. especially if they'd rather do so then have a conscience. (yes i do know how to be cold, when it is well earned and appropriate)