Married Women's Views On Cuckolding Relationship

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  1. JoeyM51

    JoeyM51 Currently locked in chastity for the last 4 years.

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    Wife sharing is what is now called a hot wife. The wife can take on lovers while the husband does not. I lived with a girlfriend who had sex with other guys and my wife and I engaged in some group sex activities where we watched each other have sex with different partners. However I got lucky. My wife found that she enjoyed watching me with other women more than having sex with other guys. Soon she was inviting her girlfriends into our bed. I did not know it then but eventually she came out as bisexual and we settled in with her best friend for 30 years or our marriage. It was all my wife's idea. She never has sex with a woman unless I take part but sometimes she likes to just watch me and then have sex with me afterwards. I never asked questions because you do not look a gift horse in the mouth.

    As to cuckolding. The girlfriend we shared got married after living with us for 7 years. She needed financial long term security since she could not get any spousal benefits like medical insurance and half of my Social Security like my wife could. She went online and found a cuckold to marry. We socialized with the guy. He tried to watch once but freaked out and left. Our girlfriend never treated her husband poorly or said anything negative about him except his gambling addiction that ruined his first marriage and ruined their retirement. Was she a hot wife? Not really since she was part of a poly triad with us. Was he a cuckold? He thought he was since he had no control at all as to how long his wife stayed with us. He even would file out with us on vacation, turn his wife over to us and then disappear until it was time to fly home at the end of the week. Plus his wife called him every night from our house where she had her own room and told him what we did. All we were told is that they had an agreement and not to ask any questions. She successfully kept her marriage and relationship with us separate. We never saw her condo or son, in all that time. She would spend up to 2 weeks living with us each month but most times she stayed for a long weekend twice a month. Plus vacations of course.

    As far as we were concerned our girlfriend was poly like us but truthfully we rarely talked about our unusual relationship. To us it was just our normal life and our girlfriend knew her place in it and we never had a single problem or even an argument. She always made sure that my wife was OK with anything I asked her to do with me alone even though my wife said she could do whatever she wants since she was part of our life. I had sex with each women individually after our nightly threesome but the women never had sex together unless I as part of it. They would actually stop what they were doing if I left the room to get us something to drink. I would come back and find them chatting to each other while still in a 69 position and then continue doing what they were doing before I left the room. I think I got them to have sex with each other without me just once but they said it was no fun without me. They had no sexual imagination and I was the one who was the director and knew about all the fetishes we tried.

    The girls never even spoke of their sexuality and my wife never used the word bisexual until she was 63. The first time I asked her what she considered herself to be sexually, she said that she never thought about it before. That is how little we examined our life. Eventually she said that since she had sex with a woman a few thousands times, she guesses she is bisexual. She really never knew what bisexuality was. In our time it was not recognized as a sexual orientation by society and even the gay/lesbian community. My wife and girlfriend would have been labeled as lesbians in the closet and in our day that had very serious consequences. So they just never spoke of it and I think that is why they wanted me to take part. They knew they were not lesbians as they would be labeled at the time so having me with them allowed them to consider it an extension of hetero sex and doing it to arouse and entertain me. In the last 10 years of our relationship with our girlfriend, I was no longer the focus of sex. I became the guy who assisted them in pleasing each other. I was cut off from intercourse and oral was a special occasion thing. Our girlfriend grew into being the sadist to my masochist but only in the bedroom. 50 Shades of Gray was very tame compared to what we did. We did some far out things that most people would not think of.

    We never even called ourselves poly or heard of a poly triad until we moved away from our girlfriend and were just a couple again. My wife never looks up sexual things. For a woman who has engaged in more fetishes than most porn stars, engaged in group sex and shared me with her best friend, she does not like to talk about sex outside of the bedroom. She has opened up in her old age but it did take us awhile to get used to monogamy. Threesomes are so much better and to have the love of two women was more than I ever hoped for. My wife is most happiest with a male and female in her life. I never told a soul about our lifestyle until I first posted 2-3 years ago. I bit my tongue when guys would talk about wishing they could have at least one threesomes before they die. That was my regular sex and after awhile I enjoyed one on one sex for making love and threesomes for fun raw sex.

    Funny thing is none of us ever got jealous. When I watched my wife with another man it was just interesting to see her from afar. It did not bother me because I knew what I brought to the table in our marriage and what I watched was my wife having sex with men and not making love as we did with each other. Plus I never would be OK with her having sex with another guy unless the other guy allowed me to have sex with his woman. Just a quirk of mine because I am a very alpha male and could never allow my wife to have sex with a man while he gave me nothing in return. To me that is a submissive act to a male which I do not do.

    Hope this explains how some of us live. We knew lots of married couples into alternate marriages. They would swap, swing, do threesomes and form poly relationships like we did but they never had a poly relationship where both husband and wife both had sex with the third member. Jealousy always reared its ugly head at some point no matter how hard it was tried to be repressed. We were lucky. I knew my wife's best friend longer than my wife did since she is the sister of a childhood friend of mine. We always had crushes on each other but never hooked up because she was a good girl, like my wife, saving herself for marriage and I was the bad boy in our town. She also stayed with us for weeks at a time long before we got sexual with her. She called us family and we did the same so when my wife asked her if she would like to have sex with me after her divorce, she was eager to do so especially since she had not had sex for 8 months. I was the one who asked my wife to join us after I was done with her girlfriend. My wife came into the room to ask who died because her girlfriend screamed out her orgasm the loudest I ever heard before. Then my wife just started a conversation with us. I put two and two together based on how she liked to watch me with her other girlfriends and invited her in and the rest is history.

    What is interesting is that when we had our first wife swap it was like a peek behind a curtain separating the real world and the sexual different world we had entered. Our best friends for 3 years were swingers and swappers and we never knew it until they asked us to do it with them. From them we learned which of our neighbors and acquaintances were into it too and it was shocking since during the day they were mothers, divorced women, single women and married women, both young and old. They were regular looking and acting people during the day but at night they dressed like sluts and acted like them too. From that point on, everyplace we moved we found others like that among our neighbors. Never had to look far. Right now I live in a 55+ community and they have a wife swap meeting every Thursday night. Best explanation is like in the Harry Potter movies. There is the real world of Muggles and then the magical world of magic that the Muggles never saw or knew existed. We got to see that magic world and take part in it.
     
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  2. mjb0007bond

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    Not all cuckolding involves humiliation. Some like that some don't. In fact, the different scenarios of cuckolding can be quite varied and some unique.
     
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  3. al_s

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    Been with a number of couples over the years, including a few where hubby went down on me....but if they were into cucking or humiliation they never told me.
     
  4. BarryAllen

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    Im in a cuck marriage, I have been for years and my wife and I love each other more because of it
     
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  5. BarryAllen

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    I never new I was a cuckhold until it just kind of happens with my best friend and wife. She always tells me how much bigger and better he is and that I'm just a boy compared to him and it turns me on. Now I'm a bitch for both of them
     
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  6. hwhub

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    My wife and I have a cuckold marriage. For us it was an open marriage that morphed into more extreme cuckolding. I'm bisexual and my wife likes for me to watch and perform acts that some would consider humiliating.
     
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  7. Alice in SC

    Alice in SC Senior Member

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    My husband likes to watch and I really enjoy fucking his friend so I try to give myhmy husb a really good Show! His friend really likes it Too!
     
  8. RandyD

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    When I was in college I dated a few married girls, just by happenstance. With all of them, the girls eventually asked if hubby could watch. Right off the bat, I found the idea very arousing. The idea of fucking this guy's cute, eager wife right in front of him gave me a hard-on . . and the girls liked that.
    In those situations, when we were alone being drunken perverts, I loved to dominate hubby. I'd "make" him lick my dick after I fucked his wife. I'd "make" him lick my cum out of her swollen, oozing vagina when I finished. I'd even "make" him lick my feet . . . .all while his very aroused wife watched . .WHEW!

    I loved having them BOTH be my bitch. Outside of that 'fantasy world', we were just normal people. He wasn't my bitch unless we were engaged in cuckoldry.
    I remember driving along the coast with Julie in the front seat with me and Jeremy in the back seat. I stopped and had Jeremy and Julie switch seats. Julie was smirking the whole time because she knew what I was going to do. I had Jeremy lean over and suck me off while we drove. Julie sat in the back fingering herself, watching his every move up and down on my erection until she orgasmed.

    When we got there, everything was back to normal, no D/s, no crazy talk, just normal friends going out to a restaurant.
     
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  9. leggs

    leggs Banned

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    Our first time was with a co-worker of his and it happened after a night of drinking at the bar. The next day they talked about it and decided to do it again when we were sober to see if it was the same. After about a week or so we meet at a motel and had our play time and after my husband left me with his friend at the motel over night and picked me up the morning for lunch. We have had this pleasure a number of time now and it is always fun for both of us. We use co-workers and mostly married so no one get hurt or speaks out of turn. We are now do the threesomes with me and two co-workers over a weekend about once a month and my husband goes nuts when I get home. Our sex life is great now and getting better all the time
     
  10. AnyaZ89

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    No, I want my husband to share me. I need more than one lover.
     
  11. Just for fun

    Just for fun Live your best life

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    I saw that video too but its not true in every case. If there is a 2 man one woman sex act and the man gives the other man blow jobs and gets cum in his mouth then there is no difference if that man cums in her ya ya and the other man lets if drip into his mouth. Cum is cum either straight from the faucet or from the pussy.
     
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  12. Danny Franks

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    I have to have regular sex at the moment I am seeing a few women but they are not married
     
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  13. DaveTheBiGuy

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    Did you ever get to enjoy sexually dominating Jeremy and "make" him be your bitch without Julie being right there... simply because he was obviously sexually submissive to you?

    That seems to be something a lot of cuckolds would enjoy, to be sexually dominated by the other guy... The guy that keeps "his" woman sexually satisfied/fulfilled.
     
  14. Hugh_36

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    I don't get too caught up on labels. A friend will share my gf but there is no humiliation involved. I want him to have and and really get off on it and while there is some competition, I'm sure he wants to give her his best and prove he can make her feel good I think that is it.

    That said I am sure he enjoys having her in front of me, he is taking something precious and important.
     
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  15. Panama Jack

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    Agree, I don’t like labels either. Not into being humiliated. My wife respects me when we have a threesome with my old friend. Yes, she wants me to know she is enjoying herself, otherwise why do it.
    She wants me there.
     
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  16. Arch Duke Ferdinand

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    My wife and I have survived infidelities and a three way recently that wasnt what I expected but neither of us would be comfortable cuckholding; however, my wife gets highly aroused thinking about masturbating in front of other guys. She has done it a couple times in the past and it remains one of her core fantasies. We had a casual party friend do a boudoir photo shoot (he was a photographer) of her about 10 years ago that ended up with my wife fingering herself to orgasm in front of the two of us. The memory still gets both of us going.
     
  17. MikeBD

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    That sounds hot to me every time I read it.
     
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  18. Ray Roberts

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    Women can take multiple partners quite easily so it makes sense to take advantage of our natural instincts. Also most of us enjoy voyeurism so it also makes sense to take advantage of that erotic experience. Husbands & Wives are in a great position to take advantage of these delights, as are couples and all these facts keep the ball rolling with rampant males on the lookout for opportunistic experiences. One has to overcome a tendency to be controlling over ones spouse or girl/boy friend as sharing sex is definitely right up there on the richter scale of pleasurable activities. These forums show how much people enjoy being open about sexual matters and long may it continue. Keep an open mind to join in the fun!
     
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  19. jimandjan

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    We looked at it as an open relationship. She was free to do as she wanted. When she would talk with her girlfriends, they would envy her. and wish they had the same freedom. They had to cheat, and had to worry about sneaking around, but that didn't stop them.
     

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