Yes, he plans a lot of them out for me. I don't think I've ever known him to want me to be exclusive to him all the time.
Unfortunately she isn't into it, when I brought it up I got the remark "I bet you do..". So I tried to reverse it and ask haven't you every wondered or fantasized about two men. At first I could see the gears rolling in her head and thought maybe a glimmer of hope. I said to let you know I want you to enjoy yourself lets' put your preferred threesome ahead of mine, but in the end it was still a no.
It's seems like all he is thinking about is him self.....Give him time...I used to be a very jealous husband before we had a open marriage even then I used to have to be around if she was ever with a guy! Now it's a very different story......................
We are both interested in bisexual threesomes. I am pretty gay at this point so I don't know how it would work with another woman if she is not into anal. To be honest I'd just be happy watching my wife have her first lesbian experience finally. Wife would love to watch me fuck a guy then have both her holes filled. I don't understand jealousy. I love my wife and as long as she is happy I don't care how, by whom, or whether I am there. Told her years ago to fuck whomever she wants, whenever she wants.
Jealousy is a very tough immotion even though one wants to give in the jealousy kicks in and not every one can control it.I used to get mad even if a guy looked at my wife now I want the guy to fucked her!...? BE PATIENT....!!!! A time will come when your wife will see a guy or girl and she will go nuts over her or him! ...................
I don't understand why a man would want another guy to have sex with his wife, unless, perhaps, she wants it and wants it to be an open thing. Can you explain what's in it for you? FWIW, I speak as a woman whose hub would have been disgusted at the thought (which is not to say his wife would have, lol).
I write again I was a real jealous husband for 20 years a much younger guy then..... now I'm 58 I'm not a young guy any more don't know if age has any thing to do with it but when the kids grew up and on there own we started going to bars more often then we did before! My wife 52 then not a young gal any more began getting hit on by much younger guys then her in there 30s and I loved it. It turned me on thinking guys wanted my wife and it was then we began talking about what we didn't realize then a "open marriage" until finally she went out with a guy who had hit on her at the bar and I was all for it! I must admit a strange feeling came over me when she met the guy knowing she was going to open her legs to the guy! Yes a scary feeling came over me....maybe I made a mistake I thought but when she came home that night those feeling went away! Yes we talked about it and my wife was honest she loved every minute of being with the guy and wanted to see him again. We went to bed that night and made love and it was most awesome sex I have ever had with my wife that night! Maybe it was because she had just been with another guy most likely it was! It's just me................
It took a while before we had a threesome but once we tried it we both loved it....that's when we both went bi...
Motivations are different for everyone, but a lot of men enjoy watching. We have played with couples whose husband just wants to watch the three of us play. Other men like watching a man with a larger cock. Other men just like watching their wife enjoy themselves and get pleased. Just be open and ask your husband, he might be more into it than you think.
First you need to be open and honest with each other, you can find out a lot about each other through pillow talk describing your fantasies during foreplay. Watch porn together and discuss how much fun it would be to be in the room with them. The best time to have a threesome or a foursome is while you’re on vacation. This way you ensure you never see that person again and if it wasn’t what you expected you’ll be able to laugh it off as an experience you had while on vacation. Try not to play with people you know because that will lead to emotions. Finding a guy is super easy, but finding a unicorn (Single woman) can be a challenge. The Internet makes it easier to find a good one night stand. We use an app called Kik and Adult friend finder and have been able to find all kinds of neat and interesting people. Good luck and remember communication is critical and don’t have too many expectations.
I totally agree with your first paragraph, and that's how it worked for us. Second paragraph I somewhat disagree. In order for my wife to have sex with another guy she needed to feel a connection and a comfort level. Our friend from out of state fit the bill. When he came for a visit it was very relaxing and comfortable. We knew he was safe, clean, and wife was on the pill so no pesky condoms. My wife hates them. We had several MFMs with him and all were great. It's been years since our last threes some with him, but we still see him a couple of times a year and it's all good. I wish we were still having MFMs with him. So does he. Picking up a dude on vacation would require condoms so that's a no go right there. Why risk coming home with STD/HIV.......condoms aren't perfect. Years ago there was a young attractive woman that took a vaca to the islands. She hooked up with a guy........came home with HIV.
Let me but in...............I used to be a real jealous husband for 20 years he kids grew up and we began going to the bars more then ever! My wife was probably much older then you are now but your both females...."right" well any way guys began hitting on my wife then that turned me on thinking guys wanted my wife! This jealous husband slowly was jealous no more why I can't answer that but sharing my wife slowly entered my mind....Never in my wildest life did I ever think I'd be sharing my wife as I am now! Where that jealous guy went to I don't know!....IT NOT IMPOSSIBLE YOUR HUSBAND MIGHT DO THE SAME!...........................?
My wife oten has threesomes and I'm not one of the threesomes, she prefers me not be one of the guys so I go along with it plus to be honest it turns me on knowing two guys are fucking her while I'm at home. I guess she is just a slut but she is my little slut plus I love her! ......any one in my position....?
My wife was very open, for either another man or woman joining us. She was the one who set them up. I was tempted to just bring another guy around, to see what could happen, but never did.
You should have! My wife just loves another cock as for another woman she wouldn't in the beginning but now she just loves eating pussy also! Were a very open minded couple and she does have a girlfriend now!