Is Your Partner Open For Threesome?

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by Naughtymaiden, Jan 14, 2015.

  1. creamywife

    creamywife Banned

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    We have been talking about threesome for awhile while we was fucking,me,him and another guy or 2.I admit it's hot and turn me on as long as he took part of it and while I'm sucking his cock the others can enjoy my pussy as well I'm sure enjoy it too.We kind of open minded for this as long as we can be sure it's safe and no string attach,simply just sexual measurement.
     
  2. naturegirl1

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    We kinda fell into it! It started with same room sex with another couple, all very erotic & fun, but there was no partner swapping, but gradually the occasional accidental contact became progressively less accidental & more intimate. Then one day we decided to try a foursome with partner swapping. Threesomes were a natural progression. We DID lay down ground rules, like condoms were to be used, no one did anything without their partner being present and each couple were to end up together at the end of the action (no sleeping in the wrong bed!). We soon had a very close & intimate friendship, in time we chose to dispense with condoms with that couple (it was more intimate & natural). My husband told me that watching me with the other husband was one of the most erotic things he had ever known.
     
  3. buzzgunner

    buzzgunner 180 grains of diplomacy Lifetime Supporter

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    I couldn't agree with Phil more! When our threesome was going strong, there was nothing I could have wished for any more than to sit for hours and watch my wife fucking our best friend (or vise versa.) It was the best experience ever!
     
  4. Chrysalis2027

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    My wife has said that someone always gets left out in a 3 way. Any thoughts on that?
     
  5. naturegirl1

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    In a FMF permutation I think there is a grain of truth in that, but there is no doubt that a MFM set up gives all parties involved the possibility (make that probability!) of a rollicking good orgasm!
     
  6. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    I can see why one is left out but I believe that comes down to the whoever is receiving at the time. Basically, if you're "giving", then that's that, gonna be hard to do two things at once. But if the person receiving isn't into playing with the other girl, then yeah... One will miss out. But what's the point in engaging in the 3som in the first place if one of the 3 isn't into the act or the other person to make the 3som work?

    That's what I always read anyway, that either one or both of the females are never truly committed to the 3som itself.

    This has never happened with me in FFF, we are all over each other. ;) and it's that bond between the three that make it so special. If your lady has any doubts or qualms about the other female, then it just work emotionally which could lead to physical disappointment.

    So ladies, if you're going to commit to the 3som, I say let your hair out and have fun with it and enjoy it. Don't blame your partner for desires with the other lady, what is he meant to do? And there shouldn't be any competition. Wife shouldn't have set backs with if he is enjoying her or not. Maybe some guidelines beforehand like usual swinging topics. Kiss? Cuddle? Or is it just sex?

    If three people go into this with no clue as to what's expected... Awkward... :D
     
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  7. Amethyst87F

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    I'm about four weeks into a new relationship. I really like he and I's time together. He brought up having a threesome with - I asuume - another woman once. I may be open to that once we've been together longer and I feel more secure. At this point I think emotionally I would feel very jealous and hurt.

    I will say that I think for some relationships a threesome could make or break them. Some may think or try to be okay with doing so but end up really angry or hurt afterward.

    Sidenote --- I have a male ex who wanted a threesome with myself and another woman because he wanted us to fight over his dick. (I'm female by the way). --- I only add this because this could be a kinky idea for someone or someones. :) 'Hopefully that will be enojoyable if anyone trys it. :)
     
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  8. Xyzobomb

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    We are very open to 3somes 4somes and moresomes.
     
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  9. F6C

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    Doesn't interest me in the slightest. No way am I sharing my lovely wife with anyone else.

    I appreciate that isn't everyone's view and so long as everyone is consenting and it's carried out in a safe environment then go for it and enjoy it!
     
  10. olderndirt

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    No. We talked about it years ago, but she didn't want another woman in her bed, and she said she would be too self-conscious if I was there when she was with another man. So we never had a threesome.
     
  11. casualguy

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    I've always wanted to have a 3-some with my wife but she's not interested. We've been married 31 years and that's way more important than a 3-some. She's just not interested although we can talk about it during sex and it she enjoys all forms of porn. So unless we stumble into one by some freak accident it just isn't happening.
     
  12. JoeyM51

    JoeyM51 Currently locked in chastity for the last 4 years.

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    My wife and I were into fetish sex and she knew that I would love a threesome. She never mentioned it but when her girlfriends visited us for a weekend she would ask them if they wanted to join us in bed. Since her friends were attracted to me, they all said yes. Then it turns out that my wife was repressing her bisexuality and we ended up asking her best girlfriend to move in with us. We were in a poly triad for 30 years and they were great years.

    It is best for the girl to ask. I tried asking a few girls and they all looked at me like no way were they going to have sex with someone's husband in front of their wife. When my wife asked they knew it was OK and we always made sure that the other girl knew that she was safe and would not be asked to do anything she did not feel comfortable with. A few drinks and some joints did not hurt either.


    I truly hit the jackpot with my wife. She started off as my virgin fiancee and went through wife swapping and swinging before coming out as bisexual. Her problem was that she thought it was cheating if she had sex with women without me. Problem solved since her best friend had a crush on me and me on her, since we were 13, plus she was into BDSM. My wife asked her to have sex with me after she divorced to make her feel better and afterwards I invited my wife to join it. That was the start of 30 years living in a poly triad with our girlfriend. We have had a few thousand threesomes in our 45 year marriage. Threesomes was our normal sex for much of that time. For us, twosomes cannot come close to a threesome but old age and moving out of State have forced us into being a two some for the first time since the first few years of our marriage. My wife would like another women in her life again.

    The bonus is that both women were willing to try any fetish I asked them to try no matter how weird, yucky or painful. I had a great life so far. In our mid sixties my wife are still only having fetish sex. We do not like vanilla sex. Too boring for us. Currently we are into male chastity, teasing and denial, and Domestic Discipline. These are tame compared to what we were used to but it fits our age and current situation.

    It is interesting that I never thought of this before but I have had 3 relationships since I was 15. All three girls are bisexual but I did not know that until well into the relationship when they felt comfortable enough to tell me. I do not know what it is like to have a hetero lover or one that is not kinky. I never realized that I only loved bisexual women before. For me, all of this is my normal. I knew no other life.
     
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  13. LanaH102

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    So do you still engage in that lifestyle. I hint a tone of past in your last sentence.
     
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  14. Treesa

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    My husband isnt a fan of sharing me. Fortunately i experienced a threesome before marriage And the two guys who I trusted to screw me certainly gave me an epic memory. My husband can't imagine another man screwing me well that's what he says. But I am all for experience and would love to be screwed like that again
     
  15. jessica_anal

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    Yes. Some guys are way too jealous, well, my boyfriend is too.


    MFM is my favorite.
     
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  16. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    InB4 lilly posts about her new older bf.
     
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  17. Poplo.

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    The first time my wife and I had a threesome we were both pretty drunk after being at a bar for some hours! We left the bar with a guy we met that night he lived close by the bar so we walked! Half way there my wife my wife and the guy began kissing how it started i really don't remember but by the time we got to the guys apartment my wife was only in her panties(where her cloths went i don't know and the guy was feeling my wifes tits and pussy and her enjoying it! Watching it turned me on big time so I said nothing and when we got to the guys apartment they went straight to bed where they began fucking! When they got done fucking I took my turn! We both fucked my wife several times before we all fell asleep! How we got home that night I really don't remember! A week later we went to the bar where we met the guy once again and yes we ended up at his apartment once again only this time we were both sober! My wife loved being fucked by another guy so they fucked for what seem forever! I didn't get to fuck my wife that time! After that they began meeting at the bar and my wife with out me!
    It was wife's first affair for her pussy was his for the next 8 months before it ended!
     
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  18. Alonso376

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    Don't get why some men get so jealous over something that makes their wife happy instead of frustrated. Seeing my wife happy is the greatest feeling and it brings us closer.
     
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  19. Poplo.

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    Just how naughty are you!
     

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