Dealing with a Small Penis

Most women do not orgasm from just intercourse. They need clitoral stimulation. I have the ideal wife for a guy with a small penis. She only cums if I apply direct stimulation to her clitoris and cums in under 3 minutes. If fact, she does not like intercourse and we cannot remember when we had it last. Our guess is 15-20 years ago. She only likes oral and has no need for a penis at all.

There are many sexual positions that will place your penis against her clit during intercourse. You just need a book and a willing partner to try them. It is never a good idea to go into anything thinking you are not going to win or apologizing for something they may not care about but will after you apologize for it. You come off as insecure and that turns off a lot of women.

Start your sex session off with oral. Give her an orgasm or two with your mouth and she will not care about your penis. It is OK to acknowledge it is small but no to apologize for it. If you ejaculate early, just go down on her even though she is is covered in your semen. It is all about the orgasms for many girls. While there are some that require a big penis or intercourse, there are many who do not. Look at some of the porn and you will see a vibrator laying on the bed or the girl playing with herself while having intercourse. For you the doggy or cowgirl positions seem best. Allows deep penetration and the girl can play with her clitoris to help make herself orgasm.

There was a BBC documentary about a guy without a penis. He worked in a resort an said he had sex with different guest almost nightly without any of them discovering his secret. He had developed excuses and tricks to allow him to give the woman wonderful orgams. He had a better sex life than me. He ended up undergoing 3 painful operations to get a penis.

My penis is a little over 12 cm erect. Yet I have had 30 sex partners and lived most of m y 44 years of marriage with my wife and a shared girlfriend. I have had four loves in my life and all are bisexual. In my experience, bi girls who are more into women, are not that into intercourse. They are happy with oral. I found my niche, bi girls, and had lots of fun in the process. Most of my sex partners were not bi, but they were very satisfied customers who often came back for more. Only 2 made a comment about my penis, both after I broke up with them after a year. That is when the attack on a man's penis comes out.

Personally I am more into fetish sex where intercourse is not part of it. Having a small penis is a good reason to be dominated by a woman, especially if you are also sterile like I am. My thing was BDSM and no it is chastity play where my penis is locked up 24/7 and only comes out if my wife wants to tease it and then deny me an orgasm for months at a time. She is not a penis fan but loves to have sex with me and still can have 10 orgasms in a week. I made it work for me because I viewed myself as a good lover, not a guy with a small penis. Give a girl an intense orgasm and she does not care how she got it.

There is one other thing you can do and what has helped me since I was 21. That is be good looking, have a high income in a position of power and a good sense of humor. Then the girls do not care if you even have a penis at all. When I made it professionally, my secretaries had sex with me as well as the secretaries and models of my clients. I have had a great sex life despite my small penis. I do not make excuses for it, I just find ways to make it work for me.

 

My girlfriend says a small penis shouldn't prevent us having a happy relationship and she is right












I would rather she didn't have one though :unsure:

 

Seek out a smaller Asian girl they have very tight and shallow vags.

 

I really love your post, it was really well put together and honest and I understand your insecurity as I’ve seen it in most men I’ve been with..
I can only talk for myself but I prefer a man with a shorter penis. I suppose I have a short vagina, and I also have Endometriosis, so penetration is often painful for me.
Guys with smaller penises are almost always better at sex from what I’ve seen, for all of the reasons you talked about! Because you don’t think your penis is long enough to please a woman you rely on alllllll the other things; foreplay, reading her body, ACTUALLY getting to understand what she enjoys. Those are all the things guys with big penises DONT do unfortunately.

I don’t necessarily think it’s a bad thing that you joke about it or “warn” your partners but I hope that you are able to loosen up a bit in the future and not worry about it as much. It sounds like you don’t have a problem pleasuring a woman and that means a lot to us, believe me

 

I don't understand why this is such an issue. Usually girls are really into tiny things, like puppies and babies and miniatures. I bet they don't even care, aside from the peer pressure society places on them to like big penises. In my mind, they actually prefer smaller penises. I have an enormous penis, and I could never pleasure a woman, so kudos to you!

 

Best reply yet. I am medium kinda and quite a few ladies have said it hurts.

 

Just for fun ~
Thanks!
The reality of it is is that the penis shouldn’t be the whole show and no matter how big or small it’s probably not getting the whole job done! Get to know your woman and her vagina!! So much to learn

And there is a lot of social “pressure” for women and men to like big penises and I don’t know why... I mean obviously that’s all you see in porn unless small penises are a fetish but I don’t know where the whole idea got started.

Is there a thread about cumming too quick too?? I’d love to post there! Because that’s okay tooooo!!! At least with me it is.
Sex and orgasms are beautiful, just enjoy then ☺️

 

Hi my name is Joe and I have a small internet penis but in real life it's huge.

 

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Cheers Glen.

 

Don't worry so much about it. Get good at oral and your fingers. With my sexual partners I have had the whole range from 3" to 10" cocks and guess what, I ended up marrying the guy with the 3". And while there are certain things he cannot do, we made it work for us.

 

Earl Grey tea is thought to have been named after Charles Grey, Prime minister of the UK in the 1830s. He was married with 10 kids, but had an affair with Georgiana Cavendish, Duchess of Devonshire, her Maiden name was Spencer, she was Princess Dianas great great great grand aunt

The Earl grey tea guy and the Duchess of Devonshire had an illigitimate child together, Eliza who named her 2nd daughter after herself, Eliza whos decendants include Princess Beatrice, Eugenie

The short version: Half the current British Royal family are kind of inbred, and its the Earl Grey tea guys fault

 

Lol, Beatrice.

 

IMO "The Whole Show Begins" Wash her hair with a good long head message. Lay her on the massage table and rub ever muscle in her body with her favorite scented oil. Slowly and methodically begin to approach the area between her legs. Begin to approach the zone but only be lead by her moans. Light touching and rubbing, more moaning. Now one finger begins to explore the labia and finds itself inside and in a circular motion on the G spot as my tongue begins to investigate the hood and what lies beneath. It may take a bit of time but in the end it really doesn't matter if you have a huge dick. It's the time you spent focused on the very intimate details of her needs that past lovere most likely have ignored. You are her partner let her feel you.

 

I doubt the size of your penis matters a lot when dealing. But simply wearing clothes should eliminate any serious chance on it affecting your business

 

Lolz, but you are never going to be honest as to why you would have never married one with a 10" cock

 

I think it''s not a good idea to marry a guy just because he has a big dick.

 

Dealing with a Small Penis.....I never asked my dealers about their dick size..i dont think it matters as long as the weed is good and the price is right