Is it gay for a guy to anally masturbate?

There's absolutely a huge difference between enjoying anal stimulation (even if the object being used to stimulate is phallic, because really, what isn't phallic if you think about it long enough? ) and being romantic and/or sexually attracted to a member of the same gender.

It's just pleasure. Don't overthink it.

 

I agree 100%. My wife loves to massage my prostate with a vibrating dildo while she gives me a blowjob. My orgasms are out of this world and my wife says that I produce more cum like this.

 

Me personally, Im straight. Guys just don't do it for me. On the other side of the coin, and to drive my point home, the last three women I was with all asked me at some point during our sexual lives if they could throw on a strapon and screw me up the ass. Without hesitation, that was a very big, "Yes please!". Absolutely fantastic sex, and its a real mind trip to suddenly go from the one doing the fucking, to the one getting absolutely dominated. But take that same exact scenario and replace the woman I care about wearing a strapon, to even a very attractive guy, and I go from so excited Im salivating, to limp as a used balloon, in about 3 seconds.


You want to know if you're gay? You dont even need to give the answer here, just do this for yourself. Think about a guy the way you would fantasize about a girl you're into. Think about being intimate with him, your arms, your bodies, your penises rubbing up against one and others. Does it do anything for you? If it does, hey, maybe you're into guys and girls. Maybe you like guys only a little bit. Maybe you're a flaming homosexual and can't wait to be gangbanged on a trip to provincetown. Point is, only you can know for sure.

Sticking things up your ass to pleasure yourself is only gay when that thing is a penis attached to another mans body.

 

I started inserting objects in my rectum when I was five years old. Anal enjoyment for me was pre-sexual, so I don't associate it with any gender or orientation issues. Also, the whole idea that poo-poo is nasty and disgusting is the result of parental potty-training and not even available for conscious recall. If feces is inherently nasty and disgusting, why are small children so interested in it? Sexual liberation requires taking responsibility for one's own psychological healing and reconditioning. At first I was grossed out by how my fingers smelled when I put them in my rectum. Now I put my fingesr repeatedly from rectum to mouth to lubricate them with saliva. Is that perverted and pathological? I don't know. But I know that irrational shame and self-disgust are psychological cancers, and I'm determined to heal from them. What that looks like is naturally different for each of us.

 

If you anally masturbate, you are a happy girl who enjoys good feelings inside your body.

 

I don't care I love it!

 

What is an anal masturbate? I never heard it in my life. I only know anal sex.

 

I like to anally masturbate and I'm not attracted to men at all. I watch lesbian porn or girls playing with themselves while I do it. And the feeling when I pull out the toy and then I ejaculate is a great feeling. Best male orgasm ever!!!

 

No, that is not an indication of being gay, nor will it cause you to become gay.

The association is presumably because if gay men want to have penetrative sex it would have to be anal of necessity but to say that anything anal is therefore gay is faulty logic rather akin to saying as cats have four legs then any animal with four legs must be a cat.

I think it is also worth pointing out that labels such as straight, gay, bi etc. should be descriptive, not prescriptive. They are to aid communication, not to restrict what you allow yourself to do.

 

Mehhhhh, its as gay as, and you all know it.

Means you are that one step closer to a big hairy guy using you like a pin cushion and you loving it and begging for more.

You all turn, its just a matter of time. Tick tock tick tock

 

As long as there is a paycheck

 

Ive been with some straight guy's that really enjoyed having their buttholes played with. So i guess it's not gay.

 

I don't think you turn gay if you do it. I done it and never have another guy fucked me. I love pussy and girls but try to do it when my girls butt plug is in the shower. It feels amazing when you cum with it inside you.

 

It is if it's another guys finger in your ass.

C/S,
Rev J

 

I used to put an anal plug in sit down on a chair and jack off my cock. The orgasm was more intense. I haven't done that in a while though!

 

Now don't get hung up on labels, I enjoy anal stimulation, a lot but I all love being with women. Just enjoy yourself

 

No. Even some girls who arent attracted to men, do that Unless your attracted to men, your not gay. Its stimulation and if it feels nice, why not? And if you think your gay, there's nothing wrong with that.

 

Idk if it's gay or just enjoying sexual satisfaction.
I none it couple times.
I enjoyed it. Will continue do so.

 

it is absolutely gay to anally masturbate if you're thinking about hot guys while you do it.

not as gay as bumping a thread from 2014 though.

 

I believe you can and should enjoy your self sexually. Why not? It's awesome