Do you think people are born gay?

Stop calling it a choice: Biological factors drive homosexuality

 

Op should have said from what perspective to answer this question, as in:

Spiritual
Political
Scientific
Just curious
Personal confusion

The real answer it don't fucking matter, live the way you find your happiest and or you feel your life is pulling you.

I think the op was personally confused, and asking the wrong question, the right one would be:

Why am I visually attracted to and masturbate to women, but feel nothing when attempting sex with a women, or am I gay or not, or am I sexually dysfunctional.


If this is a true citing:
"Albert Ellis the psychologist said people aren't born gay. He cites an example of a man who was seduced from gay to straight by a woman. He says there aren't more because gays aren't willing to change."

Albert Ellis is full of shit, you can't determine a behavior of the masses by an example of one, also he draws a conclusion with no proof. One way to blow his political stupid ass out of the water is, whether your gay, straight, or bi, you can choose to love whoever you want and live a lifestyle of your choosing, that is not proof that you chose to be anyone particular orientation, just love conquers all.

 

I didn't call spontaneous feelings of attraction or arousal a choice. I did call decisions to engage in sexual activity, to regard the sexual activity as a good thing, and to define one's identity in terms of sexual orientation "choices," because they are. And let me just note in passing that you have no authority to tell me to stop disagreeing with you.

 

I just looked up Albert Ellis, he published:

Homosexuality: Its Causes and Cure

Long before this thread was opened the idea that Homosexuality is a disease was debunked.

So now I'm rethinking the op, had a political/religious agenda and the personal issue was just a sham. The OP was just denigrating homosexuality.

 

The cure for homosexuality is a rockin' night with a hot member of the same sex!

 

I would love that cure even though I'm not sick!

 

I didn't tell you to stop disagreeing with me? When did I said that? Either way, thanks for the clarification.

 

You're welcome. You said "Stop calling it a choice"--but if you agree that the things I said are choices really are choices, then I wasn't disagreeing with you, and I apologize.

 

Oh, that's the article title. I don't control that.