Not in any sort of judgmental way, but it would be nice to be able to put a face to name darlin', so can we too see your new dyed hair ???
Most people no but there's a few close people I deep down do care what they think whether it's something I can change or not.
I don't give a s$###$ what other people think about me. I am...and that's all that matters to me. When we start worrying about other people...that's when shit goes sideways. I worry about me and my girl and that's all!
I try not to worry about others much, I'm sure they can handle their own problems, If they need some help they can ask and I might, depending on the circumstances. Of course not worrying about others isn't the same as not caring about others, there are plenty of people I care about without worrying.
i care more about the kind of world we create for each other to have to live in by how we live in it. i prefer usually to be inconspicuous to avoid the distraction from what could be and robbed of my own thoughts by gratuitous conventionality and the kind of people who would tell others what to pretend. i would love though being a real anthro-cat with green fur and a real tail and cat-like face and the whole bit. i would love to live also in a world where everyone looked like their own entire species they designed themselves. until then i'm fine with the skin i'm in.
The only person who's opinion matters is my own. Of course I want my kids to respect and be proud of me and my spouse, too but I don't feel the need to be liked by others. Some people don't like my tattoos, or the clothes I wear, or my stance on social issues. Those people do not pay my bills, feed me and I don't live under their roof, so I owe them nothing. It's freeing when you don't care.
I tell myself that I don't care and then later I will be honest with myself and acknowledge that I care too much what people think of me.
"But it's alright now, I learned my lesson well, you see you can't please everyone so you've got to please yourself." -Rick Nelson