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#11 The Imaginary Being

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Posted November 16 2012 - 05:46 AM

i walk my dog.

#12 Cherea


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Posted November 16 2012 - 05:58 AM

False duality.

All I can say is that I am sex positive, and body positive. I don`t believe in "deeper connections" without touch. "Deeper" implies that our bodies are less important than our...what?? Spirits?? Haha! I`m don`t buy into spirit superstition. Ghostbusters was just a movie.:biggrin:

And I don`t believe in bodily intercourse, without emotional involvement. Casual sex, group sex, bukkakes, all entail emotional intercourse to varying degrees. Sex between people who`ve been married for decades may be less intimate than a one night stand.

It`s all a matter of what you want at any given moment, with any given partner(s).

Point being, my answer is not represented in your poll.
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#13 hifilady



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Posted November 16 2012 - 07:25 AM

I feel that it brings the couple closer together and you learn more about the person than you would just sitting and talking. When me and my husband have sex it is like I am in a different world and nothing else is going on but building the bond stronger between us.

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Posted November 16 2012 - 09:05 AM

WOW Hifi, sounds like when you and your hubby DO have sex, its really hot and intimate!!!!!
Don't sweat the small stuff!:punk:

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Posted November 16 2012 - 03:03 PM

i usually view it on my computer screen.
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Posted November 16 2012 - 03:28 PM

I say its for both, but theres no poll option for that. It can be gr8 for meaningless fun or connecting on a deep level but its only fun without a condom. And usually not really worth it unless u know theyre clean.
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Posted January 22 2017 - 01:15 AM

I find it revolting. I plan on never having sex as long as I live.

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Posted January 22 2017 - 10:40 AM

On tv.
Except for that one time on the beach when this couple thought they were alone.
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#19 Panama Jack

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Posted February 01 2017 - 12:35 PM

Take it from a senior mature couple. There is intimate passionate love making sex. It's great for emotional bonding. Then there is scorching hot,horny, erotic just got to have it sex. Both are great, but for the long term relationship,It takes both for my wife and I. We know each other very well and this takes time to find a balance. We do everything together even when sex is not involved. We are always available to have whatever kind of sex is needed. We do oral on each other,message,talk,listen,masturbate each other and yes we have great intimate sex. Along with some raunchy fucking by both if needed. Find a partner like that!
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Posted February 01 2017 - 01:19 PM

If you don't think sex is for pleasure you must be doing it wrong.  


Sex for me is 100% pleasure if it wasn't I wouldn't be doing it.  I don't think you're boyfriend is in the wrong nor do I feel you're opinion is wrong it just sounds like you two are not sexually compatible but that doesn't mean either of you are right or wrong.  Save yourself and him some trouble and talk it out, if you figure out you're on 2 different pages move on don't try to "fix it" it wont work, neither of you are just going to all of a sudden be on each others sexual levels.  


I have a deep connection with everyone I have had sex with (when sober I can't speak for drunk me).  Not a "love" connection but more of a "i'm going to do everything in my power to make sure this is the best you've ever had" when with a women who is open about her sexuality and has that same desire as me it is the most beautiful thing on earth but if I'm with a selfish lover it just is never that great.  It really takes 2 people being on the same sexual level to make sex work. 

Edited by Dental_Floss, February 01 2017 - 01:20 PM.

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