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#1 bailz

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Posted November 15 2012 - 09:38 PM

Well after finding out that my boyfriend feels that sex is ONLY about pleasure and pretty much that it is my duty as his girlfriend to be a toy for him, I am honestly pretty hurt.

The reason being is that I feel like sex is about making a deep connection, defining the ultimate level of devotion and trust, and to grow closer..among other things. It's a big deal to me for us to have a different feeling toward sex.

Anyways, I'm curious...gender defined, how do you feel about sex?

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Posted November 15 2012 - 09:54 PM

Wow! Maybe he will grow up! Realize what sexx SHOULD be about. (Other than the making babies part) If not, YOU should move on! Thats my honest opinion! You only hvae one life, so YOU should be happy with it!!
Don't sweat the small stuff!:punk:

#3 Faelixx

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Posted November 15 2012 - 09:54 PM

hate it

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Posted November 15 2012 - 10:02 PM

hate it


That's just because you queef an abnormal (in your opinion) amount.

If my memory serves.

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#5 bailz

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Posted November 15 2012 - 10:06 PM

Well also, don't get me wrong, he doesn't feel that my ONLY duty is to please him. But that pleasure is the sole purpose of sex. Which, I feel like may be common for guys..just wondering if I'm overreacting I guess.

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Posted November 15 2012 - 10:10 PM

Well also, don't get me wrong, he doesn't feel that my ONLY duty is to please him. But that pleasure is the sole purpose of sex. Which, I feel like may be common for guys..just wondering if I'm overreacting I guess.


maybe you should be honored he choose you to pleasure him
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#7 monkjr

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Posted November 16 2012 - 12:23 AM

Technically it's both.

If sex occured and wasn't physically pleasurable, the experience wouldn't be mutually and emotionally bonding.

It would be called bad sex.
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#8 Maelstrom

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Posted November 16 2012 - 01:02 AM

I am a male and I am asexual.

I am not always a bitch. Sometimes, I am asleep.


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Posted November 16 2012 - 01:34 AM

Depends on what position we're doing it in. :D
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#10 PhotoDude

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Posted November 16 2012 - 05:32 AM

Sex CAN be just about pleasure, and sometimes it is. But when it comes to having sex with a person you love, you HAVE to have that deeper connection. Not saying that it can only be about something deeper, you can fuck just for the pleasure, but you have to have those moments of deeper connection every once and a while as well.




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