Nuru Massage - have you tried it ???

Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by GAP, Sep 18, 2012.

  1. GAP

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    hi there, thx for your interest, i will try and reply the best i can.

    my wife and i do have a wonderful relationship, she is a filipino catholic girl but isnt what you call a "practicing" catholic, so some things about the catholic faith she does not believe in.

    she is very happy with our relationship, and has never once openly suggested that she wished she had explored sex before getting married, and in a way is happy that she kept herself for the right person, however we did not wait for sex until we married, it happened on xmas day 1989 which was the day i proposed and gave her an engagement/promise ring.

    she returned to manila in feb 1990, and came back to sydney in april 1990 and we married in june.

    the Nuru massage is most definately a sensual form of massage, actually it can vary between sensual and sexual depending how far you want to take it with the person you are with at the time.

    if during the next 4-some Nuru massage with our friends we do end it with partner swapping intercourse, i am not sure if we would be considered "swingers" in the real sense of the word, because it will only be confined to the same couple and not other couples like most other swingers do, but either way, it is not something that would bother me being labelled a swinger, sounds kind of sexy :)

    as for being frightened of possible bad ramifications for our marriage, well in many cases i would say there might be trouble ahead after sharing yourselves with other partners, however in our case, we are very open with each other, and there has never been any jealousy, and jealousy is the biggest curse in any relationship, and jealousy is basically an indication that there is no trust in a relationship.

    also, my wife only consented to this move from a 3-some nuru massage to the 4-some massage because the other person was her friends partner, who we had not met before he returned to australia several months ago, but we have gotten to know him pretty well because we have all been out together several times in the past few months.

    i am pretty sure that if my wife had never met him prior to last sunday night when we had the 4-some nuru, she most likely would not have felt very comfortable having the 4-some nuru, and so far after 4 days her and i have already had 2 more nuru massages between ourselves, and everything is fine, we talk a lot about the 4-some nuru, and my wife seems very happy with how it all went, and was very happy and comfy doing what she did with her friends partner, and she has already told me that because me and her friend have already had solo Nuru massages, she would like to do a solo Nuru with him next time we go to their place for our regular massage.

    if we dont trust each other by now, there would never be any hope of trusting each other in the future, so for us, so far its all good.
     
  2. GAP

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    hi there, firstly regarding the legalities of Nuru massage, there are a few posts on page one that deals with the legalities of Nuru massages in USA, however there is nothing illegal about doing it in your own home by 2 or more consenting people, and in our case, my wifes friend has her own massage room in her home, but she is not a practicing massage therapist, she only does it with her own partner, and with me and my wife, and we do ot pay her anything for her time, we all do it because we like it, and it is lots of fun.

    i am very happy to help you out with some ideas and suggestions about Nuru massages, and i will put some photos up, and links to various sites where you can gather more info from, and i can possibly get you a link for a supplier of nuru Gel in the USA if thats where you live.

    i have posted up some links previously, but the video links were removed because they were deemed to be pornagraphic, so i will try and find you some other "non porn" vids if i can find them in my bookmarks.

    now, as for how to go about doing a Nuru massage.

    you can do it on your bed, but dont do it on any kind of bed sheets, because the Gel is totally water based, and has a consistency of very runny Jelly, so it can get pretty messy (thats the fun part about it) and you wont experience the sliding you get with the Gel if doing it on a sheet.

    go to your local hardware store and buy a sheet of reasonably thick grade plastic (whatever color is available) and it needs to be approx 50% bigger than your bed size to cover it and drape over the sides.

    this allows you to slide on the sheet when you have applied the Gel, which btw you need to use plenty of to get the best effect from the Nuru massage.

    have a small spray bottle with you filled with hot water, which can be used to lightly spray onto each other when the Gel starts to dry up after 5 to 10 minutes (it slowly dries up because it is water based, and the water from the Gel is absorbed into your skin) and the water spray will actually rejuvenate the dry Gel on your skin back to its original slippery consistency, however just applying more gel will also help with this as well.

    if you wish, you can go to any good retail outlet and buy a reasonable quality pump up plastic or vinyl air bed mattress (single or double) and you can use that either on your bed, or your carpeted floor with the plastic sheet under it, or you can put the mattress on a tiled floor somewhere, such as the bathroom.

    also, keep the Gel warm while having the massage by placing the Gel bottle or container in a big bowl of hot water, it seems to work better when it is warm than when it is cold, and also have a hot shower before hand, and apply the gel onto your warm and moist skin to start off with, then during the massage, just keep applying more Gel as needed, and use the water spray as required if it starts drying up.

    as for technique, well there is no real textbook technique to follow, you basically slap as much Gel as you like on each other while on the mattress or sheet, and just glide over each others body, and use your hands to touch and feel your partners nooks and crannies, and generally do with each other what you want to do, whatever makes you feel good, and let me warn you here, this Gel is the most amazing stuff you will ever use, and if you massage each others genitals with this Gel, there is nothing that will ever come close to making you feel as good as you will using this stuff, and be very careful with your wife/partner if you are using your fingers to penetrate he pussy (as i do to massage her G-Spot) because you just might accidentally lose your whole fist inside her, because this stuff does cause a very high degree of "slipperiness" whereby an accident can happen very easily, as it almost did with my wife the first time we used it.

    i will post up links and photos when i can, and i will be having another Nuru tonight with my wife because at 7.15am tomorrow morning (friday) i will be in hospital having a 3 hour surgery on my left hand, so i will be out of massage action for up to 6 weeks after tomorrow :( so i have to make the most of it while i can :)

    cheers
     
  3. GAP

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    this is a photo i just took of our various Nuru Gel products.
    http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/picture.php?albumid=10740&pictureid=87427

    - you can see the clear plastic squeeze bottle that we fill with Nuru Gel.
    - there is a water spray bottle.
    - a tub of mix up Nuru Shake (can be mixed as needed)
    - a 1 litre tub of Standard Gell
    - a 250ml bottle of thicker Platinum Gel (more expensive than standard gel)

    our preference is usually the thinner standard gel.

    EDIT: i just noticed that when i clicked on the Image thumbnail, it is directed to the photo in imagebunk, but there is a few porn images displayed in that page as well, so can someone tell me of another free imaging host that doesnt let this happen.

    this is a link to the american Numagel website where you can buy whatever you nee to get you started
    http://numagel.com/

    this is a typical Nuru Mattress, only this one is only 4 feet wide (single) but you can buy the double size which is a bit over 5 feet in width, however you can go to most good retail stores and find something similar for around half this price.
    http://www.nurunurugel.com/buy-nuru...age-mattresses/nuru-air-mattress-premium.html
     
  4. NoxiousGas

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    a few porn images!! LOL, that's an understatement. :p

    try photobucket then just get the direct link url and then use the "insert picture" feature, paste the url and done.
    Or you can upload picks to your Hip Forums profile and link from there, you just have to make the album public so they show up in the thread.
     
  5. GAP

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    oddly when i click on the thumbnail, i only get 2 porn images on the page that my photo opens up on ???

    will try photobucket, but i used to have an account with them but they didnt like naughty images uploaded.

    might try my Picasa account as well, however im sure they do not permit naughty photos either.

    cheers
     
  6. sbasic2

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    @GAP- I'm very glad to hear that you have such a wonderful relationship with your wife. In modern world, full of divorces, misunderstanding, lack of communication, meaningful long lasting marriage is something precious and rare.
    You are very lucky man. :)

    Well, it seems that you've thoroughly discussed it and that both of you really enjoy in it , so I can only say- HAVE FUN. :2thumbsup:

    I hope everything will go smooth and I'm sure you'll be back on track in no time. :2thumbsup:
     
  7. NoxiousGas

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    Hmmm, When I first clicked on it got a page with many links to porn videos and at the top was a link the said "proceed to your picture" when I clicked on that I got another page of porn ads and links with the same link at the top of the page, I clicked on it and then saw your pic, with porn ads around the page borders.

    Oh well, a little pussy never hurt anyone.:p
     
  8. luckwld16

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    Thanks for all the advice GAP. I hope your surgery goes well. I think my wife and I will definitely give the Nuru stuff a try sometime. How much do you end up using in 1 session? What's the appropriate amount to buy? I don't see myself doing this often especially since we just had a daughter (not much free time) so I don't need a lifetime supply.

    Is the gel safe for intercourse? Sliding around all over each other won't be the same if I can't slip it in after awhile. If you have other videos that you can share, send them in a PM.
     
  9. GAP

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    hi everyone, i am out of hospital with the arm all plastered up so i am on my pc typing and mousing with my right hand only, and its a real pain in the butt, but having said that, the pain in my left hand and arm from this vicious operation is even more unbearable.

    to answer your questions, yes intercourse is very safe using the nuru gel, however this stuff is extremely slippery, so you might find that intercourse might not feel as good as it normally would.

    the best one for you to buy if your not going to do nuru on a regular basis would be the Nuru Shake, as it can be mixed prior to use, where as the pre-mixed Gell has a certain shelf life because there are no preservatives in it.

    the Shake comes with a shaker tub and 3 small sachet's of gel crystals and each sachet is mixed with approx 250ml of warm water and should be enough for one complete nuru massage, depending on how much you use, and how long the nuru lasts for.

    as i previously mentioned, when doing the nuru, have a small spray bottle handy with hot water in it so u can spray it on yourselves to re-juvinate the gel after it starts drying up, this way you will save on gel as well, however me an my wife prefer to top up with more gel when we need it.

    its really funny when u have a shower after a nuru because the gel on your body will become slippery while having the shower until the gel has been washed off by the water, so use this time to pash each other in the shower, can be a lot of fun.

    i hope that those who do try Nuru will come back here and let us know howit went.

    cheers
     
  10. luckwld16

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    Thanks for the advice. I'll look into getting the shaker. 3 sessions should be plenty and if we really like it, then we can invest in more. Definitely like the idea of having another session in the shower cleaning it all off. Sounds very fun.

    Hope your hand gets better soon.
     
  11. GAP

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    hi, have sent a reply to your PM with the links you requested, and i hope you and your partner enjoy it like we do.

    my operation was a pretty nasty one, and i am taking morphine and Tramadol for the pain, but man it leaves me a bit messed up in the head, and i cant focus much on things, so i tend to just lay in bed watching tv or sleeping, so i just pop into the forum to see whats happening from time to time.

    cheers
     
  12. CaptainAmazing

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    This Shake sounds like the best idea for me too. I didn't see it at that numagel.com site. Are there other Nuru sources are there in the USA that might carry the Shake?
     
  13. RickIsHere

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    I've had this several times.
    Had to give it up though, as I cannot control myself and I keep trying in spite of myself to penetrate her.

    She's very understanding of this and has been very patient with me, but we both finally decided to just let her massage and masturbate me. She does this nude also and really knows how to please me.

    I pay her well for this. She is in early middle age and is a student.
    (I'm also in middle age) It works well for both of us.
     
  14. blissfultantricmass

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    Very Interested topic!
     
  15. Kerri

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    I had to look up what this was, so no I haven't tried it. I don't think I would either
     
  16. Deidre

    Deidre Visitor

    Is this how salons get away with ''happy ending'' massages, by renaming it something else? lol
     
  17. drumminmama

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    As something a couple does, I have no issue with this. As sex work disguised at therapeutic massage, I'll hunt them down to the ends of the earth, metaphorically.
     

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