Showering together.

So, this question seems a little silly, but here goes..
My boyfriend is REALLY interested in taking a shower together, but I'm not so sure.
I'm really body consious, and I don't like the way I look.
Any tips or pointers?

 

what exactly are you looking for pointers on?

 

On how I can gain the confidence to do it I guess.

 

Yes, many many times. I know it's really silly.

 

Just suck it up and do it. Remember that he doesn't see you the same way you see you; focus on his reaction not your shyness, and have fun.

 

Or you could do it like they do in England and not take showers

 

Just remember its a bit of fun, if your worried how you look get up close and personal in there with the water pouring over you and you'll soon find your stride. Get down there and give him an awesome slippery bj then get him to return the favour. Just remember its a novelty and is fun, try not to over think it!

 

If you're already sexual partners, then what's the problem?

Sharing a shower can be a most enjoyable experience. As well as sharing the slipperiness of soapy skin, it's also useful to wash each other's back, and general areas out of your own reach.

It's also a pleasant form of foreplay, as well as 'post-play', for cleaning up afterwards.

 

Just relax and enjoy...he will think you are beautiful and sexy. My gf has been a bit nervous about me seeing her naked too...even after we have just had sex..but I tell her how beautiful and hot and sexy she is and she is starting to get more comfortable about it.. And we have taken showers together.

 

When you get out of the shower, your tits will be sparkling clean.

On a more serious note, do not let him wash you between your legs. He has no practice at it and soap will get where it shouldn't.

 

Do it with the lights out or dim when you shower. There is nothing better than getting soaped up by your girlfriend in all the right places, and returning the favor.

 

trust me , there is nothing hotter than fucking in the shower... you will love it

 

I'm not a fan of shower sex.

But why be afraid to shower with a guy that's already seen you nekkid? Even if you aren't having sex. You COULD shower with the lights off but let's be realistic here... people!! It's a very silly question! All you gotta do is relax.

It is funny though. Just be wary if he drops the soap too much!

 

cheeky - but then I'm in Scotland...........

Simon :sunny:

 

Heads up to OP. If he's your BF, and he's already banging you, then he thinks you're hot. Enjoy that feeling. At all opportunities.

The worst thing a woman can do (and I don't mean to sound harsh or critical, apologies if it seems that way) is to let her own body image perceptions interfere with her partner's enjoyment.

Get naked. Strut around in front of him. Revel in the fact that he wants to be near you, in you, on you. So what if you have a few extra pounds, or stretch marks, or whatever? I dated a bikini model once. Gorgeous, perfect body. Worst fuck ever. After that I dated a chick who could charitably be called a bit chubby. She was AMAZING in the sack (and the kitchen, and the elevator, and the pool...). It was like fucking a cement mixer full of warm honey. One of the best around. And she was always flaunting her body. very hot lady.

just my 2c.

 

Best quote ever!

 

Once had sex with my gf in the bath before, was one of the best times we had, got nice and deep in her and she was pretty much screaming as I fucked her.

 

Even if you don't fuck in the shower it's great foreplay. You soap him down from head to toe, he soaps you down. Then dry each other off and head to bed!

 

do it with the lights off then he wont see you....not that he hasnt seen you before. sorry if i sound crazy, now you know how crazy you sound.

 

You are probably a lot more critical of your body than your boyfriend is. I don't like sex in the shower, but I like showering together before sex. Do it, and I'll bet you get no complaints from your boyfriend.