Buying big dildo for gf....bad idea?

Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by manhattanhop, Nov 8, 2011.

  1. Str8-n-Pantyhose

    Str8-n-Pantyhose Member

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    Hell no! Lol! She still loves the real thing, even though its a tad smaller! Lol Even if, I'd get to watch a live porn! Lol
     
  2. Stopyerbitchn

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    With my experience women don't really use toys that often alone. Most women organism by the sensation on the OUTSIDE of the vagina opening. Only 2 to 3 inches inside and the nerve endings stop. Toys are a great stimulator for foreplay when your toghter, but if your not going to use it alot then don't waste your money. We have tons of toys but hardly ever use them and when she is alone its quicker and easier just to rub one off. Same with me I have a pocket pussy feels great but when I just want to pop my hand works great. Large toys are awesome we think the organism are better but yes it will stretch her out, which if you use it all the time will cause muscle memory and her vagina won't close to the tightness it was starting for a while. So there's alot of thing to consider before u get one.
     
  3. Manservant Hecubus

    Manservant Hecubus Master of Funk and Evil

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    Dunno what someone would thumb this down for. This is some of the best advice in the thread.

    When my friend and I went to get our very first dildos, we had no clue what would be best. And like men, without the experience, we thought that size mattered. I don't remember how big it was(looooooong time ago) but I called it Big Bluey. I think I maybe used him tree times before I conceded that I bought the wrong toy.

    I'm fond of the going together strategy. It's an event! You can consult. If its the woman's first dildo, then I definately recommend either both or just her get it - it's an empowerment moment. The more moments like this you have, you may find it easier to get her adventurous.

    Or you better end up in a pr0n shop like the one I worked in. Women run store. We doled out the advice and saved many women's ass' (literally - some men have no clue about real life anal).

    So, whatever my work experience is worth, this is my recommendation: A thicker version of a G-spot styled dildo or a thicker anal trainer with ridges or a spiral. Thick enough to get a satisfying penetration. Thin enough to wiggle around to find the sweet spot. Thin enough for the back door.

    Summn' like this:
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  4. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

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    Wow you're right that was really good advice. I'm glad this thread got some attention.
     
  5. jimandjan

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    I don't think you have to worry about her losing interest in you. I think most women prefer the real thing reguardless of size. When she does use it be sure to have a good lube.

    My wife told me about a bachelorette party she attended, and the bride to be, received a large dildo, as a gag gift, and most of the girls wanted to play with it. But it was mostly put-on.
     
  6. MikeE

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    Have a plan B.

    If your girlfriend doesn't like it (its too big its too something). Have some markers handy to draw a funny face on the tip or something.

    Be ready to turn it into a humorous failure if that's the way it turns out.

    Alternatly, if she likes it too much and leave you out in the cold, buy an artificial vagina and you can use your toys together. (But what happens if the toys get together and leave the two humans out......)

    Have a plan B.
     
  7. olderndirt

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    My wife and I have experimented with different toys over the years, and one of her favorites is a 1 3/4" wide, 8" long flexible dildo. We use quite often, and she enjoys it every time. In no way does it reduce the enjoyment she gets from the real thing. It even helps her remember some of her exciting times in college with a guy who had a big cock, the guy who took her virginity.
     
  8. Irminsul

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    Get her The Thor.
     
  9. Jason_Hunt

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    Good for you, dude. Always try new things to spice up your sex life. There are some things you need to be careful when you use that 8" dildo. Never ram the whole dildo inside of her without any foreplay. The average vagina is only 3-4 inches deep. Make her sexually aroused first so that her vagina will expand deeper to accommodate that huge thing. Otherwise, it will be very painful for her because the dildo may hit her cervix.
     
  10. Pieceofmyheart

    Pieceofmyheart Grumpy old bitch HipForums Supporter

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    What kills me about men and them wanting to please their women is the lack of knowledge of the female anatomy. Google is your friend. :) If a man thinks some dildo can permanently stretch a woman's vagina he has no clue of female anatomy.

    An average newborn weighs about 7 pounds, 20 inches long and the circumference of the head is about 13 to 14 inches. If every woman that gave birth had her vagina permanently stretched out...well think about it.


    Personally I would never want my man to buy me any toys unless I picked it out. Some women may want to try some huge dildo but honestly...many will not.

    Do yourself and women in your life a favor and do a bit of research.
     
  11. Michaeltd

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    Me 35, Wife 28! We have 4 kids together and I recently got the urge to order her a huge 12 inch dildo online... When it arrived she was pretty pissed off and refused to use it and was very scared of it size.. It's 7.5 inches around and a little over 2 inches wide... So basically I had to make her a huge deal including house choirs and naps and just me doing everything if u get what I'm saying.. So she would try it...Got all the kids to be and gave her a 1 hour massage and got her excited although I sensed she was more nervous then excited.... I licked her ()&(?$ for a good 10 min and got her to turn around in the doggy style position and I added a little lube to this bad boy and slowly eased it into her... She loved it and went to town and rode this thing almost down to its balls.. 10 inches deep... She came hard.. Have not used it for a few weeks and sex is better then before it lol.... Any thoughts?
     
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  12. Tom2756

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    As Gamebird said, don't go overboard with size. I used to use a "normal size" one on my ex while I gave her a good lickin. She loved every second of it and always came.
     
  13. abarambling

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    Depends on her outlook when it comes to sex. One thing you first find out when it comes to someone you're courting is their mentality towards sex. If she is open to new sexual adventures, talks about sex freely, has a lot of sex with you, etc, then odds are she might like a sex toy. Might even own some already. I do recommend a cute little sexy toys. Once I saw a vibrator that looked like a chocolate chip. Something like that. In general girls like cute things. So, even if she ends up not really enjoying it, or not using it becuase she is just not into that kind of stuff, she will at least not hate it, becuase it's cute.
     
  14. SWcouple

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    W-go big or go home is what I say! My husband bought me a modestly sized dildo many years ago and I would use it occasionally. Then we moved on to something a little bigger...great experience. And now I'm currently at my most prized possession of the 12" massive BBC. It literally rocks my world and turns my husband on so much. He fucks me with it until I'm begging him to stop, then he fucks me with his dick which is great because I'm still so sensitive and usually cum again.
     
  15. Bijay_08_2000

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    I call BS on the "you can't stretch it out' comment. I'm quite hung and have loosened up many a pussy, and told by women that after getting used to it, they don't like smaller penises. That's just my experience...
     
  16. ahsorandy

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    Been there, done that. Huge failure. Pun intended!

    Wife didn't like the hard plastic, although, she really didn't even try it. After years of sitting in her bedside table, had to throw it out as the batteries leaked all over it inside. It looked like at least the batteries had a great orgasm. LOL

    I guess it was more of a vibrator than a dildo, but, whatever.
     
  17. Mistress Margaret

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    I agree, with your sentiment.

    The first dildo my husband purchased for me was big and black. That was because of experiences I had with a well hung black man before we started dating. Any, I always enjoyed that dildo, it was a basic "hand held." He loved watching me take the entire length inside me.

    He never got to see a real black cock inside me, so the dildo was an acceptable substitute.
     
  18. Friendly10

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    This made me think of when I used to work as a maintenance man in apartments.you would be shocked at what people leave out knowing we will be in the apartment to fix something.this one chick had this big dildo that was always on the night stand it had to be 14 inches long an 3 inches wide it was a monster..lol..
    You could tell it was used. Every time I saw her I would think of it she was hot an I would have loved to watch her with it.
     
  19. Candybuttons

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    I’ve always wanted a big fat dido just to see how it looks and feels going in.
    Sounds fun, but if it’s uncomfortable I’m sure I wouldn’t use it very often.
     
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  20. Asphalt-cowboy

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    No I don’t believe it’s a bad idea. The wife loves her’s we went shopping together to pick one out.
    She decided on one that’s 8 inches long and 2 and quarter inches thick has a nice set of balls as well with suction cup base. She fantasies about having a threesome with another guy so I use it regularly on her. And she really enjoys it when I’ve got it balls deep in her and licking on her clit drives her up the wall
     
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