How severe do you like it?

Discussion in 'Spanking' started by kairilove, Aug 4, 2011.

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  1. iamhis1

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    I have a lot of fantasy's with spanking but nothing that leaves bruises or breaks the skin. I love to feel my ass giggle while he's pounding me from behind hard enough to jar shit off the headboard the smacking just makes it giggle more. I do like whelts and stinging. There's also something about sitting in my chair at work the next morning with a wince. I end up in the bathroom masturbating by first break it makes me so hot. I want to come home and tell him what I did so he will bend me over in the living room floor jerk my clothes to my knees take his belt off and bust my ass good for being so bad then fuck me hardcore. Oh yes I do love to get my ass spanked hard. Another fantasy I haven't fulfilled yet is across the knees. I get so hot just thinking about it. Going to have to go and wake him up for another round now.
     
  2. Cynnamon

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    Although I love erotic and loving spankings, when things get wild, I can take so much as my tolerance is really high.
    I hear about people crying and cannot relate to that. I receive the belt and hairbrush severe enough to leave marks, and bruises
    sometimes.
    These marks remind me of a night gone wild. And my man loves to admire his handiwork. hee hee
    I only like the baby taps when I am feeling vulnerable but usually I take it as long and as hard as I can.
    This is the way I am and what excites me. I do however shout out a safe word here and there.
     
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  3. matt1162

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    The best spanking I've had was with a 24" wood paddle 5 inches wide and about half an inch thick. She left some blood, heavy bruises, and blisters. I only get a spanking every 3 or 4 years so it's a rare treat. But when I get one, I guess I like to get it good! The spanking I just described required me to change a large bandage on each cheek every day for 6 weeks because I would get blood on my underwear and pants if I didn't cover up the wounded areas. That spanking caused such an endorphin rush that I felt HIGH afterwards!
     
  4. Noserider

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    Depends on my mood. I know some people like things hard and intense all the time, but if I'm not in the right frame of mind, it will overwhelm me.

    I've cried during light play a week after saying something like, "It's like you can't spank me hard enough!"

    What happens downstairs depends on what's happening upstairs.
     
  5. Linaa

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    I love to be treated very roughly, but I don't think that I want the spanking to go as far as "black and blue"... Red absolutely, and purple-ish if I deserve it... And I also love some "spanking" on my pussy and other more sensitive places than just buttocks. On the other hand I'm a bit of a beginner in this kinky world that I've entered since getting married, so I haven't had the opportunity to really explore just how far I like to take it. He usually stops earlier than my limits so I'm not sure yet how I would like the black-and-blue-bloody version ^^ I'm no stranger to pushing limits though so who knows, I might get greedier by the years.
     
  6. SissyJoeyCD

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    I love being spanked. I want it to hurt, but usually not more than what will leave my ass burning and red. While it all depends on how turned on I am, I don't usually want welts and definitely not broken skin.
     
  7. bunnygirl

    bunnygirl available in taiwan

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    i don't like be spanked. boyfriend only spanks me when i misbehave and it really hurts. i always cry hard when him spanks me especially in front of friends.
     
  8. Crystal_Nocked

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    The dudes here who liked to be spanked to the point of bleeding or bruising by women are masochistic wimps.

    So...just one question.

    Was it mommy or daddy who made you bathe naked with them til you were about 15?

    LOL
     
  9. jpdonleavy

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    I've been asked to DOM the odd time but I'm too squeamish to get to anything like the degree you describe. The closest I got was phone-spanking with a very very bright nurse in Georgia, During the calls I would whack my desk with a doubled leather belt and trash talk her but my heart wasn't in it. She knew that I maintained an inventory of Internet domain names though and suggested I register webwhipstress dot com which I did promptly.

    She subsequently married a Kiwi whom I knew en passant from the forums we posted on. I think he was vanilla and they went on to have a normal Darby and Joan marriage in the land of magnificent fjords
     
  10. I always use just my open hand. I pull my punches though and the girl gets bored really quick. *shrug*
     
  11. I'minmyunderwear

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    most of the dudes here who like to be spanked to the point of bleeding or bruising by women have never actually spoken to a woman in real life, i think. other than their landlord/mom.

    i know that it is a real thing, but so is sexual intercourse and most of the love and sex posters here haven't experienced that either.
     
  12. Crystal_Nocked

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    I agree with you on all that.

    So obvious that most of the sex posters are just teenage boys trolling around between wanking off yo internet porn.

    Gotta say, too, as a newbie here that I'm a tad disappointed in the propensity of profane and juvenile sex posts. I was hoping the site was a bit more mature, with some more intellectual content. I just joined a science site for that, though. And I'm looking for a books/reading site, since I am an avid reader and those forums here are pretty barren.

    Cheers.
     
  13. Crystal_Nocked

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    Well, you are in the presence of people like he and I who know that the vast majority if not all of the sex posters are teenage boys, virgins, and/or male young adults who have sex lives about as active as a monk. LOL.

    Again....as goes the old saying.........those who speak of it most do it the least.

    Take that how you want to, friendo,

    Cheers.
     
  14. newbie-one

    newbie-one one with the newbiverse

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  15. Crystal_Nocked

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    Nah....I'm gonna stick to my original opinion that most men who like their asses paddled bloody by women are secretly bisexual or at least not adverse to having their fudge packed by a rump ranger.

    And they also probably think they deserve punishment from their bad naught thoughts about mommy when they were younger. Like the bathtub deal, maybe?

    Hmm..you called me names! LOL. Seems I pushed your buttons with this opinion.

    Wonder why?

    LOL

    A tad too close to home, me thinks?

    Say hi to Mom.
     
  16. Crystal_Nocked

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    You're funny!

    And obviously trying to overcompensate attempting to prove your masculinity.

    No true heterosexual or tough guy would ever have to tell us about how tough bikers and death metal musicians are.

    I hate death metal. And....news flash here! Lots of bikers and musicians are closet fags.

    LOL

    At first I was sort of kidding about your Mommy Issues or your bisexual curiosity. But after seeing your laughably transparent and pathetic attempts to show us how tough guys let women humiliate them, I really do think you have some conflicting sexual issues.

    In other words....you sorta dug your own hole.

    As in bung hole?

    LOL


    Anyway, thanks for the laugh. I needed it. Long day at work.

    I'm done here now. I don't wish to be a party to you humiliating yourself anymore. Plus you sound like you're about sixteen. And I don't want to talk about sexual issues with a minor.

    Cheers, Brucie.
     
  17. newbie-one

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    At first, I thought you were a female (because of your avatar) trying to argue that tough guys like getting spanked.

    If you are just speaking about yourself, I really don't really have any objection. Your preference is your preference, and you don't have to justify it to me or anyone
     
  18. I'minmyunderwear

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    ^ i still haven't figured out if you're trolling or not. if not, you might want to reread your posts about how badass bikers and such are and hopefully you'll understand why no one is really taking them seriously.
     
  19. matt1162

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    I like being spanked with a wooden paddle severely. I prefer a small number of swats but delivered with enough force to make me scream. My best session with a pro domme left my butt bruised, blistered, and bloodied. It gave me a euphoric high. I guess that was what people call "sub-space". It took 3 months for the wounds to heal.
     
  20. GLENGLEN

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    .......... :sleeping:



    Cheers Glen.
     
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