This is something I want to happen. Just not sure how to bring it up to her. Plus I’m a bit worried about jealousy.
You can only do but so much with each other in but so many places. After a while you start to feel trapped and feel the urge to explore. If you hide and explore on your own without your partner's knowledge that's considered cheating; but if you and the partner can do everything together then that makes for a good relationship. Wives and husbands have the urge, some just never admit to it. Therefore, satisfying your urges/curiosities while allowing your partner to do the same is fair game. Now that's what I call consideration.
Sorry, but I have to disagree. I’ve been married for 30 years. Sure, I will glance at and fantasize about an attractive woman, but I have NEVER felt trapped, nor have I had an urge to explore. I knew what my wedding vows were when I got married just before I turned 22. My wife is of the same mindset. I trust her with all my heart and soul. Monogamy might not be for everyone, but then, neither is marriage.
Human beings are not natural monogamous creatures. We have to fight to stay monogamous. It's not impossible to remain faithful but it takes effort. My views are; why stay trapped when my wife totally understands my urge to explore and still enjoy the freedom of sex Together. You go married at what 21... I on the other have been with more than 200 women before my wife and this she knows, she quite a few of them personally n see they they are all hot. Which made her understand my love for sexually freedom but she is the one I want to have a life with and come home to every night.
Absolutely!! My wife and I have a Cuckold Marriage for several different reasons: 1) I'm definitely NOT the most masculine and "manly" of men. I have an undeniable "feminine SISSY" side, as I really enjoy wearing bras, panties and even diapers. 2) my wife has always had an insatiable sex drive, and NEEDS cock a LOT more often than I'm capable of giving her. Earlier in our marriage (been married 12 years now), this wasn't an "issue". 3) I'm bisexual, and it's become clearly obvious (even to my wife) that my gay thoughts and desires have gotten stronger as I get older. About 5 years ago, my wife decided to rekindle her romance with her boyfriend from high school. Truth be told, I should have seen it coming, as they've remained close throughout the years, and it's been clear to me that their love for each other never went away. When I first found out she was having an affair, my initial reaction was anger and jealousy... Yet it actually turned me on. To know she was happy, didn't regret her decision, and to know she was being satisfied, fulfilled and getting her needs met (even if it wasn't with me) truly made me happy. After a few serious "heart to heart" discussions, "we" determined she'd continue seeing him, and that she'd be open, honest and that she'd share ALL the details of her time with him. She sees him regularly, and he's gradually become her primary sexual partner, though I'm not totally denied. She also does things with him that she's NEVER done with me (typical in a cuckold relationship), like swallowing his cum, and having anal sex with him. This started 5 years ago, and it's still going strong. As I've slowly accepted that he's the "alpha" in her life, and I've been relegated to "beta", it's definitely helped and allowed things to progress to this level. Although I haven't actually seen them have sex (she knows I want to watch, and she wants me to watch), I have seen them kiss passionately, and I've also eaten his Creampies from her as she shares the details of being with him after she returns home.
Would love to see my wife doing another guy. She is way too straight-laced so it won't happen though. That plus she has no libido.
No. It would shake me to my core to have this. However, when I was single, one of my fantasies was to be a bull to a cuckold couple, or the one banging the hotwife. I like the idea of being deep in a woman while she talks shit to her husband. I might even join in putting him down.
One of the hottest things I've ever seen is my wife kiss, make out with and suck her boyfriend's cock while he rubbed and fingered her pussy. I couldn't help but slowly stroke my own cock. I also fuck her after every time she comes back from being with him, so sloppy seconds is a fairly regular occurrence. Unfortunately, they use condoms so using his cum as lube isn't an option, but that's ok because she always really WET after being with him
I have seen my woman with another man and it was HAF she worked his cock so good and I reclaimed her after by eating her pussy and fucking her silly
I reclaim my wife after she's been with her boyfriend. It's a regular occurrence, and something we both enjoy. Her relationship with him definitely intensifies and makes our love life much more exciting
I would live it. I was never around when she was having sex with another man with one exception. That one exception was at the family lake house when i encouraged her to have sex with a wounded veteran. I could have peeked through the window, but I respected their privacy. Her brother did watch from outside.
I have seen her with other men at the time I wanted in on the fun too. So mostly other couples. As I have grown older, would have loved to see her with others, might have even found a few for her.
We did this quite a lot, and with other women. With other men there was always the pang of jealousy, even though I knew I wasn't losing her. The arousal always out weighed the jealousy and a great time was had by all.
Now that I am a widower, I've been the guy joining a couple a few times. Didn't think she was going to really get into it, at first she wanted to watch her husband getting a blow job from a guy. The last two times she has been fully engaged and taking charge.
My girlfriend and I have a special relationship with each other. We are currently engaged and at the same time she is encouraging me to find a boyfriend. It's not complicated. I prefer men and she understands. I'd love to see her with another man or two. I'd love to have another guy cum inside her and go down on her to clean her up. She's told me she wants to be gang-banged. It's a fantasy of hers. Next time we go away for a swingers weekend I'm going to see if I can make that happen for her. I'd love to be part of that and I'd love to do that for her. We have a closed poly relationship and we would love to have a relationship with another person or a couple. Now that can be completed at times.
Lots of men would love to have a threesome with two other women. They would also love to see two women having sex together. When it comes to their wives or girlfriends they have a 1 dick policy. Their dick only. They can't imagine having another guys dick inside her. Insecure, definitely. They can't handle the fact that she might enjoy having sex with another guy more than them. Women are not possessions. Men have affairs all the time. They keep what they do outside of their marriage or relationship a secret. They will lie if they need to. At the same time these same guys would be furious at the thought of another guy having their dick inside their wife or girlfriend. Why is that? It's ok for you but not her? People have affairs all of the time. Instead of being furious at your partner for cheating on you, start looking at yourself and what you bring to the relationship. How do you treat your partner. Are you really present in your relationship. Do you respect them and value their thoughts and ideas. Are you really supportive of them.