For Long Term/Married couples

That is so great to hear. Gives me hope that my wife and I will still be getting it on much after we retire which is coming fairly soon.

 

How long have you been married?

 

Every marriage goes through ups and downs. Mine is currently in an upswing. For the past 2 years, it was like once or twice a month. For about 3 months now, it's been more like 4-5 times a week.

 

My opinion only: No marriage relationship should remain stagnant or static. To have a strong sex life in your marriage requires a lot of effort by both. Diet, exercise, open non judgemental sex talk daily and planning all creates a stronger sexual relationship. I am 70 and my wife is 65 and we are re living our sexual youth. We also include others in our bed as well. It adds spice and variety.

 

After more than a decade being married, my wife and I are finally at the point where we can freely talk about sex of every kind. She will now mention if a guy she sees is cute/hot. She will ask what I think and i'm honest about it. For the most part, I have no opinion on whether a guy is hot or not but I do know which guys I wouldn't want to see her sleep with. Kinda weird but for me it's either IDK or uh not him. We frequently watch porn when we have sex and she has a favorite male pornstar she likes. She asked me what I think of him and I told her that I like the size of his cock and I'd enjoy seeing him fuck her. Stuff like that. Talk about her having sex with other men was unfathomable back in the day but now it really turns me on a lot

 

Evvbimarried,
It sounds like you and your wife have a strong relationship. That said, I not sure where you would like to go with your sexual relationship with her.
We’ve been married 24 years and actually only been in the lifestyle 4 years. We both wish we would have started years ago. Fantasies are great, and to share them with your spouse is even better. We finally said to each other “How can we bring our fantasies to reality”. Jealously has no place when deciding to do this and you must be completely accepting of each others desires. You have a stake in the ownership of your marriage/relationship. But you do not own her sexual desires. “That’s personal” when she says she thinks a man is hot, listen up and take note as to what she finds interesting in him. But you should do the same for her.
My wife and I are living out our fantasies a bit late in life, but we are extremely happy. Communicate, Communicate, and more communications is the key.
We love spending time and sex play with others.

 

My wife and I have a very active and kinky sex life. Her and her boyfriend also have a very active (though very different) sex life.
As she likes to say, it's not necessarily that he's better (though his dick is considerably BIGGER than mine), it's just "different" with him. She likes variety, and I'm a cuckold, so it works out well for all three of us

 

Early 60s married 25 yrs. From day one (first date) we couldn’t get enough. She WAS my sexual soulmate. I travelled quite a bit, but at least daily when I was home. Now due to health issues for both of us, me due to accidents/surgeries and menopause/surgery for her, it’s been 6 years since ANY sexual interactions, even deep kissing. NEVER thought we’d be in this situation.

 

I've been married

in 52 years of marriage my wife has given me 3 BJ in the first 20 years until she reached puberty and only let me eat her 3 times!!! In the last 32 year's NOTHING NOTHING NOTHING!!!!! And she won't let me luck her!! She wears long tent night gowns and keeps herself coverd up!! Now for me I sleep in the NUDE I can walk through the house with s HARD ON and she won't Evan look at me!!! When she takes a shower she keeps the light offf!!! If it weren't for the kids I'd have left s long time ago!!!! No those guys weren't joking!!! I can only speak for me BUT MARRIAGE SUCKS!!!! It's just a good thing that I have Colts to break and ride and cows to work

 

I ment menopause not puberty

 

:-(

 

I ment menopause not puberty, sorry

 

LMAO!!!

 

Your wife sounds like my husband, he's not really a go getter but he gets Excited watching me with another man!