For Long Term/Married couples

Thanks, I love it!

 

My wife's sex drive was never as high as mine. A few years ago we decided that she could have sex with other men. It changed everything. Our sex life is fantastic now. She probably sleeps with other men once or twice a month now and we have sex most days. I don't need other partners and wouldn't want to sleep with anyone else. It's not everyone cup of tea but it's worked miracles for us and we are closer than ever.

 

Married for 30 years. I for one had a lot more sex after I got married than I ever did before, and for many years. Now though never get any.

I think what most men that say that mean, is they don’t get as much sex as they think/thought they should.

 

My wife and I have been married 40+ years and still have great sex. Of course, the frequency has gone down, from every day to a couple of times a month, but the quality is still outstanding. Thanks to her!

 

We are a senior couple. My wife and I are happily retired after a long work life. We live a very secluded life and we have time for sex,, well all the time. We have sex 3-4 times a week. She takes HRT pellet twice yearly and I take testosterone for low T. It has really put us on a wonderful intimate ride. We let our mood tell us how we will have sex.It might be intimate ,quicky, oral or masturbation. We also do it for our health(prostate and mental) We new many years ago that we both had a wonderful relationship together and my wife new that I have a very strong sex drive and compliments it with her willingness to be there for me.

 

Married 12 years. We've had sex 6 times this year. Average about once every 5 weeks or so. When we were dating it was at least once a week. Even got road head once just cause she felt like it. So yea for me it's slowed way down. Plus I'm more adventurous and kinky and all she wants is vanilla sex every time

 

We have been married over 40 years. First five years sex of some nature was there almost daily. After kids it became maybe weekly. As we advanced in our jobs and being involved with our kids activities we were likely to get a chance for it once a month. When the kids grew up and on their own, sex picked up a bit. Not often but it was good. Last six years with her and my health issues it was up and down. The last year our sex is maybe a together shower in the outdoor showerand me getting off myself on her. Actual sex in bed with her has been twice in the last year since her more serious health issues.

 

In my case it wasn't marriage that slowed down sex it was kids + job responsibilities. There just isn't enough time in the day but we make the most of the time we do have ;-)

 

Daretobare, Most men would feel your pain. A strong marital relationship should (in my opinion) address sexual health in senior couples. My wife and I are a senior couple and we both talk and understand sex health for the mind and body. That said, we agree with the FB concept. Neither one of us have done it yet,but when the time comes we both agree to find another partner for sexual health.

 

It really depends. Either you have children or not. But It's kinda true though!

 

They say if during your first year of marriage you put a bean in a jar every time you have sex, and the second year, you take a bean out...you will never be able to empty the jar. We would not have had that problem. Now, 40 years later, we practice orgasm tease and denial, and have sex multiple times a day, My wife keeps me horny, on the edge, and submissive to her, all the time. She has 10 to 15 orgasms a month, and allows me 1 to 3 orgasms a month, but I go over the edge often, and have a ruined orgasm. Life is good.

 

26 and 12 here, so my profile name could be the same as yours!

 

My wife and I have been married over 38 years and our sex life has definitely waned. When we were first married, we fucked 4-5 times a week. Now, it's once or twice a month. This is due to age-related changes for both of us. My wife is still interested in sex, but not nearly as much as when we were younger. I, on the other hand, am as interested as ever in sex, but suffer from severe ED. Even with chemical assistance, it's hard (no pun intended) for me to achieve and/or maintain an erection. It makes me want to slam my head against the wall at times. :bigcry:

 

Yep. I can relate to that too Buzzgunner

 

I can't get up without Viagra, but I can get off without Viagra. A lick and a rub works for me, just find out what works for you.

 

Totally foreign to me

How the fuck do you stay with the same person for 30 years

How the fuck do you cope with the soul crushing monotony?

 

Same way we fucking deal with your asshole comments all the tine

 

What he said.

 

I'm the same. Masturbation is no problem for me. Ditto blowjobs. It's just that vaginal fucking is my number-one delight and I need to be hard to do that. If I could achieve effortless erections and my wife's desire was as intense as mine, we'd probably be fucking at least twice a day, every day! Instead, as I previously mentioned, it's once or twice a month. That's the difference between fantasy and reality.

 

My wife and I are retired, so we have time to have sex multiple times a day (mostly without orgasms). The only time we have PIV is when I take Viagra, but our sex life has never been better.