A Question for all Nudist Husbands.

When you tell someone else about your nudist activities, and that person asks "Why are you willing for other men to see your wife naked?" what is your answer?

I believe there are three answers to that question, but will delay posting them until I hear from a few others.

Any who would like to discuss this privately may send me a PM.

 

I would tell them that it was because my wife's body didn't belong to me, and that it wasn't for me to "let" other people see.

 

I'd be looking a bit puzzled, but I'd say it just doesn't make any difference to me who sees my wife clothed or naked or wearing a burqa.

I might ask if the person who asked the question has a fetish about it, the way you do!

No doubt you'll share your three boring answers to your boring question with us, because you can't stop believing that it's a topic that actually matters. I'm thinking of a poor lonely fetishist, wandering around looking for someone who imagines his obsession is worth a moment of anyone's time!

If you want to answer something that really is worthwhile, how about telling us just what is it about men seeing each other's partners naked that's so interesting for you? Ever since you started posting here, you've kept hammering the same topic. I'm much more curious about what you're getting out of this than anything to do with the actual subject.

 

Quite simple:

"This does not matter, because we practice naturism only at places, where it is common understanding that this has nothing to do with sexual activity. Really nothing!"

Barefoot greetings -- up to the neck,

Lorenz

 

Incidentally, this is a thread repetition... we had two similar threads on the wife topic in summer 2008, namely this one and this one, too.

You may wish to have a look at those two for answers.

Wiggling naked toes, barefoot all over,

~*Ganesha*~

 

As I said, this guy is obsessed with this one issue. I think his obsession is much more interesting than the topic itself!

I see that in one of the previous threads he did give his three answers to the question, and various people including me pretty much said that he was wasting everyone's time. But what the hell, there's a lot of vile stuff going on in the world, and he's enjoying himself in a harmless way. I'd still like to hear what it's all about, but I don't think he'll explain.

 

i do'nt mind,females see me nude as well,the only thing is,she has my wedding ring on her finger,and i have hers.the human body is best naked,and clothing brings deviding and status.What if Barak Obama ir seen naked...doeshe not have a penis,and his wife a vagina....in my book,it makes them human.

 

you should just ask them why your wife is willing for other women to see their husbands also? It does go both ways, so paranoia can't really play a part in it without sounding a bit hypocritical.

 

Should it bother me? Granted my wife isn't a nudist but even if she was, why should it bother me for other men to see her nude? It doesn't bother me for them to see her dressed.

 

The thought that comes to mind is that it should be her choice.

 

I would say,

Grow the fuck up.

 

My husband and I are casual nudists at home, but both of us have modeled nude in the past. Not the same thing, obviously, but try nudism in Missouri. For one, COLD, and for another, rather illegal.

Anyway, there's a huge difference between nudity and sexuality. In the art studio, no one's thinking about sex... except maybe that one frat boy who kept drawing me with Barbie's proportions. Oi.

 

Hard to beat that one !

I became a nudist at age 18 and took my lovely bride to a nudist resort for our 2nd date when we were 19 ( and asked her to marry on the ride home )

Take Care and Stay BARE

D and D​

 

I don't allow my wife to go naked in front of other men ... it is her choice and I have nothing to say about it. That said, it doesn't bother me for other men to see her naked. She is a beautiful woman and I am proud we can share this lifestyle together.

 

Shouldn't that question being asked to my wife? "Why is she willing for other men to see her naked". As said by a previous poster, i don't own her, it's her choice so why bother asking me.

 

I would have no problem with it at all. I just feel it's a shame that my wife is unwilling to join me at a CO beach.

 

May I repeat a previously submitted reply:

"Grow the f*ck up."


Go to one of the MANY lame nudist sites on the net ( as opposed to the FEW good ones ) and continue this rant ( that you probably type with one hand while you ..... )


As if wives involved in nudism are "peep show" attractions and their husbands are giving something away they should be compensated for

 

It's her body, not mine. I'm married to her but I do not own her, she has a mind of her own and I respect her decisions as she does mine. Jealousy in a nudist family has no place.

 

This theme or ones like it are common across many forums. The general advice is simply let her go as far as she is comfortable with. At the end of the day you have to ask yourself which is more important to you - your marriage or your need to go nude. Most wives don't mind you nude in bed and around the home even though they may choose to be clothed. They will generally come along to CO beaches and though they may stay costumed not object to you going nude. If they decide to join in then regard that as a bonus. I've been to a number of CO beaches and you notice couples where only one partner is nude ( sometimes the male partner is the one clothed, though more often the female partner is the clothed one); the majority of couples are both nude. It is her choice and you must respect it.

Remember if other men ogle your wife other women may ogle you - that just goes with the territory and is something we just don't ever worry about. It is rather flattering to be found attractive.

Finally can you honestly say that you never notice attractive people of the opposite sex on a nude beach and may be just hope they might notice you. Of course you just notice ....