4skin...are you also on the www.imasturbate.org forums? I'm just wondering, because the name sounds very familiar.
Because, for some, it is a part of love making. There isn't much really to understand. If it isn't your thing, oh well, move on.
Look HushBull, I am not trying to pick a fight or make fun of anybody’s sexual preferences. I really would like to understand. Why? Because even at my age there is much to learn. Many many years ago a sex-partner of a couple of years, very shyly asked me if I would try to pee while erect inside her. I had heard of water-sports before, had mildly thought it was kind of strange that urine would be pleasurable to somebody, and had never thought about it again. She explained how she fantasized the heat would feel, the fullness, the excitement to doing something forbidden and maybe “kinky” and how long she had wanted to try it. We did … and I grew to really enjoy it although it never became something I lusted after. A few years after this lady I had another friend … the first time we had sex and she orgasmed …. she released about an ounce of urine. It really embarrassed her to tell me that it happened with every orgasm and she was unable to help it. It was easy for me to accept and I didn’t tell her about my previous experience. A few days later she was straddling my face …. getting a moustache ride so to speak …. when she started saying oh oh oh … getting close to cumming … she tried to pull away … I held tightly so that she couldn’t pull away …. she orgasmed and squirted an ounce or so of hot urine on my chin and I worked on her clit with my mouth …. and when she realized that I accepted her went on to have one of the most humongous orgasms that I have ever witnessed! If the first lady had never explained to me the whys of liking it, then I never (and the other lady would never) have experienced that tumultuous orgasm! But if your preferences embarrass you, please don't feel pressured to respond. I like to know!
If you're going to ask questions about cumming on your lover's face, you may as well ask why do people titty fuck? Why do people do Anal(have you ever seen an anal porn site? It's just as degrading if not more)? Why do you do oral at all? It is what it is, a sexual act. It can mean many different things to many different people. There isn't really a true reason other than the preference of the individual. I'm not advocating doing it against someone's will, but if both partners want to then why the hell shouldn't they?
Yea, I'm not interested in fighting, this thread is about fucking after all. Just simply stating that there isn't anything to "understand"... It's human sexuality, what more do you want? Kinks and pinks, that's it.
You're pretty young ... and I hope that the years bring you to understand that there is a lot more to human sexuality than just acting on our animal instincts. I feel that I have been learning about my sexuality for over sixty years and every year I know more and find more pleasure. I hope that it turns out the same for you. Keep an open mind and play safe!
If we were truly basing our judgements and acts of sexuality on animal instinct, we would not have oral sex(this includes any other sexual acts) at all. Instead, intercourse would be the only thing involved, it would last only long enough for the male to get his jollies off, and that would be the end of it. Humans have a much wider range of emotions than our animal bretheren, and because of this we're able to express ourselves and our feelings in a multitude of different ways. If two people are willing, there is no difference between one sexual act from another, because the feeling(when talking about love) is the same.
... Being as it is a innate quality in every person, for whomever to decide what is for them and how to view it, my 'not understanding' is my understanding. Okay? Yes, your sexuality, and how you perceive it. That's the only way to stay in the game.
I can get into any sexual activity that I consider as being 'natural' (that is to say, not involving bondage, role play, S&M, etc. - just being naked & getting down to it). This can involve straightforward intercourse, oral or anal, with male or female partners - none of which I see as being degrading in any way whatsoever. However, the one thing I find degrading above all others (and this is just my personal view - I am not saying anyone else is right or wrong) is the use of foul language, particularly in the definition of anatomy or sexual activity. I find the correct terminology has a beauty all of its own which enhances the whole experience. Why is it that there seems to be such a need to replace correct terminology with such crudities?
Interesting PIneMan! I’m trying to imagine being in the throws of passion and moaning, “Oh sweetheart, your vagina makes my penis feel so good when we have intercourse just like this!” Hard to bring it into focus. Again, I must be dense because I need more explanation. Oh, and these kids with their dirty mouths that think foul talk makes them seem more grown-up really bother me too. No need to tell you to have fun and play safe … I think you already know both!
I always kiss my partners to but out of respect or something they normally go and grab water give it a quick rinse out but i am a insanely touchy feely kisser i love kisses
Laughing! I'm sure that you won't believe me, but I can't remember more than half a dozen times when reading a forum post was sexually exciting to me. I usually masturbate twice a day, and use video clips and mental images for stimulation .... not the written word. In fact, IMO, a guy that gets sexually excited reading by reading forum posts from a bunch of horny teenagers is a tad strange .... but to each his own! Have fun and play safe!
gumball - - I won’t refer to you as an immature jerk because that would be rude, but it does seem to me that you do have some sexually related sexual problems that maybe will take care of themselves over time. “horny teenagers” post everywhere on the world wide web! I know of only one masturbation oriented web site that actively discourages under 18 participation, and that is where is spend most of my time. I come here sometimes just because it’s fun and informative. I’ve given you a lot more respect and attention than I think you deserve Gumball …. At this point I think that we should stop responding to each other’s posts. Deal? and feel free to respond to my smart-mouth remarks in bold above .... I will read them and probably get a smile .... but won't respond ...