Because the wife doesn't want sex

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by topper, Apr 1, 2008.

  1. topper

    topper Member

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    Have you tried bi play, since you aren't getting any at home? Has the thought entered your mind?
     
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  2. franzde

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    have you?
     
  3. nipers

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    Yes I have thought of it and have jerkedoff with a few guys. Soom I am going to suck the one guy thats cool:eek:
     
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  5. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    How do you go from "my wife doesn't want sex I better try bisexual trends"?

    I mean if you're going to cheat on her anyway, why not with another woman?

    Hence, "my wife doesn't want sex" is a pretty lousy excuse to experiment. Just admit it. You want to try cocks. ;)
     
  6. Bi in Atlanta60

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    I'm a 60 year bi marrried man. My wife and I maybe have sex once a month. But that's not the reason I'm bi. The reason I'm Bi is I like to suck cocks and get fucked in the ass! If my wife and I had sex more than we do, that fact would not change.
     
  7. averageguy6

    averageguy6 Average Ordinary Guy

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    The wife and I don't have sex anymore. But that's not why I'm oral bi. I just like sucking cock, licking balls and swallowing cum, what can I say.
     
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  8. Bichimp67

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    Amen to that amigo!
     
  9. The wife and I don't have sex anymore but I have been sucking cock and taking it in my ass from the age of 13
     
  10. Downonthemuffin

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    Still have sex with the wife but not as much as in the past, have been bi curious since high school but never acted on it. Watching 2 guys go at it makes me hard and wet, so fucking hot.....
     
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  11. LowHangers

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    "Bro-Jobs" are considered by most married men to simply be a quick and easy release not considered to be cheating...I don't fully agree, but most of the married guys I've sucked off felt this way. Having another guy suck them off "in their minds" was not cheating. I never questioned their thinking as we were both getting what we wanted. Most were still having sex with their wives but not enough to satisfy their needs so I was available to them when they wanted/needed a great blowjob superior to what their wives could provide.
     
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  12. Daretobare

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    I'd say the lack of sex with my wife anymore has moreso enhanced my curiosities of sex with a male aquaintence of mine. We have had some simple play a couple times. Wouldnt label myself all out bi though.
     
  13. KW67

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    I have considered bi-play more lately than ever. And most likely it is because I am not getting any at home. But, to be fair, until recently I had a relatively limited libido, so she often complained about not getting any. She even confessed to having several affairs while I was away on military orders. Often the confessions made me aroused, which I guess is what she wanted anyway. I forgave her of those indiscretions years ago, so I don't believe my desire now is some sort of revenge. I think it's more convenient now to explore that side, as she is often tired or having headaches or on her period again (her timing is all screwed up thanks to brain surgery) or any combination thereof. She knows I'm Bi, and also knows I wouldn't do anything physical with anyone without her knowing about it first.
     
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  14. Lovnflman

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    Does not getting any at home effect my desires? Yes and no. I had curiosities since my youth. My first sexual experiences were with my neighbor in HS. We went camping and while looking at some porn mags we both got horned up enough that we ended up blowing each other......three times that night. Our bro jobs continued frequently through most of college. Then I finally got a serious gf and never looked back. Regular sex with her and subsequent other women never had me thinking about mm sex. My current wife of 20+ years was intatiable and became more open minded for a few early years. We watched porn together that included MFM, lesbian and gay. Uh oh! Wife got turned on by the gay porn and that led to pegging. She had a one night stand with a bi female married aquaintance. Over the course of about a year we had several MFMs with the same close friend. After one such MFM she suggested finding a bi guy for an MMF! We never found the right guy but the switch in my mind was tripped on. It was hot since we BOTH wanted a bi guy to share. Then her switch was flipped OFF......no more MFM, porn, pegging.......even the vanilla sex was less and less frequent. Now it is nonexistent. I still have fantasies of being an oral bottom and they just get stronger. My wife has a gay friend that I'd love to be with. Tall, handsome, fit and experienced. Who better to show me the ropes.
    If my wife would return to her old horny self I'm sure those mm thoughts would be repressed, but they'd still be there, especially when she wears her cock!
     
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  15. BiRob

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    Pretty well my story...
     
  16. Biodome1980

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    I sleep with my gay buddy because my wife doesn't want it very often. It's not what made me bisexual tho. I have been (at bare minimum) experimenting with other men since I was young.
     

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