A, I'm not going to spend an hour reading 10 pages of thoughts on divorce, there's probably a lot of good information there but I'd learn nothing. As someone who has been through it twice and is not currently having fun in marriage #3, let me impart upon you a tad bit of humorous wisdom: Divorce is financially draining, morally bankrupt, physically straining and emotionally costly. Know why? In most cases it's worth it.
LOL...I've heard something similar, Zoomie, but more simply put: "Why is divorce so expensive? Because it's damn worth it."