I would put this in the genitallia forum but when push comes to shove i wont. I would like to know how many people are 100% happy with the size/shape/girth/colour(well glans etc)/are you comfortable showing it off (gym etc)
Im not totally comfortable with it but to be honest i dont think i ever would be not matter the size, shape etc. personally i am comfortable with my penis when i am with a partner who is happy with it, thats all i need to be comfortable with my penis, which i kind of sad i need some one elses approval but when im not with a partner i dont often think about it. As for showing off in gyms etc. i've never really been that comfortable with my nudity around men, or in general unless i am alone or it is a sexual situation.
Here's a CUTE little joke I heard once that says it ALL as far as MEN go. A man meets a woman in a bar. Things go well. He invites her to his place for some fun. She accepts the invitation. They casually undress in full lighting. She see's the size of his miniscule manhood, and asks: "Who do you plan on pleasing with that???? To which he calmly replies: "ME!!!" WORKS FOR ME!!!!! LoL!
I'm uncut & throughout my "sexual career" I was always a litle self-concious about it. Especially the first time getting in bed with a woman. Mostly because I knew the majority of men are cut,the chances of most women seeing or having been with a guy who was uncut were probably slim to none (at least in my mind). But there hasn't been one single woman that I've been with that have ever made a comment about it or even disliked it. I'd say more than a few of them even preferred it or liked that it was different than what they've usually had. It's actually amazing to me that women are at least educated or familiar with uncut cocks in that they have more feeling & maybe even a little more size. I'm a grower not a show-er. Meaning I'm below average (even though,I don't know what the average flaccid cock is,but I'm about 4") when flaccid but when erect I'm get above 8". I used to think that I could use at least another inch in girth but in the past few years,that idea's been shot down by just about every woman by saying that I'm thick enough. So with all that,you could say that I love my own cock.
I'm fine with my penis. I've never really considered showing it off, even in the gym. I didn't think that it was the kinda thing that people show off. And besides, it's pretty average as far as penises go. Not quite sure how I know that, as I've never really compared with anyone, let alone enough people who have a decent basis for comparison to "average". But I don't think about it too much. I'm a little upset that someone cut a piece of it off when I was an infant, though.
LOL! I had a "friend with benefits" years ago and I used to make fun of his "mini-member", which he was pretty comfortable with. Yeah, he was tiny, but we had lots of fun anyway. Thanks for making me think of him.
I watched an episode of "King of Queens" the other day that I think represented this really well...or at least, the effect of this topic. In the episode Kevin James ((Doug) (the main character & independent comedian) sees a picture of his wife, Kary's mother, who is obese. Her father says that they all grow up skinny then just burst after a while (she is fairly skinny, with some "meat" on her). Doug gets really paranoid, mentions something to his wife about her weight, then meets with her sister. He asks her sister "What if I told you that you had put on some weight?" and she freaks out, etc., though he was only trying to guage a woman's reaction. Anyway her sister says to Doug something along the lines of "what if I told you that you were'n't satisfying Kary in bed?" and he freaks out. If you ask any guy, most of them would say that weight is not a significant issue; yes for certain people or in certain situations, but all in all it's not a huge part of how men think of women. I liked it that they showed that the penis size and all that goes along with it, is not really that big of a deal for women, but maybe for certain ones or in certain situations. Each sex has their hang-ups; for men - the penis. Women - weight. Or at least that's how I interpreted it. brad
uncut means he has a foreskin cicumcision apart from being a jewish rite of passage is far more prominent in the us ,well in us porn at least where i dont think ive ever seen a foreskin. in the uk we only lop the foreskin off if there is a problem with it i.e. too tight. id much rather be cut as my lil meat is wrinkly when its flaccid and it would be far less sensitive.
yeh i knew bout the jewish part of it, i didnt realise it was such a big thing in the state, out of every 10 people how common is it??? u learn summat new everyday
to be honest mate apart from the porn i havnt taken a grea interest in us mens dicks. but if its a thing for you im sure theres someone who will help you research it.