Your first tingly feeling

How old were you when you first felt attracted to someone of the same sex?

I was 12 years old. I was standing in the hallway, at school, when I felt a soft hand on my shoulder and then heard this sweet voice say "excuse me". I had always thought she was pretty but, the combination of her hand touching my shoulder and her voice made me feel like I had never felt before about a girl.

 

when i was like six or seven. I remember going to the grocery store with my mom, and thinking about the bag boys . In elementary i had crushes on guys and girls. then once middle school rolled around, i denied that i was gay. Around 8th grade i finally accepted it.

 

I was 6 and I fell in love with a girl in second grade after a boy made her cry. I fantasied about her at night and definitely had tingly feelings! But even before that my mom told me I played with girls, so I think this all goes back before I can remember.

 

I picked 13-15, because that's when I really had a crush on another girl for the first time and admitted it to myself. Looking back now, I think I've had minor crushes on girls earlier, but that might just be my memory fooling me.

 

According to my sex, I've secretly been in love with one of my friends since I began to question my gender; but, that seems more like a possible heterosexual relationship now... I had a crush on a girl during 1st or 2nd grade; she moved away fairly quickly.

 

I was eight years old and had a huge crush on an older man who was in the fifth grade.

 

I used to have supressed crushes, begibnning in 6th grade, but the first time I ever admitted to myself that I did indeed have a crush on another girl was in 7th grade. She was this gorgeous, sweet, and kind-hearted gil named Kate. Shes still intwo of my classes, and I can't help but secretly like her...sadly though, shes straight...

 

*sigh*
when I was 14 in maths class... we've since dated (6 years later)

 

I'm not gay but I'm bi, and if I would have found the right girl, I would be gay, but anyways, I was extreamly little when I started looking at girls in a more sexual way, under age 9 for sure, I though I was sick, and gross and that there was something wrong with me, now I know it was normal but I was attracted to girls way before I was really interested in guys, I thought the female body was way more sexually satisfying to look at. and I should mention that the first time I saw a porno mag was under age nine so that just fueled my curiosity.

 

aww i remember looking at a huge lingerie ad for a really long time and realizing i shouldn't be looking at it for so long, but didn't put it down until my mom asked something... i think i was about 9? i'm not sure... i was always scared to like girls, to be gay... i thought i was going to become lesbian when i was about 14ish i believe.. but made myself only think of boys.. and i do like boys now.. but have finally come to terms with it being okay to like girls sexually too, even if some ppl think it's weird or gross. oddly, i've never had a problem with gay guys, but gay girls made me nervous... i think i was homophobic because i thought i could be turned so easily.. does that make sense? anyway, still never had an experience with a girl.. and i can't really answer the question... never had a proper crush on a girl. never let myself.

 

I had a major girl-crush that started in grade 7. Her name was Marla, and she was beautiful in that way that guys don't always notice... but I noticed from the first time a saw her. We were in a lot of the same clubs and organizations (she was a grade ahead of me), but I was always to shy to talk to her.... and I am not a shy person. It got to the point that by high school I was a blushing, mumbling idiot whenever she was around... I swear, I think she thought I had a mental defect or something.

I had other girlfriends and boyfriends, but could never talk to her. She became somesort of super-sex-goddess. lol. Haven't seen her since the summer of 95... but she was wearing a pair of cut off shorts while mowing her lawn... etched in my memory. lol.

 

His name was Jeffrey. He was an only child of two parents who worked. He mastered the Evelyn Wood reading program and knew EVERYTHING about electronics and chemistry. He showed me B&W str8 porn before we had to take a high school entrance exam. He was skinny and hyperverbal and had imagination that sometimes left the planet. He also had a love for addictive drugs that finally caused him to take his own life.

 

I dunno if I've ever had tingly feelings when I was younger and with a girl... it started with thinking about them away from them (blush)
I remember noticing how beautiful their hands were though
I'm bi, by the way

 

11 I guess. Didn't really admit it to myself until I was a bit older though....even though I had a girlfriend from 11 - 12.....still didn't really click

 

I guess I always was kind of attracted to girls, but it didn't really click till I was 13. My only major crush was my sophomore year of high school, on a girl who was a senior that year. We were on the rowing team together, so I saw her a lot and really missed her when she graduated. I wasn't really okay with liking girls till this past year, though.

 

my first crush on a girl was in 7th grade, she was a year older than me and fucking drop dead gorgeous, smart, nice, and outgoing, a rare combo, she still goes to school with me, but i'm not attracted to her now....... as of right now and the past couple years i have this major crush on a chick that is two years older than me, her name is jeni, we played in the jazz band for two years together, i was the drummer and she was the bassist, so we developed a rhythm section bond thing......she just graduated, but i still talk to her, i have a feeling she is bi like me, but i've been afraid to ask her about it.........she's very free-spirited, and opinionated, not to mention she was the smartest person in her class, a major turn on.....we used to hang out a lot and i had the feeling that she was into me, she took me on what i guess you could call a couple of "dates", because it was a little more than two friends hanging out.....i'm still a bit scared to ask her though

 

wonder how come only 3 guys have responded 2 this poll and 15 girls or something have? is this topic 'girly'? anyway, like many here i was under 9. god, possibly under 6

 

james q, my suspicion is that there are more female readers and posters in this forum than males. There are more commercial sites out there with a gay male focus than there are lesbian ones, so perhaps some gay men find more of what they want in those sites than they might here.

 

i was 9 or 8. i was at school and i was running and bumped into this guy and fell on him and when i looked up to him to say sorry i froze as soon as i met his gaze. And during that time the whole thing felt so right, i can't really describe it.....

 

Ive had an attraction towards older men as long as I can remember. Still do to this day. Some people might say it's because I was molested as a child. Nope, never happened. Some might say that I never had a good relationship with my father. Always been close to my father and still am to this day. So why do I prefer older men? Dont know just do. They dont seem to mind.