When I was 7 to age 12 me and my best friend used to play "games" we are both girls, grown up now and both in college. We have not seen each other or spoken in years. We just seemed to lose touch. We used to play house or school and we ended up to start kissing each other. We'd touch and dry hump and do things that you shouldn't do. I recently noticed my mind wandering and thinking about it constantly. I want to private message her on facebook or something, ask how she has been than give her my number and tell her I have to ask her a question. I want to know if she remembers anything that I don't..see if she even remembers it at all? I just don't want it to be weird. Should I ask her?!! HELP
Meh. I don't think you should ask her. Kids play, I'm sure it wasn't a big deal. Why bother the girl....
I think if you two talked more often, then asking wouldn't be too serious. But I wouldn't ask her out of the blue.
Don't ask her please. There's just things you should never bring up unless you know she will be cool about it. I did some stuff in the pass I never brang up
Yeah...I don't think I'm just going to e-mail the neighbor kids I knew out of the blue and be like, "Hey, remember those times when we used to show each other our junk?" It's something kids do, it doesn't mean anything, and bringing it up now just might make her embarrassed or uncomfortable.
What happen when you were 7-12 would be very young. Why asume she would want to do some thing now? I had the same situation, but we were 15 at the time. We did alot of touching and kissing, but never got down to the nitty-gritty. I done this with several other girls, during my h.s. years. When I was 19, I had my first full experience. It was a lady a couple of years older. She took charge, I never resisted. I used this experience to seduce my friend, but she was very willing. It turned out to be a one time thing. I'm not saying not talk to your friend, but go about it slowly. Jan
Unless you are struggling with your own sexuality and need to talk to her to make sense of what happened, I wouldn't talk to her. Even if you're not struggling, it would just likely be uncomfortable, especially since you'd be asking straight out of the blue!
Unless you know she is lez. or bi , as an adult , I would just send her an email asking how she was doing .
She will remember just as you do.....even if she says she doesn't. If she acts like she doesnt it just means she's embarrassed by it.
