You mind to be watched musturbating?

Just had this discussion with my female friend online about what to do on our next physical meeting when I suggested I like to see her rubbing herself high - and she gave me a BIG NOOOO!

I am a little surprised. Otherwise she is pretty open. Likes active and passive oral, likes a bit of backdoor. Likes toys, she even holds the vibe while I like or finger her.

Is being watched while masturbating really such a big thing?

In all fairness, I'm not to keen being watched by a friendly girl wanking, but wouldn't mind if asked nicely, and even did to cut short a poor hand skill.

 

Depends how well it's done, lol.

 

I don't mind -- but I've heard quite a lot of people do.

Makes no sense to me if you're already sexual with the person.

 

It has never bothered me, but for some reason women especially do not seem to like it much.

 

I love it I like to see how people get themselves off it's like a window into who they are

 

I don't mind at all, it makes for one hell of a tease and I get a little thrill out of having the audience

 

There was one time with a former girlfriend of mine (still on good terms) when we were unable to have full sex because of it being her time of months, so we resorted to mutual masturbation instead.

Now the thing is was that she had left her abusive husband who had also only ever used her sexually for his own pleasure (push it in, pull it out & wipe it), and despite her having had 4 children, it appeared that she had neither experienced masturbation before, neither on herself nor with her partner, and accordingly she had never experienced an orgasm, nor had she ever witnessed one, so when I brought her to orgasm by hand, it was a totally novel, mind-blowing new experience for her, as it was when she saw me shoot my load onto her breasts. Obviously she knew about the technicalities of the biological ins & outs of what was happening, but this was a first that a partner had gone out of his way to share the pleasure of the experience, which, to be honest, really boosted the personal satisfaction level for me exponentially.

 

I like my wife watching me, turns me on. I wouldnt feel comfortable with some random watching me though. I watch my wife regularly. We do it together at least a couple of times a week. Last night i was having trouble busting a nut when we were having sex so i pulled out and started wanking right in front of her face. I moved back as i was about to cum to cum on her tits, but it shot out into her hair LOL. She wasnt too impressed with that haha. Im not usually so projectile.

 

I have always enjoyed masturbating while my wife watched. I would always try to get a rise out of her by doing something different. She would always watch because she was facinated by the amount of cum that I ejaculate.
I did it once just so a friend could see that my wife wasn't lying. Jerking off as two women just sat and watched is kind of intimidating but very freeing.:sunny:

 

Love to be watched, in person or on cam. It is so hot, love to be told what to do!

 

Yes~ adult theaters are HOT for that.

 

I didn't realize watching could be done well or badly.

 

I've done it live & on webcam.. love it.. I think the issue some have is "letting go" when you climax.. it's like revealing all..

 

Is this when you use Mustard instead of hand gel?

 

I had the same situation. I dont mind a girlfriend seeing me do it but I dont like strangers seeing me doing any bodily functions. Which is slightly strange being a nudist and all.

 

I'm always down to be watched. I like doing cam to cam while I'm at work knowing someone can walk in at any minute, haha...
I love when a girl is down with it as well. Gotta have a partner to work with.

 

loved being watched.. by accident.

 

I love been watched and if anyone wants to watch they can PM me..

 

watching gives me clues how to do it better.