When you engage in Anal Sex, do you prepare yourself for the experience ? How? Jumping right into it can have devastating results if you don't know what you are doing. Feeling comfortable and clean makes it a much more pleasureable experience. When I'm visiting, I don't like otther company there. Neither does she.
I don’t do much to prepare other than a shower. I know my body and if it’s a good time or not. Sometimes you just know it’s not the right time. Never had any issues
With my first wife I found that once I've been eating her ass for 5 minutes without her stopping me I was getting in there. After a 20-minute rimming of her ass she would be begging me to fuck her in the ass.
After eating my wifes ass and teasing with a finger,she uttered "put your cock in there". Knowing how good the little things felt anally, she Had to feel it in her ass.
We would enjoy doing many things orally and vaginally in many different positions during sex, and most times she would orgasm first to then roll over having ridden me pretty long and get in the doggie position and say, now it's your turn to orgasm. I would penetrate her soaking wet pussy as I worked her juices up to her sexy rose bud with my thumb and message it with slight penetration before pulling out of her and started rimming her into some quite loud moans of pleasure before working my raging hard cock into her ass. Just working the head in and out gave her so much pleasure as she would eventually say go in further babe, and before long all 8" of me was deep inside her and she was loving it as she would have two more orgasms before I finally dropped mine balls deep in her ass and kept myself there as I softened up to eventually pull out. She did love anal sex, having experienced it myself some twenty years later I fully understood why.
One of my friends prepares. The other doesn't and doesn't have to. Both are fine and both love something in their bottoms as part of the whole evening. Everyone is different.