You had to try it, at least once.

Would you try something, at least once, before condeming it. Did your curiosity get the better of you? Was it a Positive experience or disaster?

 

I'm 52 and male. My interest in guys has evolved slowly over the years. There was a time where I said that I would "never" suck a cock. Well, that promise is long gone. There are still some things that I say I would never do, but, I realize that my curiosity will probably get the best of me.

 

Boy that was a slippery slope!

 

You never know what you will do until the situation presents itself. Never thought about sucking another guys cock until an impromtu MFM occured. While laying back on the bed getting a bj from the woman, our other friend moved from fucking her to joining her sucking my cock . When he moved from his knees, to laying on his side, his hard cock was right in front of my face. The thought of sucking it went through my mind, but I didn't act on it until the woman held his cock up and presented it to my lips. It wasn't my intention, but why not? I took it into my mouth and sucked it. We went on until we both came on her face. You never know what you will do until you do it. Didn't suck a cock for 40yrs, before trying again. On both occasions, the women prompted the experience and were turned on by it.

 

Same for me, never thought about it, then I did begin to think about it, and did it. Found i loved it

 

I would never condemn any fetish or sexual preference, other than the obvious like underage or non consensual violence. I'm a live and let live kind of guy and like those above have learned to never say never. Well... maybe scat... I can't see me ever wanting to try that, I find the idea repellent, but hey, if it is your thing you go for it, just don't waste your time trying to convert me.

 

Like many other men I said to myself I'd never suck another man's cock. Well, now I'm highly skilled at it and love doing it.

 

Not as versed as you, but Im glad I gave it careful consideration and have enjoyed all of my experiences.

 

“I’d never” has been something I’ve said all along my bi journey. I’d never watch gay porn, I’d never want a real cock, I’d never kiss a guy, I’d never lay on my back for a guy. I don’t really say that now…I just know where my limits are I guess.

 

Never say never.

 

I had been bi for a few months and accepted that I liked sucking cocks. I was still telling myself that I would never be fucked... but my girlfriend liked it, and he had talked me into my first bi experience.
So I found myself giving into curiosity and as our clothes were coming off I was becoming very aroused. My girlfriend starts living me I was still nervous and thought I might say no at the last moment.
The guy wasn't huge, he was experienced and took his time.
I would probably never have done it if my girlfriend wasn't there, watching and directing the action. What a great time!

 

It's not any different than trying anything for the first time. Remember what your mother would say when putting something new to eat on your plate? You only had to take one bite. I have always used that when trying something before condemning it. The biggest obstacle in your life is being afraid to try something. Your curiosity is there although you still hold back. In this theme it is social pressure. But we're watching gay marriage being performed, laughing at predicaments gay people get into (The Bird Cage movie), and cheering the family of same sex parents. A same sex situation has not presented itself to me but if it ever does I'll have a taste to see if I like it. One never knows.

 

I never like to try something just once. I'll usually try it about three times before saying that I don't like it. Sometimes either my top or I might have been having an off day. I mean, it's the bottoms pleasure to accommodate and seek to please their top.

 

I tried a dildo up my ass way back, thinking I'd hate it and it turned out I loved it. Trying to talk my wife into giving it to me that way.
Tried sucking a cock and loved that too.

 

These posts sound encouraging! As some of you might know, I've never done anything at all with a guy but it's been on my mind off and on for years. It sounds more and more as time goes on as something I should try and something I will probably enjoy very much.

 

After I let my girlfriend fuck me with a strap on I didn't think I would let a guy do that. By this time I had been orally bi three years.
When I did let it happen I was unsure about it, did it again and realized I like it so why the internal struggle?

 

A coworker kept telling me that guys give better head. So I tried it once. Was amazed. Skip to the next day. Coworker asking for head. Tried it once. (Hooked) skip ahead about a week. Coworker telling me how good anal feels. After a little rimming and teasing, tried it once. I have learned after 10 years of bi/gay sexual experiences that what may sound scary or something that you swore was off limits may be something that you absolutely love. All my “all try it just once…” have been memorable and something I’ll never regret.

 

I wanna try a mmf 3sum with a hung man wife wants to see me take a nice cock and she wants to join

 

Everything I've done with a someone, male or female, is something that I've tried more than once. Some stuff, like really rough sex, isn't for me but tried it a few times before condemning it. I won't say that I'll never do it again but it'll be the last thing on my mind. Sex with multiple guys; mixed company sex; gave BDSM a try and hated myself afterward because the physical abuse she needed was the kind of stuff that I was taught that men do not ever do to women. She had fun... and I threw up later.

Sometimes, curiosity was involved like, "What would it be like to suck a guy - or eat pussy - and I'm being sucked or fucked?" and then finding out what it's like and, okay, add this to the list of things I'll do! Most of the time, someone else would come up with something I'd not done before and... okay, I'll try it at least once and if I liked it, Iet's do it again! Somethings I won't do because of principle, like watersports; that's what toilets are for and that goes for scat, too.

There aren't that many things I haven't done and won't do. I value the experiences I've had because I'm not afraid to try something new and especially if no one gets hurt from it. If there is something I haven't done, it's probably because I didn't want to do it.